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Allie, 38

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About Me

Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. After being in a 6 year relationship, I forgot how difficult dating is. I have been on this site for sometime, and although I have met some pretty interesting characters, none of them have been worth my time. Is it that hard to find "normalcy" in a relationship?? No offense to any of the guys taking their time to read this, but OMG! What are you thinking??? You are on here for the same reason we are all on here, to find someone that you can relate to and hopefully build a relationship with. Well, at least that is what I am looking for. Let me give some guidelines to those of you that are thinking about messaging me....please don't be offended, I'm just tired of dealing with morons. 1. If your profile pic is one that shows you half naked in your bathroom mirror, I'm not interested. 2. If you are looking for someone to send you naked pics 5 minutes into our conversation, again, keep looking. 3. If you can not handle conversing over the phone and prefer only texting, I'm not 15. I am a college educated woman, and I looking for someone that can open their mouth and speak. 4. If and when you open your mouth to speak and the first thing that comes out is perversion, think before you speak. Don't be a pig, it's not flattering. 5. I am not against children whatsoever. I myself do not have any, but I am willing to date someone that does. However, I will not compete with a 5 year old. Although your children should be a major priority, canceling of dates because you feel bad leaving them with a sitter is not cool in my book.Okay, so now that I have listed some of my guidelines, let me tell you about me. I am a single 38 year old. I work very hard, so I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I may be a plus sized woman, but I am an attractive woman who takes pride in myself. I have been going to the gym, which has helped me with stress and clear my head. After 6 years of being with the same person, you start to become comfortable and lose yourself. And now, I am trying to regain my confidence and self esteem.Basically, it would just be nice to meet someone that shares that same values and beliefs as I do. I am a very giving person, I have a great sense of humor, and I am very out going. I would love to share that with someone. Thanks so much for reading my profile. I hope that you find what you are looking for. We all deserve to be happy, don't we? Dinner, drinks....something low key

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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