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Trudy, 42

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About Me

Yodel yodel yodel lay…. the cynic of online sites like this one was convinced by pals this morning at the gym to say ‘what heck!!', and be open to actually giving it a try. So here goes my lame effort! :)I am a busy and very independent gal with a committed focus on my son, and my work (and sports!). I am easy going, laughter/good wit is part of my every day (yup-A guy that gets my attention is smart, clever wit, goal orientated, active/fit, loves sports, very grounded, communicative, and shares similar values…). Guys that typically do not get my attention (but you bet, they catch my eye most times) are the spin doctors, drama kings, and players. As much as you are some of the hottest, out going and fun guys— not into a rotation plan and it is just not the flavor of the day pick for me (no harm, no foul! :) ).So, if you think we have something in common and are open to learning to know someone and see where it goes.... click whatever buttons on this site you need to and drop me a hello.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-44

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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