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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
Love art, making things and the little things in life amuse me. I'm easy to talk to, reasonable and know a little about most topics. Looking for a stable man, that is confident and affectionate. You must love to traveling and not take life too seriously.
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Marlene
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.
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Teri
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Ok, you may see a difference between my online photos. I had a health issue but I am completely healthy now! The two pics taken in Whistler were taken in July ***so they are how I look at present. I am not ashamed nor do I care but I don't want to meet anyone and have them surprised. Since in a year such a change took place. I can explain the health issue (which is a thing of the past) if and when you are interested in talking more. I am done with jerks and losers so if you don't have a job, live at home with mom or simply can't afford to live than please don't waste my time. I am in a respectable, well paying job, own my own home and have a decent life and I expect someone I meet to have the same. I am also not into simply one night stands! I have a 15 year old son. He keeps me busy. I love a more settled lifestyle, I love the simple things. A bit old fashioned in my thinking (meaning I love an honest to goodness gentleman.) I am independent, own my own home and quite comfortable but sometimes I feel like something is missing. I am outgoing, talkative, funloving and enjoy all kinds of things. I love the outdoors, as well as curling up on the couch and watching a good movie and of course sports. Mutual respect, trust, and there must of course be chemistry and communication. I want what some people have....a BEST FRIEND, someone who loves being with me and I love being with them and even thou we have our own things to do we miss each other well we are doing them because we would rather be together. I want an upfront honest guy who can communicate his feelings. Is there a middle of the road guy out there...I keep finding the EXTREMES! I am not willing to settle so I will remain alone as long as it takes for me to find someone I can be best friends with, have a strong attraction too and share mutual respect with. To sum it up I have learned to be alone, love my life and have no stress so this time around I am not going to settle I am going to spend the later half of my life with my best friend. So Friends First!!! If this sounds like you write me! I am very open, so make a suggestion and we can go from there.