Single Women In Portales, NM

Sharri

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

I've spent the last years building a business and raising a son...I used to say I like to work hard and play hard, with some quiet time in between, but truthfully after years of crazy hours, I'm finding the joy in working smarter *** for myself, my son, enjoying the balance. Room for other things. Passion. Travel. A relationship.I'm fiercely independent, maybe a little stubborn and definitely sarcastic. I consider myself 'evolved', yet realize there is room for much more; that growth is constant and essential to maintaining healthy relationships with self and others... My free time is often spent playing sports, relaxing at home or enjoying friends - good food, good wine and conversation. I believe in laughter, playtime and just pure silliness at any and every age! Simple things. I am very much an urbanite and love living within walking distance of the beaches, neighbourhoods and restaurants that make up our beautiful city. My preference is to meet someone with a similar geography but one never knows with love... Although i am 'sporty' and enjoy the outdoors, I'll take a 4 star over camping any day! Sweats and pretty dresses and everything in between. This Gemini likes it all :)Ideally you prefer playing sports to watching them (I won't begrudge if you watch and may join you for some but otherwise will likely make other plans to occupy my time) You are health conscious and maintain a balance of quiet times and social events. You are active, a good communicator, confident and responsible. You're open to, desiring even, a relationship yet patient enough to let it evolve naturally...Although I may enjoy the flirtations of written word, and can form an opinion on a photo and a few exchanges, I am a firm believer that personal presence is required to truly get a feel for someone. So let's leave the endless *** grab a coffee, if there's chemistry we can take it from there... Coffee and a walk, something short and sweet to see if we connect.

Judy

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

Hippie chick looking for love....

Kyung

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

Man it's like kijiji on here. So much to weed through to get to the good stuff!Well let me open with this. I'm tall, 5'10". So, in all fairness you should know, that unless you're 6'1", and I mean really 6'1", I'm not interested. I like to wear my heels occasionally and being taller than my guy makes me uncomfortable. There, I said it. Anybody still reading this?Let me get to the fun stuff then. Here are a few things I'm pretty good at:1) playing the guitar. Scratch that, I suck. But I like to dabble and in my head, I sound awesome. 2) cooking. You like food? Perfect. 3) volleyballI. 4) helping people reach their fitness goals. I'm a personal trainer and boot camp *** I guess you could say I'm really good at yelling at people. (she jokes***being funny. See what I did there? I actually am pretty funny with a quick wit and sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, bonus points baby. 6) listening. I am that friend you can come to if you need to vent, complain or cry. 7) kayaking. Just discovered it this summer and whether it's a river or a lake, I love it. 8) cleaning bathrooms. Just wanted to see if you're reading every word or skimming over it. 9) spooning. Big or little, I'm your girl. Cuddling is highly underrated. 10)... let's kill this list already... kissing! If you are also a good kisser, I think we (our lips) should meet.I take care of myself inside and out and would expect that you do too. If you smoke, are trying to quit, or are in denial (lying) about your smoking, you're not for me. I like men who are fit, active and healthy. I love to watch and play sports which some guys think is pretty cool. I want to travel more in the next few years as there are still many places I haven't been. Live music is one of my fave things. Some concerts I've been to have filled my soul! I'm a warm weather kinda girl and spend as much time outside as possible in that 2 month window we call summer. I'm a mom of two amazing girls. We have lots of fun together and they are my favorite people in the world. My life is good, I'm blessed. Just looking to add a person to it and bring it up a notch. Having said that, I'd much rather be alone than be with the wrong person, for any length of time. I know who I am and what I want. Chemistry is of utmost importance for sure, but true compatibility, I believe, is where the magic happens.Gotta start somewhere though so don't be shy. Talk to me baby!

Cody

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I am an active, fun loving, positive babe. I enjoy dancing, hiking, running, and generally being active. I love to dress up and go out for the evening and I also enjoy relaxing at home with good food and a movie. Looking for a fit, active, passionate, kind hearted gentleman that is looking for a long term relationship.

