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Pisces · Looking for: Man, 47–57
People always come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer we sent up has been answered. And it is now time to move on. When People come into our life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends. LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons: those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway), and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. I am an outgoing and approachable woman who may not necessarily know what I want but I certainly know what I don't want in a partner. I am interested in meeting a young (40-55 year old) fun loving, passionate, kind, tall, non smoking and hard working man who can make me smile. A man who sets goals for himself and strives to meet them. My more serious goals would include seeing my children fullfill their educational dreams, having sleepovers with grandchildren (yet to come) and becoming debt free.My favorite time includes having both of my kids home for supper and board games. I love to hang out with friends, have a quiet dinner, glass of wine or a great movie at home. I love to shop, TJ Maxx and Marshalls are my therapy. Live Music is my passion, especially soul and blues. I can listen to most any genre but have a tough time appreciating rap and hip hop.I do not smoke, actually detest the habit of smoking. I like to have a drink with friends, but hate drunks! I have a BSW and took several classes towards my Masters and most say I am quite intelligent but down to earth. I am not much of a clubber but I enjoy live music at parks, smaller venue shows/concerts, pubs and parties. Pictures only!!! I get disappointed when adults make the decision to post a picture of a young child. It is unfair to them because they are usually unaware and even if they are aware you have posted their picture on a dating site, they are likely unable to give informed consent. it's just not cool. As a mother, I would not want my ex posting pictures of our children on a dating site.Education and music lover are very important attributes. Smoking, cheating and dishonesty are deal breakers!!!While I entered I have an average body type, I would have put "super tall and curvy" if it were an option, lol. I am over 6 feet tall, so please be tall yourself. One's physical looks are not as important to me as their character and integrity. But I do LOVE a nice upper arm, but it is certainly is not a requirement.Sound interesting? After we have sucessfully made it through the "meet and greet" I am up for anything that allows us to get to know each other and enjoy ourselves. Drives up the coast are fun, grilling out or I can cook you a nice meal while we sip a fine wine.
