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ChelsieOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
At this point in my life, I'd feel really blessed to find a man who recognizes (and values) a great thing when we share it, has the maturity and hard earned self confidence in his own skin to be a partner, if we're lucky enough to find a strong connection in the first place! A great relationship requires honesty, strong communication skills, mutual regard and making time to play together! We all work hard, but we need to unwind and play : ) Ever see that bumper sticker: "Bark less, Wag more" ? Love that! BTW, about the cartoon with my photos - hopefully, you have a great sense of humor and aren't offended by it - and if I'm lucky, you think it's hysterical and kind of symbolic of online/blind dating, like I do : ) That poor guy!! ME: I love to spend weekends traveling or just together creating an adventure, or trying new things. My job is STRESSFUL, so fun is hugely important to me for re-fueling and a healthy balance! I'm FUN, compassionate, patient, loyal, super affectionate, grounded genuine, ht/wt proportionate, honest at all times, silly, playful, open and communicative~ and I'm even more attractive on the inside than the outside - looks fade, wrinkles arrive and none of that matters when we're 80 something, holding hands and knowing your best friend is by your side, and has your back : ) I was married for 17 years, divorced now for 10 years, and I know it takes working together and compromise to make it through the rough spots.... I'm not a runner. I don't yell or use the silent treatment when there's a conflict - and I'm holding out for the kind of rare man who prefers to talk things through - respectfully and honestly, with the goal of resolving things and reconnecting : ) If you need to be right over reconnecting, we probably won't make a good fit.YOU: So the search continues to find my honey... you are in good shape but not a gym rat!, LOL ..emotionally available and mature, confident but not arrogant, have mutual regard for others - (you look for others' perspective in things), you're respectful, genuine, grounded, self aware and open to the option of an exclusive relationship if we get to that place. You're romantic, and love to be romanced in return. You're not afraid to love big and fall hard, and you're very comfortable with letting a woman into your heart along with the feelings, intimacy and passion that brings. You enjoy showing/saying how you feel.... You play hard and have a healthy balance between work, play, family and your other relationships... You have strong morals and a natural love for dogs and kids! (I don't have a dog, but dogs can sniff out the good guys!) You DON'T use recreational drugs and don't need to get drunk if you drink. You're a gentle, straight shooter, even when it would be easier NOT to be, and you appreciate the same from your partner. If you're searching for someone you can always be yourself with, share anything with, and know you've got a safe place to land when life beats you up, we'll likely connect and share alot in common. You have to look at the good and the bad in people, and weigh them out. There's always going to be some of both in all of us..."warts and sparklies" as my Gram used to call them! Natural, easy flowing humor and romance are huge to me...try a little tenderness! Don't be shy - say hello! ... Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink can be the perfect way to keep it light and casual at first, which makes everyone more comfortable for the initial meet and greet : ) Great way to find out if there's any chemistry or potential for a real date. What would you like to do? PLEASE - Don't contact me if: you smoke (anything other than cigars), if you're not at least 5'8" or if you are still MARRIED/SEPARATED (I learned the hard way)! You won't change my mind, no matter how sweet and charming you are, and I will politely excuse myself and leave right then. Besides, does it make sense to start a meeting off with deception?? ...big red flag! (Run Forest, run!)
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KatiOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I love to laugh, experience new things and challenge myself. Most of my challenges are fitness related. Im not really competitive, I just like being able to accomplish goals that I have set for myself. I also like playing tennis, however, I'm not that great at it. It probably provides a lot of laughs for anyone who may be watching, including myself.The above is easy to describe, but I have typed and deleted more words then I can count trying to write what I am looking for. So I'm going to keep it simple...I am looking for the love of my life, my best friend, confidant, and protector. Someone who knows he's a man and treats me like a woman. Someone I can to share not only the extraordinary with but also the mundane. I don't live in the past but I have one, just as most of us do. I can't stand drama and live a pretty drama free life, thank God. I have the best son in the entire world, a dog, a bearded dragon, a great job that I have had for almost 23 years, awesome family and friends, and can't wait to add the love of my life to this list.What I am not looking for...a boy in a mans body, a liar, a cheat, friends with benefits, a one night stand, or someone who has no clue what they want. Interested in meeting, shoot me a message and let's see where it goes. The only expectation I have for a first date, is that it is someplace where we can be comfortable and have the opportunity to get to know each other.
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ChelsieOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Looking to meet fun, energetic; caucasion men only (near my own age) in the hopes of finding the one that makes me tingle but I am NOT into casual sex. My mate would be nice looking, well groomed, able bodied and active. No youngsters, pessimists, couch potatoes, narcisists, druggies or alcoholics, please. If you are another ethnicity, obese, unkempt or unemployed I am not interested! I love to dance and can tear up a floor if the music isn't "Techno" or "Hip Hop"! I am an animal lover and enjoy any outdoor activity provided it doesn't involve a ball. I enjoy walks, bike rides, wading, star gazing, scalloping, crabbing and staying up until EARLY morning hours.I am young at heart, full of energy and ready to live a little. I am playful and an optimist. Physical chemistry is what I seek. I would like the pleasure of the company of nice looking men who wish to date the old fashioned way and enjoy the process of finding love again. My first date would be to meet at a local lounge/bar for drinks. If there is a connection, a casual dinner. If we hit it off well we would ride to the beach to stick our feet in the sand with a drink while we get to know each other until the wee hours...?