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Bertha, 38

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About Me

What I would like in a man: The first thing that comes to mind is that he is funny. Meaning, I don't want someone who is too uptight. I am a goofball and a little clumsy, so if you can't laugh about life, then you are probable going to have issues with me. The second thing that comes to mind are looks. I hate to admit it, but looks do matter to me. I need to find something appealing about you, or else things are not gonna go very far. That is kinda funny comming from me, because I spend like 5 minutes getting ready. I do like to get dressed up on rare occasions,and even rarer occasions I will wear make-up. I am not a very materialistic girl. Yes, I do like having nice things, but I am not going to throw a fit if something of mine gets broke. For example, I eat in my truck and I allow my children to do so as well. I don't see the point of having things that you like to be constantly worried about something happening to it. I guess my motto is: enjoy it! don't obsess over it! I also really like men that are sweet. The sweeter the better! I don't mind if a guy is alittle bit of an ***hole, but the second you are cruel to me or my children it is over. My boys are my world, so I will do what is best for them no matter how strong I might feel for you. Money is not a big issue for me, but I don't want to take care of you. I am sorry, but I've been there, done that! As long as you are able to take care of yourself, or at least trying to,then money is not an issue.I really don't care what we do for the first date. We could play racquet ball or sit on a park bench talking. As long as I don't feel like my safety is at risk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kristen

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    Woman. 68 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 58-78

    Independantly wealthy (of spirit!), good-humored company looking to share the vast bounty of the suncoast-- I'm still a career gal, but maintain an active, balanced lifestyle outside the office and would love good company with whom to share the ride. I can't say that I'm actively looking to get married; that kind of focused expectation usually only creates regrets at this time of life. I'd rather discover a "true companion" through shared interests and experiences and then be delightfully amazed at where the possibilities might lead! While I don't subscribe to "love at first sight," I am a converted follower of "divine intervention," which preserves my wrye eye on life: expect to be surprised!! Some values I hold dear are honesty, integrity and compassion. I respect kindness on all levels and cherish history with friends, memories, hope and a peaceful heart. A devoted animal lover, I volunteer with my dog, Jazz, in the Hospice Therapy Dog program. (We've also successfully completed Agility Dog training, coming to the inevitable conclusion that Jazz has ultimately more forward gears than I!). The outdoors nurture my soul, especially kayaking Florida's backwaters and bicycling to wherever. I love casual home entertaining, good conversation, playfulness and laughter, dancing, playing bridge, social poker with the neighbors, interactive games of all kinds--especially word games. I tend to be curious by nature, genuine and casual; spur of the moment plans fit easily--and usually turn out to be some of the best times. I love God and country and spent 4 years with the USO, based in Washington, DC, during the Viet Nam era. The "life dance" is full of surprises and I try to speak and live my truth. That's the part that can't be defined by words...everything unravels in its own good time--and, from here, YOU decide if you pick up the beat!! Either way, thanks for reading this far!For starters, I'd welcome something light with a casual venue that's comfortable for us both. In fact, the concept of "first dates" is overrated. I'm easy to talk with--always a springboard to discovery. From there, I have to go back to my trust in "divine intervention."

  • Autumn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-47

    My family and friends are important to me. I like camping, hiking, going to the beach, and anything outdoors. I love to cook. Not into the club scene anymore but don't mind going out to a bar every now and then for a drink.Somewhere nice where we can talk and be able to hear each other. Have a few drinks, talk, and see where it take us.

  • Petra

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-62

    I am simply going to say I am looking for some one who is honest and up front with his search also. I am looking for someone who has simular interest as I do. I don't mean physical as much as emotional strength. That he can be accepted in to my family as well as he accept them. I am not in to head games or jealousy games, or drama. I won't tollerate it at all cause though I seem to have enough of it in my own family and life. I am to old for that stuff now and I want someone on the same page as myself for once in my life. I want to be able to be accepted in his family as well. He must Love animals as I do. He must be willing to "Hold" an honest conversation with me online for at least a week before we meet. Then willing to meet in a public place in Bangor. I have many hobbies but never really seem to finish them, I would like to have someone around me with the same intrests to help inspire me to finish them for once. I have many goals I am working on and they are strong goals; I love my family and one goal witch is the top goal for me right now is to help get us all in one big house together. We as a family have decided that it takes a village or a whole family to survive in this crazy world. There is a nice house in Brewer big enough to not crowd out each other and have our own spaces. We are geared up to go green and live raw and off the grid land. It sounds brass and challenging but we feel it is our best chance for a good life. I know that a lot of people are seeking this goal, but we are determined to make it happen. If you dout this of us then maybe you might not fit in cause we are not interested in douters we are interested in doers. I say we cause as I first started this profile; I stated that I am with my family and part of the support system. I am not asking anyone to give up their life for me. I am just asking that they might be interested in adding me to their life. As that is why I am here to find someone that I can comfortable add in to my life. I am not sure anyone finds me unique except for my family that is. I have had other more prominet people find me interesting if not Uniquely goal minded and Thought processed. I raised my 2 sons in a non traditional way with an open minded and enventive mind frame. To help others when they can, but family is really important too.(Family is always first though) I have deversed Musical intrests, I was raised with country music though I seemed to have been drawn to Elvis and old time rock, My sons and other younger generations have taught me that if you hear it you might like it. I was also drawn to Opra and the classics. (TO THOSE WHO SAID: It was not a possible thing HA HA we did it!!!!We are on our way to owning a duplex in Brewer!!!!) I am finding hard this week to process the idea I just won the PCH 7,000. a week for life. I am working on the who and what I must do with it as I go. My family as always are supportive with my confustions and working out finding an accountant. I am paying off the house when All is said and done but nothing else has change for me. I am the same person I will always be unlike a lot of people I am not money oriented and I am moving down the same road I started. I guess I am saying this cause I am still processing this as I go and it is like saying it will help me process it better.I am not sure why but I am neither over excited nor unaware of the problems it may bring in my life. Right now I am just going through the moves and hope that I make right choices for my family.Hang out take a long walk get to know one another see if we are compatible.

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