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Abelia, 50

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About Me

I moved here from CT in jan ***. i have 2 sons 1 is 10 yrs old. the other is 26yrs old.I like camping,parks,long car rides, cook outs, hanging out with family and friends,playing board games. Being new to the area everything is a new experience.I am a very independant person.i like to try to do things on my own before i ask for help, which at times can be a good thing, or even a bad thing. i like to do home projects One of the things i like to do on a first date is go to a coffee house,or a local park and just talk and kind of get to know eachother.I like first dates to be casual so both people feel comfortable, as i can be a little shy at first.I also like it if the other person has some imput as far as what to do or where to go.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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