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Rayan, 40
United States, Michigan, Holton

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UPDATE ** Sorry ! Wow .. I feel I should be apologizing for my Gender lol . Every profile begins with " looking for real " , " tired of ass**** " . I can't apologize for all of those rouge Y chromosomes .. but *** can offer you an assurance . There are wonderful and sincere men out there , men that understand that the word " Integrity is not a clothing brand but the foundation for your character . Pureness of Intention or Spirit . I am not everyone's cup of tea lol certainly , but there are men who will cherish you ( not just till the game is on , or till the first girl passes with a sultry look and a sly word of praise .) * Sincere , don't be afraid to put their words to the test of actions , if we are who we said we are then our words will have merit and we will still be there .Don't test love continuously , those that do cannot trust and have a jealous nature .To those that have been Hurt , don't harden your heart or let that root of bitterness come in , don't be afraid of hurt , we grow more from those moments than from any other . Love , Joy , Peace , Hope and Faith , our understanding of these most precious things often have the root of sadness and sorrow . Don't be afraid to love , to me ... the most important and beautiful part of Love , is Forgiveness , at sometime we all need it :) . Have an amazing long weekend ... Miss , Ms , Mrs - Fish !:) lolI just had to add this in , its one of my favorite speeches of all time , it is Charlie Chaplains personal plea to the world from the movie ' The great dictator . To me it is so profound , a man known for his antics and his silence would speak prophetic words and so genuinely Hope for the best in each of us to come out . I truly share in this longing .. I hope it reaches ( u ) . *** IF * you have the term spoil me in your profile we probably won't mesh * I'll cherish someone not spoil SPOIL / 1.a. To impair the value or quality of. To damage irreparably; ruin.To impair the completeness, perfection, or unity of; flaw grievously: To do harm to the character, nature, or attitude of by oversolicitude, overindulgence, or excessive praise. *** ALSO : IF you have a pet spider / no go . I really don't like spiders or walking unsuspecting into a spiders web !!! It really used to freak me out but now I have this lil trick when I go through one I immediately pretend it is the finish line for some awesome race I didn't even know I was in and you can't scream like a girl when you're too busy being a f**n CHAMP !!! ( profile follows ) :)Hi ! Early 40's male sane not selfish in decent shape , not hideous to look at in the facial area , great heart , sarcastic humor , but a genuine caring for people . I have a faith but it is my own you won't hear me preach but respect that it is the foundation I build my life on . I don't go to church or am a prude or listen to gospel and Christian rock ***lol . Have a couple of tats a few scars nothing around the heart , no baggage there . I'm really am wanting to meet someone that challenges me , not as a form of contention but that inspires me makes me seek more than I can see today . Someone that has a love and respect for their family or children . A partner to explore , countries cities , and if possible Ourselves . I want someone passionate , in all areas of their life . .. I was just thinking how it asks of I am " seeking a relationship " , I'm sort of not , I have a lot of relationships , friends , work mates , I don't want someone simply traveling in the same direction for a while . I think what I want is a union , giving up part of me and her the same and getting something better from it . Words ~ by ' me ' I think it is good to stop from time to time take a pause and look back . I think we make wiser choices for our future when we look back on the past and when we look at ourselves . What it is we listen to, what it is we talk about & how we talk about it , what did we want to achieve by saying it ? To Teach , Humor , Shame , to Hurt ? Words , whether written or said never end in the moments that follow after. Hurt can scar a heart & turn it cold , Shame can leave a soul feeling alone & worthless . Think about what you say , do you mean it , or mean it for that moment ? Life is a series of them , any single moment from years past can haunt the present or give the strength to persevere. Words can bring you to laughter , to Joy or another to their knees . Be profoundly aware of how powerful your words can be , how precious they are to some. Your words , the weight that they hold can crush or carry . We cannot see those with glass hearts , they are wrapped up in flesh & bone like you and me . Have you ever thought that something you said or had written saved someone ? Have you ever thought something you said or written had someone writing a suicide note ? Words of anger should be given out delicately , words of Love generously , words of wisdom humbly , Words of opinion , reluctantly but sincerely .I Bebop / out . :) Normally I dont like to make plans .. that way the word premeditated isnt thrown so freely around the court room :(but if it has to happen ... Probably dress up in spandex go fight crime .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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