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Jayne, 47
United States, Montana, Sidney

Offline, last seen Tue, 23 Jun 2026 06:01:44

About Me

*****amended May 20, ***, Before reading ahead please note I have listed a few extra pounds,this does not mean 5 pounds people, so those of you who are writing to me and thinking I am thin I am not!!!! I am a bigger girl, and no I don't sit around eating bon bons all day I have had health issues that have caused weight gain yes!! I would like to be thinner and I am working on it but this is something I am doing for myself and in the meantime I am trying to embrace me and like myself !! Just wanted to be honest and not waste anyones time, I know we all have our preferences ! whew! glad to get that off my chest.. now you can read on if you like!! Thanks for stopping by! Like many of you out there it has taken me lots of courage, and a bottle of wine!kidding, to log on here!! I have been out of the dating scene for quite a while now and was waiting for the right time to jump back in! I realized I was putting my life on hold until some things in my life got back in order until I dated again but after losing my Mom and many other close friends, I came to a realization that life is way to short and if I waited until things in my life were perfect or the way I thought they should be I may never get back out there! So with the encouragement of my great friends I decided to give this a try. With the busy and hectic lives we all lead it is so much harder to meet people and I have many friends who have met and made nice friends through online dating. I am also very chatty, I love a great conversation and I can fit in with all groups of people and social settings you can pretty much take me anywhere and I will fit in and even make your crabbiest friend or relative laugh and smile!! lol!! I am looking for someone similar , someone who is easy going, funny, who is good at communicating and trustworthy, someone who is there through the good times and bad, someone who is independent, accepts my girls nights out!!! and of course I'll accept your guy nights, so important to have our own space too.. also looking for someone to make me a better person and vice versa..looking for my best friend and partner in crime! also we gotta really like each other, loving someone is easy, but liking someone can be a little harder!!!! I love hanging out with my friends, working out, going to the movies, concerts,traveling and exploring new places. It's great to plan things but I also can be very spontaneous. Since I've been out of the dating scene for a while and new to online dating, a first meeting for me would probably be meet for happy hour or coffee, something casual and simple and see how that goes. I am looking for friendship first and take it from there.I believe that it's important to be friends first! Looking forward to talking to you and good luck on your journey!!! Cheers! something simple and casual to start happy hour, coffee a great conversation, lets see if we click if so maybe something more adventurous on dates to follow!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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