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Josefina, 59
United States, California, Carlsbad

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Totally loyal lady seeking that one special guy to make me feel like I want to face each new day with a smile on my face and more than eager to end the the day and jaunt into the evening with a glint in my eye. Please take the time to read the rest before you contact me, it will save us both a lot of time. ( If you can't be bothered to read about a person, you can't really be that interested in them.) I'm honest,trustworthy,kind,but no push-over, can spot "bull-shit" a mile away. I don't mean to sound awful but I'm NOT a nanny,nurse,taxi or sex-toy.if that's ALL your looking for sorry guy's I'm not the gal for you.I could if it was necessary be most of those things if I was in a relationship, but not starting one off that way. Nor do I give out pass-ports. And please don't ask me for money as A)I don't have any and B)F-off usually offends. I don't come with any baggage nor will I take any on . I am not at present working and this seems to be bothering a lot of chaps. Why? I don't know, as I won't be living with anyone so they won't be keeping me. Sorry guys not many heiresses around and most widows are clued up nowadays. I believe that you can meet someone and know *** there is an attraction between you, then it's just a case of personality. You could look like Brad Pitt but if you act like a prat I'm offI did want to meet someone to live with etc, but as time as gone on I have come to like living on my own and doing my own things when I feel like it. So not quiet sure what I'm looking for now, guess I will know if and when I find it. A friend to start then lets see. I do know that I don't want to meet any "Peter Pan" wanabe's . Prefer someone to act their age, not into all this trying to stay young by doing what kids do. I prefer quiet places with minimal people. Not boring but I am a 59yr old and although I'm not ready for the sitting on my a*** all day phase in life, neither am I trying to recapture my youth. I'm a realist, would prefer to meet the same. Nor do I take kindly to the bossy types, if you want to *** get a dog (or not, for the dogs sake.) Would like someone who has time for me even if it's just taking a walk or getting stuck into the garden together.. I don't do the "neighbour thing" I'm more into the middle of nowhere. I would be an ideal partner for a farmer or the like. (I don't mind getting stuck in and helping out with the animals etc). Or you do that and I'll make sure your dinner is on the table when your done. (I do have rather old fashioned values). I don't socialize very well, sorry, I don't want to socialize, unless it's close friends and family, would rather potter around the garden. I dislike party's and the like, would rather sit and watch the sun go down.Love all animals and can't abide cruelty in any shape or form.You could say I'm more an animal than people person. But I am not a veggie. At present I have 1 chicken and 1 guinea pig.I'm not into flash cars ,clothes (although I do seem to have rather a lot of them , especially shoes), jewelry and the like, money doesn't impress me but I'm not a fool, I appreciate what it can buy and would rather have it than not. Mind you, you would be amazed at how much one can save if they don't spend it on crap. If I want something I will save until I can afford it. I do not have or "do" debt.I have varied interests,love driving, reading, walking, Car-boot sales (the selling part). I'm a very good cook, love DIY and have a vast range of power tools,lol (soz my mind wandered there for a mo) and have made all number of things, Including my fitted wardrobes from scratch. I would like to meet someone a wee bit taller than myself but your personality is more important. I love country walking and now and again it would be nice to have a companion to do this with. Must have a vgsh (you will need it.) I want someone to take me as I am but be able to hold his own with me.(no pun intended).I love flowers, silk undies, making love in front of the fire,camping in the woods, all the usual and sometimes unusual romantic gestures. I am an early to bed early to rise person ( Up at around 5/5.30 bed around 10pm) so someone who loves the night life is not for me.I am T-total and don't go into pubs. I know this will put a lot of men off, but I'm not looking for a lot, just "the one".I put chaps on my fav list so I don't lose their profile until I have had the chance to have a good read through them etc. Please do not get shirty if I do not reply to to a message you have sent immediately as I'm not on the computer ***boring). I will reply even if it's to say "not interested" when I get the time to look through them. Also I have no intention of "Upgrading" so clicking that you want to "Meet me" is a waste of time. Much better to send me a quick note. Thanks Here is a small list of a few of my favorite things.Fav comedians, Billy (the master), Jim Davison, Eddie Murphy, Lee Evans. Fav films, Always, Somethings got to give, Old dogs (do not be drinking anything whilst watching this film, sooo funny.) Man on fire. It's complicated. Gone with the wind. Most historical movies.Fav food, Italian, Indian, some chinese. Caribbean. which I cook, I also make a mean Shepherds pie, and I love baking.Fav music, Motown, soul, Dido, Annie Lennox, Westlife, Most golden oldies including "The king"Fav Authors, Lee Child, Martina Cole, Mandasue Heller, James Patterson, Kresley Cole, Gena Showalter (To name but a few, bit of a bookworm.)Not much for watching TV, but will watch a good film. or a series that has been wiped of all adverts.Sex- Yes I like it, but will stick with my imagination and a good supply of batteries until I find the right guy. Nor am I into any of that "I bought you a meal so now you have to drop your knickers" crap.Anything else you want to know just ask.I will always meet half-way in the daytime for a cuppa. My belief is that anyone can have a cuppa with anyone no matter how they look or act and i will always turn up, it's only good manners. After that i can't say, it depends on who i meet and what they are like etc,etc. Punctuality and manners are very important to me. Also guys when you arrange to meet a lady, if the venue is your choice tell her what type of place it is as most of us like to dress appropriately.So sorry but as I have already stated above, I do not go into pubs, nor will I meet anyone in the evening. One is meeting a stranger for the first time after all. PS, Chaps, If for some reason you change your mind or something comes up which makes it unable for you to keep the date, please have the decency to *** can't by at least the evening before. So many game-players on here it is untrue. Thought it was a dating site. If that's not what you want go on another site. Manners and consideration don't cost anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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