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Elaine, 40

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About Me

I want my next 40 years to be my best! That will hopefully include a man, but either way, enjoying them is my goal. So, here is my self description, for what it's worth... I am kind, loving, intelligent, thoughtful, responsible, affectionate, genuine, humorous, confident, and loyal. I have flaws too, as we all do. Here are a few... I am not a great cook, dread waking up early (but I do anyway), and sometimes I laugh so hard when telling a funny story, it takes a long time for me to finish it. I am looking for a wonderful man to be my best friend and more. He is Caucasian, at least 5'9", over 30 and under 50, has hair ( funny, but I am a hair snob), Christian, smart, sweet, thoughtful, affectionate, respectful, attractive, loyal, confident, responsible, witty, independent, and down to earth. If that does not sound much like you, then we are probably not a match. Please be honest guys, that is very important!I exercise ***times a week. I like being outside and prefer warm weather. I also have two amazing kids, 18 and 10. There is a lot more, but suppose that is good enough for now. I am looking forward to this new adventure:) I am open to anything really. I would like it to be somewhere that we can really talk and have a good conversation. Just a thoughtful date who communicates well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lila

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I live to love, embrace each day given and enjoy everything in my life and the world around me. Life is about simple pleasures and I indulge in those things that allow me to be happy and not dwell on the things that don't. I'm a lover--passionate, strong willed, and confident in my convictions. I believe that life experiences build character. Adversity has made me who I am and what I need to be for myself as well as others. I must emphasize that my faith is very important to me and I place my hope in God our Creator and not in the creation/things of this world. I desire someone who shares my faith. He must be kind, caring, sweet, loving, fun, independent, strong, and someone I love to spend time with. He would be intelligent with goals and ambitions. I believe that a relationship is a partnership that cannot survive with love alone; therefore, he must be someone that I can be best friends with.UPDATE: If you have currently ended a relationship, still in communication with and/or pining over an ex...please save us both some time and do not ***

  • Lisa

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a soft hearted and caring person. Animals and kids are my passion. I feel bad for judgemental and narrow minded people because they cheat themselves out of a lot of what life has to offer. Hypocritically however I suppose, I myself do become judgemental VERY QUICKLY of anyone that feels that it is ok to talk about another race or a group of people different from themselves in a negative manner....joking or not. We are all here together and I believe in treating all people the way I want to be treated. It's called "The Golden Rule" for a reason! :) I am blessed to be able to say my job is also my hobby and I spend more than the average amount of time doing work at home. When I'm not working, I like to be outside whether it is winter or summer. I enjoy taking the time to experience nature around me. I guess I am a bit of a daydreamer. I like to bike, hike, kayak, and occasionally camp and fish too. I'm sort of a girly girl who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty. I bait my own hook! :- I've never been to either but know the first time I go, I will feel like it is home. I like to relax sitting by a fire and staring at the stars or curling up with a good book and reading for hours. I can also spend hours on the internet absorbing mindless information. I am working on that! Video games and video gamers are not my thing. I like board games but I don't like cards so much (excluding UNO of course). You can play but please don't expect me to play very much. I will sacrifice occasionally for the common good. Meeting for coffee or a drink would be my idea of the ideal first date. I would like to try and experience a bit of the old fashioned feeling of falling for someone in a natural way....friends first and see where it goes from there......if that is at all possible in today's world of online dating. I am not looking to plan our future together at our first meetng.

  • Gracie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    As of today, July 29, ***, I am updating my profile. I have a request of those who see my photo and/or read my profile and want to meet me: In addition to selecting the option that you want to meet me, please send me a message as well. That way, the ice is broken right away and we can start a conversation right off the bat. I don't usually respond to the requests to meet me. I am likely to reply to those who send a message. If nothing else, just say hi, or say hi and that you'd like to meet me or get to know me. Don't be shy. Subtlety is okay in some situations, but I prefer people to be direct and not hide behind a hint. Thanks for taking time to read the note I've added to my profile information.I am looking for an honest, patient, semi old fashioned guy, who likes cooking, dancing, romance (candlelight, dinner, flowers, etc. [not sex]). I am looking for a man who is not looking for sex. I have semi old fashioned, moral views of sex. I am against sex between people who are not married to each other. I won't have sex with anyone without marrying them first. Anyone who is looking for sex can come right out and say that's what they are looking for and then move on and keep looking. They aren't going to get sex from me because I don't put out. "I'm a person, not a toy. If a 'plaything' is what you are looking for, I suggest an electronic gadget or an automobile." If you are looking for a companion and equal partner to make important decisions with, complete large and small tasks with, and have open communication with, whom you wish to treat with respect, then I'm all ears, let's hear about it. I am a worthwhile human being and I deserve to be treated with respect. I am not perfect, by any means. I have problems, granted. Don't we all?I am looking for someone who good marriage material. I have been married once and left my ex-husband in ***. I am looking to get married a second time. If you are not marriage minded and just want to date or have a long-term relationship without getting married, please be up front about that and say so. I am open to meeting people even if they don't want to get married, I just prefer to date marriage-minded gentlemen.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I appreciate the fact that you took the time to do so. I don't meet guys alone. I have a chaperon with me. So far, my father has been my chaperon. If that makes you nervous, then you probably have something to hide and I probably shouldn't go out with you.

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