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Shelby, 43
United States, Colorado, Pueblo

Offline, last seen Tue, 27 May 2025 17:55:46

About Me

hmmmm where to start....grab a coffee pull up a seat...In you I seek and hope you are confident in who you are, attracted to motivation & drive, humor, intelligence and great conversation. I hope you love the outdoors and are open to jumping in a car and just rolling with it...no itinerary needed just great company...you need to be strong mentally and emotionally I'm not good with weak minded people. I don't remember feeling I could count on a guy in a very long time...it would be nice to count on you. I'm best with a man who is laid back..calm...glass half full. I hope you lead a healthy lifestyle...amazed at how people go through life constantly trying to kill themselves..with fast food, drugs..smoking. etc.. No one's perfect but I believe in making an effort..I hope you love what you do for work and are a good man.A little about me....I miss the people but not the cold. I love the water in, on and around. I don't really see a point living west of 95?.... a goof at times...intense at times...love animals, love the smell of a crisp fall day....love the touch of the guy I'm head over heels for. Love affection and not afraid to give it if you are the right guy. I believe the choices I have made have brought me to the result good or bad, no one made me..I'm accountable and do what it takes. Im happy and very independent, just miss that someone which is impossible to put into words because words cant describe this feeling of magic when the stars align and there is this undeniable connection emotionally and physically..few seem to experience.but rather settle. I would rather go through life believing there is a God and find out that there isn't......vs going through life arguing it, not believing and find out that there is. I believe a spark fuels the fire and *** soul, and I believe a foundation of common values, interests and beliefs get you through the tough times...I believe a little curiosity and mystery creates anticipation and appreciation in life and people. It is the day to day things that make or break a relationship, a career and so on...and I believe meeting that person meant for you...comes down to timing and maintaining a healthy relationship is based on compatibility, chemistry, respect and communication....if you allow me to be me...I will always have your back and be your biggest fan.I have amazing friends that have been in my life ***years...and dated a guy longer than most marriages...never had kids because I'm not able to and was voted first to get married but have found I don't need a piece of paper or a ring to by loyal...just a good man meant for me. I'm finally ready regardless of where/when or how I meet someone...been a long time since I was in a relationship years...by choice and timing. As a person I'm a mix of Corporate America and the drive to achieve more however without having to work for anyone other than myself....a little bit of a free spirit and would rather be alone then fill time with someone I'm not crazy about....I would love to live the Kenny Chesney lifestyle.. I think sometimes its how you look at things and when you change how you see things and take a different perspective you see the beauty in it vs. the ugly...and it changes your life.Online is hard for me because my attention span lasts about 15 seconds!!...much better in person..old school I guess...not much into texting...emailing etc..would rather just meet you to see if there is any connection.....I do read what you wrote and if I feel there really isn't anything we have in common or the distance is too far ...it would be the reason I don't respond..I also don't know how to speak with more than one person at a time... casual low key..if the company and chemistry is good...where and what doesn't really matter...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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