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Nannie, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

Greetings, Fellow Fishermen!I am a sunny, intelligent, bubbly, life-loving, humanitarian, hippie-type chick! ;DWe all have a limited time on this physical plane, so why would we not make the best of it? Life is not a dress rehearsal.(Sorry for the old cliché....but 'tis true...)I seek a like-minded man - intelligent, articulate, artsy, and *compassionate*.I am a Buddhist (which is not a religion - rather, a philosophy), and my "'Religion' is kindness'" (HH Dalai Lama XIV). (My hOMeboy!) Hee hee! ;)I am very spiritual, (but not religious - I do *not* subscribe to any dogma).I am a caregiver - both by trade and by heart. I am very self-sufficient – I am a self=proclaimed “handyman” and can take care of myself, financially and otherwise. But do not be intimidated by my independence. Rather, hold it in reverence – it can be rare for a woman, sorry to say.~*Eye contact* is exotic.You *must* be open-minded....or ready to expand your horizons....I LOVE hiking in the woods - nature is sooooo important to me ~I am also an avid cycler - I have a 21 speed Trek – and my average rolling speed is 15 mph.I *need* to stay active. I am quite kinetic. I am definitely *not* a "couch potato." (Although an occasional rainy/snowy day snuggle on the couch all day can be quite nice….)I love to cook, I am quite creative in the kitchen – anything from soul food to ethnic cooking, I’m a card-carrying “foodie.” ;) Not on a first date, but later -I'm a bit of a "tom-boy" So how about a go-kart race or skeet shooting challenge? Lol!(I *promise* I *will*try to kick your a***!! :D )And please, gentlemen, know that while I have no children of my own, (at least none that aren’t fur-covered! Lol!), I *love* children – but if you do not have a good relationship with your children’s mother (A.K.A .“baby mama drama”), *please* do not contact me! I do not wish to be involved in that kind of negative energy! I choose to surround myself with light and love. Best wishes on your searching! First date? That would so individualized! I love to *** possible), then we can come up with a plan based on our mutual interests! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

American Chinese Mexican Vietnamese Family & Kids Horror Sport Bowling Cricket Outdoor Hobbies
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