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Cheryl, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Sun, 24 May 2026 18:20:20

About Me

I am a great person and open to many suggestions with the right person. I usually fly by the seat of my shorts and am willing to try almost anything besides bungee jumping or swimming in the ocean! (I suck at playing pool but still try ) lol. Many other things............... I work in a job that keeps me busy and I enjoy the new people I meet. Been told I do not act my age and really don't ever wanna. I am a single Mom of 2 wonderful children. They are 17, and 10. I am not looking for anyone to be their parent, I've got that covered very well. . A man should have a place to lay his head, car to drive, and a job to support himself, and his children. I cannot date a bum, loafer, or anyone that doesn't "care about themselves". Ask me anything and I will answer honestly. Do not care for fakes or liars, what you see is what you'll meet. I don't have an extra 40 lbs. hiding, I have freckles, and I am rounded where I need to be...Guys~ Please do not say 5'10 when you barely tip 5'5. Everyone has a preference. I am a rock`n`roller and love most music .If you hit the "Meet me" button, take the time to say hi. If you have the right bait, I'll bite! Thanks for viewing. Meet and say Hi. Go for a walk or grab a coffee, beer, whatever. Honesty goes a long way and you will not hurt my feelings if we don't click :) I can never have too many friends either.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fishing Chinese English Indonesian Vietnamese Sport Snowboarding
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