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Itai, 40
United States, Vermont, Chester

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About Me

Hello all, Not sure what to put here...Have tried several approaches to this and nothing seems to work. I think for most, by the time people reach here in the profile they have already made up there minds as to weather they are going to contact someone or not. People just say that's the pessimist in me, but I believe I'm a realist !!!, and am driven by the evidence and facts. Being optimistic only leads to heartache and disappointment, a lot like playing the lottery.... LoL ... I am hear looking for that One in a Million to spend the rest of my life with, and it seems like, I'm more likely to be struck by lighting than finding it again. Ok, I will get off my soap box now So, I guess if you are still reading this I will try once again. I enjoy working outdoors and getting to be who I want to be, and not have the hassle of punching a time clock. In my spare time I'm up for most anything from large outdoor concerts ( Country or Rock ) to sporting events, to Intimate walks or horseback rides through the country, just listening to the sound of nature, to a candle lit dinner I have fixed for a special someone ( Yes I can Cook ),or jumping in a plane and fly off for a weekend get away. I have been divorced for almost two years now and being in my forties, it just seems as if time is passing me by. I don't need someone in my life for happiness, but I would still love to find someone to share my life with. I love kids, ( and was a very good step dad ) but would love to find someone who still wants to have and start a family since I have no kids of my own. Realistically, I don't see it happening, but I can dream, and if nothing else find someone to enjoy what life has to offer together. I’m loyal, honest, caring and compassionate. I’ve been told I’m too generous as well. I like to laugh and joke around. :) I’m not afraid to admit when I’m wrong, I can say “I’m sorry” and mean it and I expect the same in return. In all I guess, I would like to find a best friend, someone to grow old with. someone to spend the best years of our lives together. Some choose to let that story become a horror movie or filled with drama, others choose to turn it into a great novel with a happy ending. ................ Look forward to hearing from any and all.......... Meet somewhere for a drink and see where it goes from there .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Motorcycle Racing
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