Single Men in Glen Carbon, Illinois

I've looked at a few profiles on this site, & one thing l've noticed as a common denominator(l know, big word right. Not bad for a blonde, eh?) on EACH & EVERY profile is honesty. Everybody wants honesty. Now l'm not saying its a bad thing. I'd like honesty too. But l have 1 question. Why does it seem that when you try to be honest, its a turn-off? It's like" l want you to be honest, but l can't handle the truth when you are". What gives? Are we THAT shallow? I'm getting confused to the point that l feel like a deer caught in the headlights. And trust me, l've seen that look a few times in my career. Its one l've had for 17 years. (NO, not McDonalds, A&W, Wendy's, Wal-.........) l actually had to open a book for my career. Still do every day at work for that matter. So YES, there is direction in my life. Both literally & figuratively. (l know, more big words) Now, for the REALLY scary part. I'm 40(l know, OMFG!!!!! HE'S OLD), 6'3", & 260 lbs. Sorry to disappoint you if you're looking for a "Pretty little Porsche Boxster". I'm designed & built too much to resemble a "Panzer tank".( Blame it on my genetics) Although l am trying to become a slightly sleeker model. As well, in case you haven't noticed, l do have a slightly sarcastic, cynical attitude.(l know, you're thinking "no s**t") But don't take it personally, its just me. Its just that l've to keep my guard up around people lately since a few of them have "ducked under my radar & tried to smash my battle grid". lf you have read this far, then l guess that means you haven't thought of me as a complete ***hole, & have gone running off screaming into the night. And NO, l'm NOT an ***hole, l'm just tired of being burned, & being overlooked & unappreciated. On that note, l do have some redeeming qualities that l am happy to admit to. I like to think of myself as caring; sometimes to a fault which has bitten me in the ass more than once. But please, don't substitute my kindness as a reason to take advantage of me. I won't tolerate it. But l am willing to be caring to the right person. Compassion & respect are not foreign words in my vocabulary. But on that note, l expect the same thing from whoever l'm with. But l am willing to be caring to the right person. I don't go out of my way to hurt people. I've had it happen to me, & l'm not going to do the same thing. Even if they deserve it. But l can be a big, cuddly teddy bear to the right person. All l want is a chance to prove it. Is that too much to ask? So........this is me being honest. Hope l didn't scare you. I would say coffee or a drink but l find that's a bit cliche'. I think an ideal first date would be go go-karting or take a ride on The Mindbender at W.E.M.

I'm a hard working man who doesn't know what a 9 to 5 job is I love my job and currently starting an excavating company with one of my best friends and I'm Looking for someone who understands the dedication and rewards for hard work.I'm a father of two beautiful little ones . I do everything I can to be the best dad I can be whether it's hours at the park or playing Barbie I'm all in . They live mostly with their mom but they need a dad and I do any and everything I can to make sure their happy and loved. I love hanging at home watching movies , l enjoy cooking , bbq's I'm not much for getting dressed up and going out although I'm sure the right woman will change that if she needs too,and I'm good with that if it makes you smile ! Although life is busy I have plenty of time to have a heathy loving relationship and combine our two worlds together .I don't drink ,but I'm not against you having a glass or two of wine or what ever it is but I'm not into drinkers and the drama that comes with it .And come hockey season it's Canucks all the way ! And I grew up playing football in BC so ya lions too !

Where do yah start... Love the outdoors.. bikes and quads in the summer sleds in the winter. I have an amazing job. i still sort of work on the Rigs for a living but Im not a bad guy.. I think?? I know exactly who i am and don't change how i act for different people . I truly believe in karma and being good to those around you. Family is super important to me and i've got a good heart. Those who know me like me... Those who don't can **** OFF!! Who knows?? We can do what ever we feel like. It all depends on you. Good chance you will have fun and be ready to laugh. I'm not you're average guy

Hello. I'm John. Here is a little myself:I'm very funny. I have a great sense of humor and a fairly positive out look on life. I work hard to be happy. I live a fairly balanced life. I love being outdoors. I'm an avid mushroom hunter, fisherman and love to go camping. I also love to cook. I'm inifinately knowledgeable on food, farming and foraging. I travel as much as possible too. I love to explore different cultures and their foods and music. I've traveled my whole life. I lived in India. Ive traveled to several latin american countries.. I'm also an avid reader. I have a Ba in English but I also speak several languages. If your picture is you making a duck face...don't bother. If you are clingy and are not mature. Don't bother. If you think all men cheat. Don't bother. If you can't manage your money. Don't bother. If you don't take care of yourself and lead a somewhat healthy lifestyle. Don't bother. I'm a very well rounded guy and hope to meet a someone with similar interests and who's down to earth. I only cross bridges that I'm at. ;)

I like to live life, and try to love everything. I have strong hands and a big heart. Love to laugh and make others laugh, laughter is the key to life and being happy :) If there is anything else you want to know, just ask. first dates are hard to plan, if it even gets that far lol. but none the less, anything that's fun or quaint to get to know each other.

