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Tolbert, 39

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About Me

I am genuinely a nice guy. I open doors for women and the elderly, i smile and coo at babies (even the ugly ones lol). I am also very Liberal when it comes to social issues such as gay and womens rights. Abusive behaviour pisses me off to no end, to me there is no excuse for the powerful to prey on the weak. I like sending flowers to the woman i am dating for absolutely no reason. I even love cooking for guests because it is one of the very few things i am quite good at. Like any person i have many short comings, but i don't let them define who i am. Believe me no one wishes i had the body of an underwear model more than me, i wish i was blessed with an over abundance of personality so i could chat up any woman i choose. I wish i made enough money i could do and buy whatever i want. But i am not any of those things, i am just a quiet simple guy who is happy with who he is, and wishes he could find the right woman who can see all the good things in me i can't or sometimes forget about.There are lots more things i could say about myself but it seems rather self defeating to lay it all out in text on a website. How do you discern honesty over dishonesty over the internet? I could tell you all about the great things i have done or am, and you have to take it on "face value". Wouldn't you rather get it from the "horses mouth", and build an opinion on your own?I do have a few guidelines when it comes to dating not all are hard and fast1. Should be able to support themselves. 2. Must be honest with themselves as well as others3. Must be open and communicating in a relationship4. Not forever dredging up the past and can move forward.5. Not afraid to be affectionate or spontaneousWhile i am sure these seem pretty obvious to most people i just thought i would lay them down so we all have a good understanding of where i am coming from.I am sure i may add some more later but i hope that is enough to at least give you an vague idea of who i am and what i am looking for in a woman.P.S. while i have no children of my own i do like them very much, while i don't feel the need to procreate i do plan in the future to either adopt or foster a childP.P.S Oh ya call me old fashioned but i prefer to have an emotional connection with a woman before i have a physical "connection" but that is not to say i don't miss that hair pulling lip biting frenzy of passion either"The true measure of a woman cannot be counted in inches or pounds" ***my mum i am sure we will figure something out together after we chat and find out what there is to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rayan

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    UPDATE ** Sorry ! Wow .. I feel I should be apologizing for my Gender lol . Every profile begins with " looking for real " , " tired of ass**** " . I can't apologize for all of those rouge Y chromosomes .. but *** can offer you an assurance . There are wonderful and sincere men out there , men that understand that the word " Integrity is not a clothing brand but the foundation for your character . Pureness of Intention or Spirit . I am not everyone's cup of tea lol certainly , but there are men who will cherish you ( not just till the game is on , or till the first girl passes with a sultry look and a sly word of praise .) * Sincere , don't be afraid to put their words to the test of actions , if we are who we said we are then our words will have merit and we will still be there .Don't test love continuously , those that do cannot trust and have a jealous nature .To those that have been Hurt , don't harden your heart or let that root of bitterness come in , don't be afraid of hurt , we grow more from those moments than from any other . Love , Joy , Peace , Hope and Faith , our understanding of these most precious things often have the root of sadness and sorrow . Don't be afraid to love , to me ... the most important and beautiful part of Love , is Forgiveness , at sometime we all need it :) . Have an amazing long weekend ... Miss , Ms , Mrs - Fish !:) lolI just had to add this in , its one of my favorite speeches of all time , it is Charlie Chaplains personal plea to the world from the movie ' The great dictator . To me it is so profound , a man known for his antics and his silence would speak prophetic words and so genuinely Hope for the best in each of us to come out . I truly share in this longing .. I hope it reaches ( u ) . *** IF * you have the term spoil me in your profile we probably won't mesh * I'll cherish someone not spoil SPOIL / 1.a. To impair the value or quality of. To damage irreparably; ruin.To impair the completeness, perfection, or unity of; flaw grievously: To do harm to the character, nature, or attitude of by oversolicitude, overindulgence, or excessive praise. *** ALSO : IF you have a pet spider / no go . I really don't like spiders or walking unsuspecting into a spiders web !!! It really used to freak me out but now I have this lil trick when I go through one I immediately pretend it is the finish line for some awesome race I didn't even know I was in and you can't scream like a girl when you're too busy being a f**n CHAMP !!! ( profile follows ) :)Hi ! Early 40's male sane not selfish in decent shape , not hideous to look at in the facial area , great heart , sarcastic humor , but a genuine caring for people . I have a faith but it is my own you won't hear me preach but respect that it is the foundation I build my life on . I don't go to church or am a prude or listen to gospel and Christian rock ***lol . Have a couple of tats a few scars nothing around the heart , no baggage there . I'm really am wanting to meet someone that challenges me , not as a form of contention but that inspires me makes me seek more than I can see today . Someone that has a love and respect for their family or children . A partner to explore , countries cities , and if possible Ourselves . I want someone passionate , in all areas of their life . .. I was just thinking how it asks of I am " seeking a relationship " , I'm sort of not , I have a lot of relationships , friends , work mates , I don't want someone simply traveling in the same direction for a while . I think what I want is a union , giving up part of me and her the same and getting something better from it . Words ~ by ' me ' I think it is good to stop from time to time take a pause and look back . I think we make wiser choices for our future when we look back on the past and when we look at ourselves . What it is we listen to, what it is we talk about & how we talk about it , what did we want to achieve by saying it ? To Teach , Humor , Shame , to Hurt ? Words , whether written or said never end in the moments that follow after. Hurt can scar a heart & turn it cold , Shame can leave a soul feeling alone & worthless . Think about what you say , do you mean it , or mean it for that moment ? Life is a series of them , any single moment from years past can haunt the present or give the strength to persevere. Words can bring you to laughter , to Joy or another to their knees . Be profoundly aware of how powerful your words can be , how precious they are to some. Your words , the weight that they hold can crush or carry . We cannot see those with glass hearts , they are wrapped up in flesh & bone like you and me . Have you ever thought that something you said or had written saved someone ? Have you ever thought something you said or written had someone writing a suicide note ? Words of anger should be given out delicately , words of Love generously , words of wisdom humbly , Words of opinion , reluctantly but sincerely .I Bebop / out . :) Normally I dont like to make plans .. that way the word premeditated isnt thrown so freely around the court room :(but if it has to happen ... Probably dress up in spandex go fight crime .

  • Izaiah

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    Family and friends are very important to me. I enjoy any and all outdoor activities, I love to travel, I enjoy being out and about yet being at home is also rewarding. Looking to meet someone who is happy, yet knows there is more out there. I am a guy so that's all you get.

  • Landyn

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    Things about me: - I love to stay in shape - I like to eat healthy and organic foods - I will even let you choose the radio station we listen to on the first date. look for reasonable mates who can account for their deeds.

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