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Elaine, 40

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About Me

I want my next 40 years to be my best! That will hopefully include a man, but either way, enjoying them is my goal. So, here is my self description, for what it's worth... I am kind, loving, intelligent, thoughtful, responsible, affectionate, genuine, humorous, confident, and loyal. I have flaws too, as we all do. Here are a few... I am not a great cook, dread waking up early (but I do anyway), and sometimes I laugh so hard when telling a funny story, it takes a long time for me to finish it. I am looking for a wonderful man to be my best friend and more. He is Caucasian, at least 5'9", over 30 and under 50, has hair ( funny, but I am a hair snob), Christian, smart, sweet, thoughtful, affectionate, respectful, attractive, loyal, confident, responsible, witty, independent, and down to earth. If that does not sound much like you, then we are probably not a match. Please be honest guys, that is very important!I exercise ***times a week. I like being outside and prefer warm weather. I also have two amazing kids, 18 and 10. There is a lot more, but suppose that is good enough for now. I am looking forward to this new adventure:) I am open to anything really. I would like it to be somewhere that we can really talk and have a good conversation. Just a thoughtful date who communicates well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kimberly

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

    Hi! My name is Kimberly. I am never married catholic hispanic woman without kids from Inglewood, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Nellie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    First off if Ur looking for a hook up or wants to make sexual comments to me U BETTER JUST MOVE ON!!!! I WILL BLOCK YOU.... IM NOT LOOKING FOR THAT HAVE SOME RESPECT!!!I am a single mom of two. I'm a simple country girl I don't really dress up much unless I'm going out. Usually its jeans and boots for me. I love Ocoffee and I love tattoos . I'm not prissy or a city girl . I'm just me and that is way I like it. I work hard and love the time I have with my kids. I have a silly sense humor love to laugh and love for someone to make me laugh.I'm that girl that holds a smile on her face,even when things are a mess and her faith falls out of place,I'm that girl who believes in taking chances for what I want,instead of pretending to be happy as someone I'm not .I'm that girl who dosen't care about what other people think of my style,the one that savors every moment even if its only for a little while,I'm that girl that can never keep a secret,I'm shy but that dosen't mean I can ever keep it,I'm that girl who kisses but dosen't believe,because she's sad if she lets go and then her love would leave.I'm that girl that people call weird, random, and dramatic,but theres more to me if you'll listen behind all the noise and static,I'm that girl that can cry and laugh all at the same time,the one that's innocent looking but can commit a heartbroken crime,I'm that girl that trys hard to push herself through,the one that dosen't care if she'll ever fit in tobe kool.I'm that girl you can call unperfect,my hairs always a mess,I'm under alot of pessure and all the stress,I'm really not so diffrent as the rest,if it were up to me I'll say I come in second best.I'm that girl who loves to laugh,the one that can joke around till things get out of control,the one who envy's those blond girls and there perfect lives,meanwhile I'm stuck on this wild ride.I'm that girl that loves to dream,but this reality is not what it seems,a fairytale ending waiting to come true,another risk worth taking what does she have to lose?I'm that girl who can never prove what she can really do,because she gives up to easily but none really knew,instead shes judged by others that are strangers to her eyes,bottled up with any goodbyes and silent cries for help,but nones there so she has to rely on herself...I'm that girl,and that is my world... Something calm and special. Just a plain ole country girlNever asked for riches or goldJust a life filled with loveA gift that could never be sold.Values and honesty I received Passed down from parents to a childParents that loved their childrenAnd always made them smile.Still there's times the tears flowThe heart becomes weakI try to maintain that smileThen its God's love I seek.Always try to find goodnessIn every heart you knowAnd if you look deep enoughIt will surely show.Always keep a loving heartExtend a helping handNever will you live with regretYou'll know exactly where you stand.These simple rules of lifeHas blessed me so muchBeing a plain ole country girlThat God surely touched!

  • Allie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. After being in a 6 year relationship, I forgot how difficult dating is. I have been on this site for sometime, and although I have met some pretty interesting characters, none of them have been worth my time. Is it that hard to find "normalcy" in a relationship?? No offense to any of the guys taking their time to read this, but OMG! What are you thinking??? You are on here for the same reason we are all on here, to find someone that you can relate to and hopefully build a relationship with. Well, at least that is what I am looking for. Let me give some guidelines to those of you that are thinking about messaging me....please don't be offended, I'm just tired of dealing with morons. 1. If your profile pic is one that shows you half naked in your bathroom mirror, I'm not interested. 2. If you are looking for someone to send you naked pics 5 minutes into our conversation, again, keep looking. 3. If you can not handle conversing over the phone and prefer only texting, I'm not 15. I am a college educated woman, and I looking for someone that can open their mouth and speak. 4. If and when you open your mouth to speak and the first thing that comes out is perversion, think before you speak. Don't be a pig, it's not flattering. 5. I am not against children whatsoever. I myself do not have any, but I am willing to date someone that does. However, I will not compete with a 5 year old. Although your children should be a major priority, canceling of dates because you feel bad leaving them with a sitter is not cool in my book.Okay, so now that I have listed some of my guidelines, let me tell you about me. I am a single 38 year old. I work very hard, so I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I may be a plus sized woman, but I am an attractive woman who takes pride in myself. I have been going to the gym, which has helped me with stress and clear my head. After 6 years of being with the same person, you start to become comfortable and lose yourself. And now, I am trying to regain my confidence and self esteem.Basically, it would just be nice to meet someone that shares that same values and beliefs as I do. I am a very giving person, I have a great sense of humor, and I am very out going. I would love to share that with someone. Thanks so much for reading my profile. I hope that you find what you are looking for. We all deserve to be happy, don't we? Dinner, drinks....something low key

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