I am a very easy going person. I do tend to be on the private side. I tend to come off as a little shy at first. I spend a lot of time at work or lost in my own pursuits. There are times where I can be gone for up to 10 days I have been with the same company since I moved here. That was six years ago. As for the facial hair. it is not a permanent thing. I provided another photo of me with out any. Please do not let that be your deciding factor in saying hello..I also have five tattoos.When I am not at work or out of town I tend to spend my time Drawing and painting, I enjoy cooking, so spend a lot of time in the kitchen. My biggest issue with my life right now is that I am the only one in it. I have acquaintances at work and generally that is enough. So I find myself looking for companionship. So, I guess it is time to put myself out there and say hello. I would be happy to answer any questions you may have, feel free to message if you like. The seeds of the future are sown in the first hello. Best of luck and best of wishes in all your adventures and endeavors. That is a decision for two. It is the company one is with, not the place one visits.

I'm enjoy the great outdoors cycling golfing and just relaxing with friends. I am very career orientated try to better my self in business I'm look for someone with same outlook on life single dad of three if it's a problem don't bother I'm a busy man I'm not ask any women on here to be my kids mother they have one I

Hello there. I'm a single man who has his own company and own house which keeps me busy but will make time for that someone who wants to take time to meet me and of course there for after. I'm Divorced and have no children.Not gonna put to much more in here but if you want to know more just go ahead and ask. In not in here to message a lot if two people are intersted in eachother then let's meet instead of the wasted time. Message me

Just go out and live life, and be yourself!! I enjoy spending time outdoors. Music...well I enjoy most music, if it makes you tap your foot then its good. I like hockey, playing slo pitch, golfing, fishing, camping, hanging out with family and friends. Winter time is a good season to watch movies and read novels since its cold and dark most of the time haha I find it tough to fill this description out as its easier to answer questions ppl ask me about myself. So if you have any questions I will be happy to answer them :) Doing something fun and get to know each other better.

Greetings and salutations. Where shall a person begin other than at the beginning? No better place to start. Start at the end and it's likely to be a very short story. I suppose you could say I'm interested in a great many things, though I'll admit there are many things I still have yet to experience. I'm not an experienced traveller but I've seen my share of things. Perhaps my words could be wrapped in a fog, but they're still clear enough to be heard."The most merciful thing in the world - I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents. We live on a placid island of ignorance in the midst of black seas of infinity, and it was not meant that we should voyage far."I've got a good job and I'm comfortable in my career track...and I'm still striving for excellence. But it's not an easy road...lots of work to do. Been a long time...but I'm glad to be back. Always loved it here! I'm on the river walking the trails every chance I get. I enjoy being outside...though I'm not adverse to spending some time with someone special watching a movie...In my spare time I enjoy writing and art...anything creative to be quite precise. And my taste in these things varies as much as my taste in music. Almost anything, except perhaps rap and 99% of country.I came here looking for someone who isn't interested in playing a bunch of foolish games. I tried playing head games with myself once...I lost...and it wasn't pretty. I should say just a few things as well...I'm not looking for a one night stand...I have 2 night-stands already...I don't need anymore. And I'm not looking for perfection...I prefer reality..If it's friends you're after, I'm down with that. But please don't send me a one word greeting. I'll answer any mail I get...except for those. And if I feel there's no chance of anything...I'll be the first to tell you. Like I said...no games.They say youth is wasted on the young...This, in my opinion, is a truth only to those who've relented to becoming old before their time. Misconceptions and bad reception. All a state of mind.Where is youth no further than to seek and gain enjoyment out of simple things?Taken for granted and left empty handed.Becoming passive and pessimistic to a fate you've convinced yourself you no longer control...you shrug your shoulders and say "So be it" because you've given up the dream.Only what most don't realize is that by THINKING you've opened your eyes to reality...you've only let yourself slip away into a deeper dream..one which makes you hate. Envy and greed take over...and passion is tossed to the wolves. What's left besides the dull paces of life?I would prefer to live with passion...to live with the vigour of moments which constantly remind you that you're still alive.Everyone has had one of those moments...and somewhere deep in the back of the mind...deep down in your hearts you long to live those moments again...the echo...of a dream.NEVER WAKE UP...Reality is found in the dream...