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***I haven't been on here in a while, but... all the stuff below is true, that is all me. I tried this a couple of times, I am one of those types of girls (you are not going to believe this) but WANT to avoid drama and BS in a relationship. I am one of those "nice guys (girls) finish last" I think that I was too nice for my own good. I guess some guys like a bit of a challenge. I thought maybe I should try not to be so nice, but it's not me. So, I guess it's better for not being wanted because I am too nice, Versus being liked for who I am not.***original post***below ***Joined) I am an all around kind of girl. I am shy, but like attention. I think I am a fun person to hang around with, whether it's going to an art gallery, camping, racing, or to a game or the show (by show, I mean car shows, air shows, boat races) I don't go out dancing much, but like to dance. I like listening to some music on the beach sipping on a beverage or even listing to nothing up on the river. Oh and I like to cook too. I enjoy all sorts of music, Country is my main genre, but I like blues, jazz, old rock and roll, not into acid rock or opera or vulgar rap. I am shy, until I get to know someone. I like listening to some music on the beach location, sipping on a beverage and listening to some music.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Patrica

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a fun loving, spunky, young at heart woman with 2 wonderful boys who enjoys life to the fullest. I enjoy anything outdoors from walking, biking or just sitting on a bench people watching. I am comfortable in my own skin and confident. I love to meet new people, make new friends and I've been blessed in my profession as it has given me the opportunity to travel to many places. I am interested in learning about new cultures, history and exotic foods! It's great to be confident and do that on my own but I look forward to sharing those experiences with someone special and making new memories with that someone in the future. I even tried a bite of a scorpion on a stick - but that is a once in a life time thing!!! When spending time with someone one of my favorite things to do is to make a great dinner together and enjoy it over a nice bottle of wine with great conversation or to enjoy a great walk together and not have to say a thing. I love to bike, hike and spend time around great friends and family! I appreciate fine art, museums, galleries, theater, wine as well as kicking off my shoes and relaxing on a beach chair! I am not much into bugs or worms - although I do find the odd carcass in my children's pockets!!I would like to find someone who loves life, has a positive outlook, takes care of himself and can laugh until his gut hurts. Also someone who loves music. I enjoy listening to anything from classic rock - blues - jazz - I love to go out to a great concert in a large venue or to something more romantic and personal at Pantages or the Concert Hall.- I think music is therapeutic relaxing and good for the soul! Most importantly i am looking for someone who is honest, true to himself, motivated and easy going and one who loves kids and enjoys spending time with them. My kids are my greatest teachers in life and are the most important thing in my world. I am looking for someone who knows who he is and knows what he wants out of life and someone who is surely over the bar Barbie doll scene! Also I would kindly appreciate a clear picture or two as i like to see who i am communicating with! Thanks!If you are him send me a message! I would love to hear from you! I'd love to do something outdoors...

  • Vanna

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    We're a good match because... We know that we have been blessed and are grateful. We know we have a good life. We do a job that we're proud of. We hold hands. We volunteer in the community. We honor our military and are patriots. We enjoy being the other half of a couple, with all the social activities that entails: dancing, cuddling at the movies, having mutual friends over for a meal, to play cards, or to meet us at a local football or hockey game. We live within a 30 minute drive of each other, and are open to the idea of living together in the future. We take random evening drives, or just have a spontaneous weekend away somewhere romantic. We surround ourselves with spiritual, positive, hardworking, honest people. We're open to exploring the world together! You're good for me because... In addition to things listed in the first paragraph, I'm a sucker for your hard biceps, your great smile and the fact that you think the glass is half full, not half empty. You're serious, but then will say or do something goofy that makes me laugh. You're passionate and compassionate. You're a romantic man--a man who treats me like a lady in public. You're a ";; someone who's confident, who's comfortable in his skin and knows he's attractive, but isn't arrogant or narcissistic. You're understanding, patient and encouraging, as I continue my journey to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle. You're a man who misses me when we're away from each other and leaves me sexy voicemail at my office, while I'm in meetings. You're a man who says romantic things to me on the phone while he's in the checkout line, and doesn't care who hears him. I'm good for you because... In addition to things listed in the first paragraph, I'm someone to go on a long-term romantic adventure with. I'm someone with passion, laughter and two little rescue dogs. I live in a drama-free zone and am pretty mellow. I'm someone who will be beside you through thick and thin. I don't like confrontation or arguments. I'm a very feminine and traditional woman in a lot of ways, but one who is also adventurous and curious about life. I'm someone who has a corporate career, yet is also a designer and writer. I'm a woman who is shy around strangers, but confident, once she knows someone. I'm a woman who, even though she can't have children of her own, loves children and has 7 godchildren scattered around the country. I'm a woman who enjoys any type of music, except heavy metal or rap. And, I'm a woman who is candid and honest, but not rude or sarcastic.PS - I'm flattered, but sorry guys, I'm NOT sexually attracted to black men. It's more of a stroll than a walk though--my Dachshund is 10 and we go at her pace. LoL The point is, we're still getting to know each other, so we need to be comfortable. This could also be a coffee somewhere, putt-putt golf, or a game of Scrabble! The conversation and the laughter are so much more important than the location and how much money we spend. The strongest foundation for a relationship is to be friends first. That first handshake and hug are crucial. They will determine if there's a spark that indicates this will be a deeper relationship, or if we're going to just be friends. If either of us don't feel that connection, it's completely okay to say, "I'm just not feeling that spark with you". No harm done. It's not something that can be determined online, or over the phone. When you meet, you'll know.Thanks for reading my profile and have a wonderful day!Irish

  • Marisa

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a pessimist because of intelligence, but an optimist because of will I'm not always sure I WANT a relationship. And sometimes I KNOW I do. I like my life. I like where I live.Sometimes I think the best kind of relationship would be that he has his house and I have mine.EXCEPTI miss intimacyYes, sexbut also that face to face ntimacy that comes with lovers who love each other-that, "this was my day" review that makes you both feel better about it-that ridiculous, childish laugh you both share about something silly and completely unexplainable-the ember of desire when you catch a whiff of his scent, -and the flame that lets you lose yourself into itProbably too darn candid for a "successful dating site profile," but I'm too old to play games, and too niave and young-hearted to lie.I work hard, too hard. I'm a poet and an artist (if that makes you want to say, "gag me with a spoon," please move on)I'm Spiritual. Don't assume.I'm pretty many say (eyesight fades as we age, isn't that a grand illusion!) P.S. I'm older than my profile says. It won't allow me to fix it.I'm not thin, but if you think I'm fat, go away. I'm a woman, it's called an hour-glass shape;there's just a little more sand through the middle now.Is THAT what's meant by "shifting sand!?"I laugh a lot, smile more.I cry easily (if you don't like that please look for "men seeking men") I cry for saddness, happiness, beauty and wonder. Don't fear the tear.Having said that, I have friends of every race, gender and belief system. I'm blatently socially liberal, and yet weirdly personally conservative. I'm a bit quirky, but not in ways that would shame you. I've been called "delightfully disorganized."I am a woman of honour; I seek a man who is honourable.I love dogs. I have three. One by choice, one by rescue, one by default.I'm smart, but not haughty. I don't like haughty. What's the point? There's something to learn from everyone.If you think you might be the Yin to my Yang (or yang to my yin?) message me. Who knows. Being somewhere where we could talk and learn about each otherWalking dogs together (must love dogs, yup... I said that!)

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