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Altha, 49

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About Me

I am 49, divorced and have two grown children. I work full time, days. I'm into music, most types but prefer r&b and old Motown. Enjoy all types of movies. I like camping, going for walks, tattoos and piercings. I have two dogs, Amstaffs and a cat. I am looking for someone honest and not into head games. I'm not looking to be a one night stand or the other woman. I value myself more than that. I'm not looking for anyone to look after me. I work hard and take care of myself. Calling it a date somehow puts pressure on a person. I prefer to call it a meeting. Coffee and conversation would be a good start. See if there is a connection if not we can both walk away without anyones feelings being hurt.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chelsie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    At this point in my life, I'd feel really blessed to find a man who recognizes (and values) a great thing when we share it, has the maturity and hard earned self confidence in his own skin to be a partner, if we're lucky enough to find a strong connection in the first place! A great relationship requires honesty, strong communication skills, mutual regard and making time to play together! We all work hard, but we need to unwind and play : ) Ever see that bumper sticker: "Bark less, Wag more" ? Love that! BTW, about the cartoon with my photos - hopefully, you have a great sense of humor and aren't offended by it - and if I'm lucky, you think it's hysterical and kind of symbolic of online/blind dating, like I do : ) That poor guy!! ME: I love to spend weekends traveling or just together creating an adventure, or trying new things. My job is STRESSFUL, so fun is hugely important to me for re-fueling and a healthy balance! I'm FUN, compassionate, patient, loyal, super affectionate, grounded genuine, ht/wt proportionate, honest at all times, silly, playful, open and communicative~ and I'm even more attractive on the inside than the outside - looks fade, wrinkles arrive and none of that matters when we're 80 something, holding hands and knowing your best friend is by your side, and has your back : ) I was married for 17 years, divorced now for 10 years, and I know it takes working together and compromise to make it through the rough spots.... I'm not a runner. I don't yell or use the silent treatment when there's a conflict - and I'm holding out for the kind of rare man who prefers to talk things through - respectfully and honestly, with the goal of resolving things and reconnecting : ) If you need to be right over reconnecting, we probably won't make a good fit.YOU: So the search continues to find my honey... you are in good shape but not a gym rat!, LOL ..emotionally available and mature, confident but not arrogant, have mutual regard for others - (you look for others' perspective in things), you're respectful, genuine, grounded, self aware and open to the option of an exclusive relationship if we get to that place. You're romantic, and love to be romanced in return. You're not afraid to love big and fall hard, and you're very comfortable with letting a woman into your heart along with the feelings, intimacy and passion that brings. You enjoy showing/saying how you feel.... You play hard and have a healthy balance between work, play, family and your other relationships... You have strong morals and a natural love for dogs and kids! (I don't have a dog, but dogs can sniff out the good guys!) You DON'T use recreational drugs and don't need to get drunk if you drink. You're a gentle, straight shooter, even when it would be easier NOT to be, and you appreciate the same from your partner. If you're searching for someone you can always be yourself with, share anything with, and know you've got a safe place to land when life beats you up, we'll likely connect and share alot in common. You have to look at the good and the bad in people, and weigh them out. There's always going to be some of both in all of us..."warts and sparklies" as my Gram used to call them! Natural, easy flowing humor and romance are huge to me...try a little tenderness! Don't be shy - say hello! ... Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink can be the perfect way to keep it light and casual at first, which makes everyone more comfortable for the initial meet and greet : ) Great way to find out if there's any chemistry or potential for a real date. What would you like to do? PLEASE - Don't contact me if: you smoke (anything other than cigars), if you're not at least 5'8" or if you are still MARRIED/SEPARATED (I learned the hard way)! You won't change my mind, no matter how sweet and charming you are, and I will politely excuse myself and leave right then. Besides, does it make sense to start a meeting off with deception?? ...big red flag! (Run Forest, run!)

  • Pearlene

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi! I'm Lisa. It's nice to "meet" you. Thanks for taking time to read over my profile. I asked a few of my girlfriends to describe me and these were their comments: spontaneous, funny, bubbly, energetic, passionate, fearless, and adventurous. I like my friends... They say nice things about me! ;) I would add that I'm a Midwestern girl... down to earth, reliable and trustworthy. I'm financially secure and stable. I own my own home and take pride in my house and my appearance. I try to stay fit and like to incorporate exercise into fun activities like hiking or biking. I laugh at guys who want a woman who can wear jeans and a sweatshirt during the day and put on a black dress at night... Can't we all do that? It's just a matter of getting a shower and changing clothes! (ha!) I can be ready to go in 45 minutes or less! :) Let's see... I travel with my job about every week. I enjoy the variety that being somewhere new each week brings, and enjoy having my home office days to recover and re-group. Being gone a few days makes me appreciate being home, too. I have two grown children ***and 23), a grandson and a granddaughter on her way! I have a rescue dog (boxer mix), too!I enjoy all kinds of activities. I'm up for trying just about anything at least once! Maybe you can find something I haven't tried yet! (but good luck!!)I believe that at my age, (and probably yours, too), we all have our baggage from the past. The tricky part is to find someone whose bags don't clash with yours but hopefully maybe even match a little! Oh, and maybe I can ask you a favor? If I do take the time to write to you and I'm not your cup of tea, please be polite and say you're not really interested... I'd rather get a polite, Thanks but no thanks, than to just be *** be anything really.... I'd enjoy a drink and great conversation, a coffee and a walk, or even a go-kart race against you at Andretti's! I bet I'd beat you!

  • Elza

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello, I would love to meet someone Special to share my life with, double the laughter and mitigate the not so good times and always try to focus on the bright side. My new fav sport is snorkeling. I enjoy walks, movies, sunny days, working out, watching soccer, travel, Happy Hours, BBQs, hanging out with my friends, home projects and much more.Enjoying life is a goal of mine. How about you? My aspiration is to share this joy with someone Special, someone that has similar aspirations and goals.I am a positive, fun person. A bit sarcastic at times but always in a good way. Love cuddling and good conversations. I love exploring new cultures and would hope you do too.Besides speaking English, I am also fluent in German and Spanish. Meet for coffee, a drink or a bite to eat, maybe a comedy show or a play.

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