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Paula, 45

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About Me

About me:I have to admit, I am stealing part of this idea from someone I thought was pretty cool....I am going to use the word I a lot, however it is not because I am self centered, it is not because I think I am all that it is because if your still reading you must want to know what I am interested in. See I just used the word I 9 times in the first run on sentence and twice in this one :) I am a mother of 3. I am very involved with my kids and their sports. I enjoy hanging at the ball field on the weekends. I enjoy a great movie. I enjoy camping and the water, I even have been scuba diving in some pretty cool places. I enjoy travel, and this can be anywhere from a really adventurous planned vacation to a spur of the moment hop in the car and pick a direction and drive until I feel like stopping. I enjoy music, live concerts in the park, old 80's bands and even some live bands that just play locally. I enjoy trying new places to eat as well as hanging out in the kitchen and trying something new as long as I have someone there to keep me entertained haha.. I have a career, not just a job. I have had time to figure out what it is in life that I want. I am ready to love again Now for what I am not interested in..... I am not interested in just a hook up. I am not interested in someone that thinks I am going to take care of all their financial problems. I am not interested in someone who just has a job for the moment and is not interested in having a career. And I am not interested in playing mind games online or in person for any reason.Now, if you are still reading, lets talk about what I am looking for in you.You must be single. You must be looking for a best friend, and a lasting relationship that could lead to marriage. You must like kids, I am a package deal.You must be able to make me laugh. You must understand my crazy work schedule. And you must message me if you have liked what you have read so far! Had to throw that in, the must's were even getting to much for me lol!!Thanks for reading, see you in the in box ! Hopefully after talking/texting for a little bit we will agree on this together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kitty

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just a normal girl looking for a normal guy. Must also be family oriented and trustworthy. I am VERY family oriented. Love to laugh and have a good time. I am a single mommy with full custody of my daughter - I am a proud Uniparent :). I also wanted my daughter to be able to grow up around all her cousins like I did. I am looking for someone who is drama free, honest and sincere. I am an upfront, honest person - what you see is what you get. I am a total girlie, girl so if you are looking for someone who likes to wear jeans and enjoys taking a ride on the back of your hog, I am NOT the girl for you. I am tattoo free and only have my ears pierced. I love the beach and warm weather. I am definitely not into snow activities :). I have been on Plenty of Fish numerous times in the past, and have had no luck finding someone who didn't turn out to be a total whack job, so if that's what you are, please keep moving on! I do not have the patience anymore for games or insincerity. Being a single mom, is time consuming, but I am more than willing to share that time with the right person for the right reasons. I refuse to "settle" at this point in my life and don't like to waste time if things don't feel right. I believe love is "meant to be" and shouldn't be "made to be". My ideal match should also feel the same and should have a great sense of humor, old fashioned values (I like doors to be open for me etc...), and again have family values. I have a great, huge family, and we do many family things together and I would love to find someone that would enjoy my family as much as I do. I am probably the least possessive girl you'll know, I believe that everyone needs their space, including myself. I prefer "leashless" relationships and as long as I trust you, you will never hear me question you unless it's for the simple fact of having a conversation. I apologize in advance, but I am hesitant in exchanging phone numbers or conversing on the phone until after we've met, if we hit it off. I have had to change my number a couple of times already because I gave it out more freely than I should have, and I just don't feel like going through that again, I hope you understand - (related to the "whack job" comment above as well lol).If you'd like to know anything else just ask! And please don't send me any pictures of your bare chest, your biceps, all of your "ink" and/or your butt, they are NOT selling points for me....p.s. I apologize if I do not get back to you right away, I do the best I can to do so, but I'm usually reading my *** I am chasing a toddler around so I can't always respond right away. Also, if you live far away, I will probably not respond, just for the simple reason that I barely have time to date as it is and having to travel to do so would be extremely difficult. Something quick and simple to see if there is a connection first....:).

  • Gloria

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Honestly dont know what to write because men dont read it anyhow..But here goes anyway..Im ***'***highlighted hair brown eyes.. Im a sweet,honest, caring, loving,funny in a sometimes sarcastic way.. Im also headstrong at times meaning I stand up for myself. I can be a pain in the ass. If im quiet its because you probably pissed me off. (I am a woman at least I admit I have faults)but no ones perfect and I sure dont claim to be.But when I love its with everything just expect the same in return...Ive been told im sexy curvy so if you like bones im not For you ive got a butt and boobs... I definitely am attracted to guys who are muscular some meat on their bones not into skinny guys. Taller than 5'11 is my preference. I do like a dominant male one that can be the man,grab my hand when we cross the street,take me out on an actual date sometimes And we have to be able to laugh together even if it's at each other..I go to work make my own money take care of my own. I do enjoy cooking for my man ,giving him a back rub or cuddle up to watch tv or go to a sporting event ,go to the beach.. Just do things together.If you show me you appreciate me you will get the best of me... I sometimes have a demanding schedule at work but when Im in a relationship I will make time for my one and only that being said it works both ways,I shouldnt be the only one to sacrifice.... I work overnight shift and do have Overtime at times... Just looking for my everything there must be attraction and chemistry...If your interested message me... Dont know I guess it depends on the chemistry if your in good company it doesnt matter what you do it will be fun but if its bad theres no point in wasting each others time.....

  • Kristine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I hate that I'm back on here but what the hell....lol. I have mainly dated black men, but I am attracted to other races... It's just a preference like someone who prefers red heads....For me, I'm not really interested in what color u are or ur financial status, I'm more interested in u as a person, if we have a connection and how u make me feel. I'm not trying to rush into anything, but I would like to get to know u and move towards something meaningful and long term at some point. I love to laugh and have a good time. Love is not a color! We should all be free to love who makes YOU happy! God loves us ALL and created us all EQUAL...PERIOD! And if for some reason u have a problem with it please don't be rude and immature and message me mean and unkind statements, just find a way to get over it and move on. Thank u...God bless and happy fishing!!! :) Thanx for listening to me ramble on...lol! :-P Coffee, dinner, or drinks....whatever sounds fun....

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