Branda

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

I'm a passionate artist, living my dream...entrepreneur, business woman/store owner... I've backpacked in over 17 countries, speak enough spanish to get by, dance as often as possible, don't watch television, and still find comfort in a peanut butter and jam sandwich. I love going out to see live music, travel to other cities to study various dance forms, and adore going to costume parties. My life's work is designing and creating works of art that bring happiness to people's lives. Pretty satisfying. A dream I chased for over 20 years. One day when time presents itself I would love to study fine arts...in other countries ;) My body is my temple...I take great care in eating well and organic, and I'm physcally fit.You...Do you enjoy outdoor music festivals of the electronic kind...ever been to Burning Man or have it on your bucket list....have a passion for adventure....love to dream... have a desire to learn partner dancing (salsa/swing/tango), if any of this resonates with you definitely drop me a line! Fresh oysters and wine....go out salsa dancing (that could be painful, maybe not)...stick to the oysters ;)

Brittney

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

looking someone that dosnt need to fixed has all their ducks in a row i do not want children but if u have would be ok i love animals but not a collector LOL i can be kind of a smart ass i do try to keep it in check thou i work hard so i expect prospects to do as well i am a bigger gal but i can still shop in the stores and dont have to make my own clothes i said i wound try but the cheekyness just comes out so why give a gal a try and message me something public for your safety hee hee

Jerry

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

Giving this another try...what's the worst that can happen right!? I'm going to give this area some thought because I really should be asleep...so..to be continued...after a night of sleep and an entire day of driving...i'll have something super funny and witty laced heavily with sarcasm for you to read. I promise :-P Coffee, coffee and more coffee while just talking and getting to know one another. Or a beer in a pub...whatever sounds good to us both

Ocie

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

I'm looking for real connection, because I haven't experienced much of that. I want to understand you and take some responsibility for your happiness, and have you do the same. This doesn't mean we can't have some separate interests or time with other (same-sex) friends. I'm looking to include you as part of the necessary fabric of my life. To compliment, enrich and be at peace with each other. I value hugs and small thoughtful surprises. My dog is a border collie cross. I've had birds, fish and dogs in the past. I like cats, and sometimes house-sit two for a friend. My experience with children is limited as I am the youngest in my branch of the family. I think their honesty, openness and curiosity is refreshing, and that their energy level is exhausting. I tend to treat them like little people with inexperience and little emotional control who need consequences for their actions in order to learn and grow. This means positive reinforcement (praise and/or reward) for good decisions, and consequences (time out, loss of privilege or corrective action) for bad decisions. My parents made time for me which included things like games after dinner, and a vacation alone with my mom. Things I cherished, which I would try to carry forward.I am not interested in being "Friends with Benefits". If friendship develops that far, then you better be "all in". I believe that when you are that close to somebody you give a vulnerable piece of yourself away. If there is no commitment, then that piece is lost and crippling pain seeps into your life. This affects all relationships, and the ability to live life with maximum joy. If you disagree, then move on and do not contact me.Trust in God people, be honest and open with others, and especially to yourself (which can be difficult). I wish you all peace and happiness :) "Coffee" date (I drink tea) in public venue, with possibility of going for stroll afterwards.Movies OK, however there should be a coffee date afterwards to discuss the film and other topics...

Evelin

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

~NO SMOKERS PLEASE~I am 43 not 44. Me...Pretty casual.Honest about who I am. I may be full figured but I take good care of myself and always look good! It's the person that I look at and want to meet not someone vain and self centered. This is very important to me. I want to be with someone for who they are and someone that wants to be with me for me, not for what I have! I enjoy being around positive people and living a healthy and positive lifestyle. I am very active and busy with work and travel. Im not into partying or night clubs but love a live band in a pub maybe. I just bought a side by side so lately I have been exploring trails by my house outside of town. There is WAY MORE to me than meets the eye! I grew up poor in a small town, and I not the typical woman that likes to shop all the time. I do that enough for work. I would rather go on road trips and visit friends on the weekend. I'm into traveling, learning how to do some renos on my house and looking forward to sharing my time and life with someone eventually. I have been single for the 6 yrs and have become very in touch with myself and know what I want and don't want. ..~Positive outlook and lifestyle~Adventurous and open thinker~Compassionate and understanding~I don't drink but don't care if you have a couple every now and then. ~I am very allergic to herb and evenly more allergic to cigarette smoke. *Not into rendezvous for sex*Not into friends with benefits*Not into unemployed and dramaI have had a few years of dating experience and I have to say that it's a pleasure meeting most people and I have actually made a few friends from this Site. The rest is simple.... any questions just ask. I'm sure we will find something to do!!

Germaine

• Portales

• New Mexico
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

Easy going,new to dating,only go out accasionally,,love horror movies watching the history or military channel.Not a drinker,but dont care if others do,.looking for a man with some spare time to hang out.lm looking for a long term.l also like gold panning and camping. lm kind of shy and don't want to post all my info online. lm not looking for casual dates or hook-ups,