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Clarke, 39
United States, Connecticut, Deep River

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The bullet points: * I have all my hair. * I have all my teeth & they aren't a mess. * My eyes are not crossed. * I have a good job & own my home. * I'm happy with my life. * My body type is true "average" not Wal- I am not too far off "Athletic" but didn't want to misrepresent myself.* I've got 2 kids (both girls, 7 & 8) and they are NOT part of my dating life.* I like to have fun as much as possible.I've been on meetville for some time now, off and on. I've met some great people, made some good friends, even had a couple relationships all because of this site. I've had an overall positive experience with "online dating." With that said, please do not waste your time or mine by not accurately representing yourself on here. I've been "fooled" more than once and it is just an awkward situation to be in. You don't have to be a twig, but if you weigh more than I do...well...that probably won't work out. Sorry, but honesty can suck. Also, if you're going to message me, please say more than: "Hi" or "Hey." If you really want to avoid a swift delete, master the use of: You're, your, there, their & they're, too, to, two, then and than. I'm looking for a woman to date. By "date," I mean we actually go out on dates, we get to know one another. If that leads into a relationship, that would be great. If it just turns into a friendship, that is great too. To be clear, I'm not looking for a random hook up or just causal sex. Nor am I looking for a wife, or a mother to my 2 daughters, they have one. In fact, she and I are still friends and we get along just fine. To take it a step further, she is remarried and her husband and I get along just fine. So if you are not adult enough to respect this or understand how it is possible, then we are probably not a good match. Don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to marriage one day, but I've learned that getting to that point takes TIME. I'm a slow mover when it comes to getting into a relationship. I'm not going to settle just to be with someone that "sort of" fits. The way I look at all of this dating stuff is, you will just "know" when someone fits. For that long term relationship, I want to just know...in the meantime, I'm here on this dating site to do just that...date. It really is a numbers game. You need to message X amount of potential dates to get Y amount of 1st meetings then hopefully have Z amount of real dates that can turn into something more. It is a process, and anyone who has been on here for any amount of time will understand this!Please feel free to ask me anything, I'm as transparent as they come. I'm all about being honest and clear. Forget the 1st date....let's call it what it is, a meet & greet. I think meeting for coffee, a drink, dessert, or something short to see if there is any chemistry, attraction, compatibility is the best thing to do. THEN if that works out, let's plan an actual date. No body wants to be "stuck" with someone they just met & realized they have zero in common & can't carry a conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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