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Gemini · Looking for: Man, 29–39
I am intelligent and have difficulty suffering utter fools. However, I am also empathetic and caring (sometimes to a fault.) I have a great need to help others that I come in contact with. I am certainly not a saint, but giving is a large portion of my nature. When Christmas comes along, I far more enjoy giving gifts than receiving.I have an innate ability to blend well with many different types of people, and I can often flow with the crowd without losing my own identity. I am an administrator at heart, and I am in my own element when I am organizing and have some form of a leadership role. While being serious comes naturally to me, I am a big kid at heart. I will admit to being caught watching cartoons and goofing off with a wacky and childish sense of humor every once in a while. I am quick to smile, and do not enjoy holding a grudge. I have never learned the art of subterfuge, and therefore, everything I am feeling reflects in my face. I have the tendency to speak my mind openly, and I am a very direct person.Every positive has its negative, and I have mine. Patience has been a learned attribute, and I can have difficulties admitting when I am wrong. I don’t do subtle very well, and I often need to be directly approached if I have made a mistake. Both are things that I consciously attempt to correct, but I do not always succeed. Overall, I have a good sense of myself, and I am confident. I know my strengths, and I attempt to fortify my weaknesses.Right now: I am enjoying life. Making new friends. I am a hiring/HR manager for a security company. I like my job for the most part. I certainly like working with people.I’m really good at:Finding things and figuring out unique solutions to interesting problems. I am a bit of a geek at heart, but I am in no way totally brainy. Ask me to write your resume, not balance your checkbook.The first things people usually notice about meMy smile. I rather like to smile, and I tend to do so quite frequently. She mixes historical fiction with romance and a of bit time travel. It takes her forever to write a new book, because she puts so much into her research. I am a big fan of comedy shows. I do not get the opportunity to go often, but I really enjoy Hilarities 4th St.My taste in music is all over the map. I enjoy a lot of 80's stuff, but I am not confined to one era. With the exceptions of hard-core rap and old-time country, I like nearly everything.Food and I have the typical love-hate relationship. I love food, and then I hate myself later. I have been told I am a good cook, and I like to try new things. Mediterranean has to be my favorite ethnic food, but I like nearly anything as long as it is not too hot (spicy). I can't enjoy flavor if my mouth is on fire.I love white wines, and especially enjoy local wines. I recently had the opportunity to go on a wine trail through the NE part of the state. I got to sample a variety of flavors and ranges of quality. Ohioans surprisingly have access to an amazing source of genuinely good local wine.The six things I could never do without:1) My cell phone: I like to stay connected, but I am not glued to my phone like some people I see on a daily basis.2) My computer: I am an information hound...when I have to know something, I have to look it up right then and there.3) Soap: I like being clean...call it an odd affinity for not smelling bad.4) Hair care products: My hair is naturally curly, and is impossible to take care of without some serious "essentials."5) My car: I enjoy my freedom.6) Coupons: I love getting the best deals and saving money.I spend a lot of time thinking about:My job and the next new thing I would like to try.On a typical Friday night I am:I would rather be working on a hobby or out with friends doing something constructive. The bar or night-club is not the typical place to find me. I don't mind having 1 drink once in a great while, but loud music and poor lighting is not my scene.The most private thing I’m willing to admit:I am divorced. There is no hiding it. I was married for 7 years. I got married way too young to a man who didn't know what being faithful means. I don't make mistakes, I just learn very costly lessons.I’m looking for: Guys who like girls Ages 29–39 Near me Who are single For new friends, long-term datingYou should message me if:You are intelligent. I crave deep conversation about various topics. Much to my deficit, I have difficulty relating to anyone that is not as intelligent or more so than I. I know at this point I sound like a stuck-up b*%#h. However, I reached a point in my life that I know what I want for a life partner. I have figured what works and does not work for me.The final crucial traits I am searching for is ambition and a solid work ethic. I want much from life, and I work very hard toward my goals. I expect a man to do the same.The guy I am looking for would be open to try different things at least once, and is willing to engage in some give-and-take when it comes to activities. He would have a deep sense of responsibility and be dependable, but also would know how to relax when the situation calls for it.Overall, I am looking for a mature man with the ability to laugh. A natural curiosity and an interest in learning new and different things is also very attractive. Most importantly, my ideal man would have the natural ability to think of others first before himself.On a physical note, I have an affinity for men with a "larger build." I like men with "meat on their bones." Physical appearance is not horribly important to me, but absolute slobs need not respond. My ideal guy would be at least be able to climb a normal set of stairs without being red in the face. Overall my ideal guy would be aware of his physical appearance, but not obsessed with it.You should message me if you meet the first 2 crucial traits. The rest is pure gravy.I have a lot to offer the right man. I genuinely love to give all that I have to those I trust. I enjoy making others smile and will actively try to make the day brighter for someone else. If you like a home-cooked meal and your favorite beverage waiting for you, I am your girl. Don't bother messaging if you want pretty, thin, and shallow...you won't find it here. I am usually not shy or nervous. I can easily talk to anyone. I would enjoy the opportunity to get to know the person. Therefore, a movie is not ideal. (movies are good places for activites other than talking) I am usually open to most anything at least once. I do prefer the guy chooses what and where for the date. It is very attractive when a guy is polite, but still takes charge.
