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Bonita, 45

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About Me

I am a 45 year old divorced lady looking for someone who is tired of dating and would like to just be himself and be comfortable with a woman. I don't have to be taken anywhere to have a great time if you are a good conversationalist. You don't have to be a rocket scientist either, but please don't talk to me if your IQ is below 70. I know too many guys like that already. I love to flirt and love a man who is not afraid to be a man. It makes me feel more like a lady when I'm with someone like that. I graduated from Ole Miss with a degree in English and minor in History. I then moved to Jackson and learned the legal business from the point of view of a paralegal. I loved my work and I think I was pretty good at it. On weekends, I enjoy watching my son play soccer and, to be honest, I can't resist any SEC game on TV. I am usually forced into being the grill master, but would invite someone to come in and take that over for me. I'm really low maintenance, but I do enjoy getting dressed up sometimes for a night out.On my first date with someone, what we would do would really depend on how well I felt I knew this person prior to meeting him. If I felt really comfortable, I'd meet him at a cozy restaurant and have appetizers and talk. Movies, I think, are for second dates when you don't have so much pressure between the two of you to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Anita

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-65

    Happy lady who loves the beach. Good career. Loves to make a man feel like a hero. Will enhance your life with beauty and great smells coming out of the kitchen(I love to cook!) Likes to laugh, dance, travel and explore. Likes night life as well as quiet nights at home. I have an inviting home that makes visitors feel welcome. I love dogs, cats, all pets. I like to take care of others it's the nurturing side of me that was taken away when I couldn't have children of my own. I look forward to growing old with a man and sharing his children and grandchildren. I love to spoil children with love and gifts, as well as the man himself! I am very affectionate, romantic and life is not worth living without sexual intimacy. I love PDA. I love Rock, Jazz, Blues and even some Hip Hop. I was a Zumba *** I had 3 knee operations, now I am a Step Class Diva who loves to Lift Weights. I work out 4-5x a week most nights 2 hours at a time. I love to travel and explore different cultures and cities. Just waiting for the man who wants to do it with me. I travel with girlfriends, but, there is no afternoon nookie that makes it real special! I have a great life that is only getting better and looking forward to share it with that special someone.I love a take charge man who is concerned about the elderly, children, animals and me, of course. Someone ambitious and active. Someone who likes to be fit with their bodies and is concerned about the food they eat. I like to have a few drinks on a social level, but I do not drink everyday and don't want a man that does either. Someone who has their finances together and a plan for the future. Someone who likes long weekend getaways to the Keys or the mountains. Trips to foreign countries. Someone who isn't afraid to show their feelings and a lot of touching and PDA. Someone who is secure that when I say I am at the gym to workout that is where and what I am doing. When I am out with the girls, I am out reconnecting with them and not looking for other attractions. I expect the same from you. I believe in personal space that we both need.Anything low key, walk on the beach, meet for coffee or in a park. Just want to listen to what you have to say, and hopefully you will want to know about me and will ask question. The first sign a person is not interested and just wants a hook up is when they don't care enough to ask about you and how you feel about things or how you live.

  • Evangeline

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-49

    Apparently I'm terrible at this. But it's still one of the only options in a small town. I don't want to meet couples. Have been hanging out with them my entire life. I don't want to meet married men. I'm sorry you are bored, but I don't need another unavailable option. If you are looking to get over your ex or just decide if the grass really is greener? I'm also not that girl. I'd like someone who maybe wants to get to know me. Someone who wants to take a chance at a new journey. I'm an easy going woman who likes to try different things. I want someone to spend time with. Not looking to get married, just tired of travelling the road alone. I fish, I camp, I like to hike and I'm decent at sports. I love road trips with no destination. Big fan of random ideas. I know the smoking thing turns a lot of people off. It doesn't define me, it's just a bad habit I have. Im pretty sure we all have them. You can judge, probably means we won't get along anyway. I have hope that one day lightening will strike. Good luck to you all. I hope it does for you too :)First dates should be spontaneous and not over-planned. Hold a conversation with me and make me laugh....the rest will take care of itself.

  • Maxine

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-44

    ***new year, new start on here!!!I love going for walks/drives/camping in the gorgeous Scottish countryside, going to gigs and festivals, going out to the pub with my mates and occassionaly you'll find me dancing like a maddie in a club if I've had enough of the alcoholic stuff!I love my football and will watch almost any game but my heart will always lie with my local team....the Diamonds! Oh by the way, to all you English people who message me about the imposter team that is Rushden and Diamonds...I am Scottish, I support the original Diamonds also known as "Airdrie".My taste in music is so varied that I won't list bands or artists here I enjoy (ok basically I can't be a***d!***if you are interested, then ask.I am just content in making friends, having some laughs, and if my knight in shining armour turns up then hey, I may give him some polish for his helmet and pat his steed but I think the chances of that happening are just as slim as me actually meeting the love of my life here!Oh by the way, despite the fact I am noted as being "drunk" in a large number of my pics on here, I can confirm I am not an alchie and it just happens to be that on nights out I am scrubbed up and cameras are available!It clearly depends on who the date is with!!! Something fun and friendly first and if there's no real spark then cest la vie....perhaps you have found someone cool to hang out with!

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