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Devan, 49

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About Me

What's up? This is a new dimension of dating for me and never was good at talking about myself. But, there is always a first for everything. I believe that there is always someone out there for everyone, it is just finding out where they are at. I love to go out dancing and enjoying the nightlife every now and then. Would rather spend the day driving somewhere new and have a picnic lunch and then come home and watch movies in the evening. I want someone who has outgrown the games and is ready to grow old together. You must be comfortable with children and/or have children of your own. I can be spontaneous and want to just get up and go and other times, I am as predictable as can be. I need someone who is mature, honest, trustworthy, funny and wants to enjoy life together. Did I mention funny? I do like a person with a good sense of humor. Guess that is enough for starters. P.S. I am a BBW and if that is not your thing, that is ok with me. We all know what we are attracted to! On a first date, I would like to meet up for coffee and/or dinner and sit and chit chat to get to the know the person better. It would be whatever we both decided that we want to do. If it is a nice day, could go do something outside....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Luz

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am passionate about dance and the freedom of expression it gives me. Spending time with family and friends is very important to me because they keep me grounded. I recently joined the Marine Corps League and began volunteering with the Honor Flight, organizations near and dear to my heart. I would love to meet a like-minded person, who is also honest, compassionate, has a sense of humor and doesn't take himself too seriously. Someone who loves to travel, enjoys an evening out going to concerts, movies, dancing, but is also comfortable staying in for a quiet romantic evening or watching a hockey or football game.

  • Chelsie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    At this point in my life, I'd feel really blessed to find a man who recognizes (and values) a great thing when we share it, has the maturity and hard earned self confidence in his own skin to be a partner, if we're lucky enough to find a strong connection in the first place! A great relationship requires honesty, strong communication skills, mutual regard and making time to play together! We all work hard, but we need to unwind and play : ) Ever see that bumper sticker: "Bark less, Wag more" ? Love that! BTW, about the cartoon with my photos - hopefully, you have a great sense of humor and aren't offended by it - and if I'm lucky, you think it's hysterical and kind of symbolic of online/blind dating, like I do : ) That poor guy!! ME: I love to spend weekends traveling or just together creating an adventure, or trying new things. My job is STRESSFUL, so fun is hugely important to me for re-fueling and a healthy balance! I'm FUN, compassionate, patient, loyal, super affectionate, grounded genuine, ht/wt proportionate, honest at all times, silly, playful, open and communicative~ and I'm even more attractive on the inside than the outside - looks fade, wrinkles arrive and none of that matters when we're 80 something, holding hands and knowing your best friend is by your side, and has your back : ) I was married for 17 years, divorced now for 10 years, and I know it takes working together and compromise to make it through the rough spots.... I'm not a runner. I don't yell or use the silent treatment when there's a conflict - and I'm holding out for the kind of rare man who prefers to talk things through - respectfully and honestly, with the goal of resolving things and reconnecting : ) If you need to be right over reconnecting, we probably won't make a good fit.YOU: So the search continues to find my honey... you are in good shape but not a gym rat!, LOL ..emotionally available and mature, confident but not arrogant, have mutual regard for others - (you look for others' perspective in things), you're respectful, genuine, grounded, self aware and open to the option of an exclusive relationship if we get to that place. You're romantic, and love to be romanced in return. You're not afraid to love big and fall hard, and you're very comfortable with letting a woman into your heart along with the feelings, intimacy and passion that brings. You enjoy showing/saying how you feel.... You play hard and have a healthy balance between work, play, family and your other relationships... You have strong morals and a natural love for dogs and kids! (I don't have a dog, but dogs can sniff out the good guys!) You DON'T use recreational drugs and don't need to get drunk if you drink. You're a gentle, straight shooter, even when it would be easier NOT to be, and you appreciate the same from your partner. If you're searching for someone you can always be yourself with, share anything with, and know you've got a safe place to land when life beats you up, we'll likely connect and share alot in common. You have to look at the good and the bad in people, and weigh them out. There's always going to be some of both in all of us..."warts and sparklies" as my Gram used to call them! Natural, easy flowing humor and romance are huge to me...try a little tenderness! Don't be shy - say hello! ... Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink can be the perfect way to keep it light and casual at first, which makes everyone more comfortable for the initial meet and greet : ) Great way to find out if there's any chemistry or potential for a real date. What would you like to do? PLEASE - Don't contact me if: you smoke (anything other than cigars), if you're not at least 5'8" or if you are still MARRIED/SEPARATED (I learned the hard way)! You won't change my mind, no matter how sweet and charming you are, and I will politely excuse myself and leave right then. Besides, does it make sense to start a meeting off with deception?? ...big red flag! (Run Forest, run!)

  • Kelly

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm not on here to provide you with online entertainment. Don't message me with that stupidity.I am seeking someone who can be honest first and foremost. I am very giving. I am devoted to those I choose to surround myself with. I would like to talk and meet and hang out a little and see where it leads. I enjoy lots of things and am always up for trying new things (unless it involves heights). I am a great person, funny, smart. I can hold a conversation about many topics. I like many different kinds of music. I enjoy going out--especially for live music. I'm very open-minded--and expect the person I'm with should be the same way. And if you ride a motorcycle...bonus points!Take a chance and message me. I'll respond back.**If the fact that I have children scares you away, they are grown. But, know that they are 100% #1!!! Ideally, it would be doing something that would allow us time to talk. A picnic, a walk in the park, a wonderful dinner, etc.

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