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Carey, 61
United States, New York, Yonkers

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 Jan 2026 10:29:31

About Me

I'm adventurous, honest, calm, romantic, and fun. I take calculated risks. I truly believe everything happens for a reason although we may not know it at the time. And the corollary to that is: Everything always works out exactly the way it's supposed to, but I believe you have to make things happen. You can't sit around and wait for things to happen.I lived in Barbados for three years and loved it. I love the Caribbean and would consider living there again. I've been to only about seven of the Caribbean islands so there might be others. Plus there's the islands of the Pacific that are beautiful too. Island life is a most relaxing lifestyle, a much slower pace. It's wonderful! I'd like to go on a cruise some day to visit more islands. I love being near the ocean. One of my favorite things is reading a good book while relaxing at the beach. The past is the past. Time to make a future with someone new. Life is so much better shared with someone special . Here's the usual stuff: I like the same things as most, but I'm probably more open-minded than most. I would love to live near enough to a beach to read and sunbathe every afternoon (in my dreams -- I know!) and that's why I'm back in Florida. After being back in Ohio for about six months, I remember why I left there ten years ago. I enjoy listening to most types of music. I love reggae, jazz, blues, classical, folk, and world -- pretty much all types of music except rap (which really isn't music in my opinion) and most country. I prefer live music and could even be persuaded to listen to a type of music I wouldn't normally listen to as long as it's a live performance. I enjoy dancing, going out to the movies, and going out to dinner, but I also love preparing a sumptuous feast for my king at home (I'm an excellent cook) and then snuggling up on the couch to watch a movie. I enjoy travel, fairs, parks, roller coasters -- actually, most anything as long as it's not dangerous or illegal. I enjoy trying different wines, but my beverage of choice at the beach is rum and Diet Coke. I enjoy long walks on the beach, especially at sunset, holding hands, passionate kisses, flowers for no reason, romance, etc. I think we all agree that the beach is a very romantic place.Ultimately, I believe the best relationships initially start as friendship and then grow into a deeper, enduring love; however, I won't discount the possibility of "love at first sight." I'm hoping to find a like-minded guy for friendship and dating and see where it leads. P.S. Sorry about the lack of pictures. I just don't have any more of me.Let's chat a bit, talk over the phone, then meet for coffee or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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