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About Me

***I haven't been on here in a while, but... all the stuff below is true, that is all me. I tried this a couple of times, I am one of those types of girls (you are not going to believe this) but WANT to avoid drama and BS in a relationship. I am one of those "nice guys (girls) finish last" I think that I was too nice for my own good. I guess some guys like a bit of a challenge. I thought maybe I should try not to be so nice, but it's not me. So, I guess it's better for not being wanted because I am too nice, Versus being liked for who I am not.***original post***below ***Joined) I am an all around kind of girl. I am shy, but like attention. I think I am a fun person to hang around with, whether it's going to an art gallery, camping, racing, or to a game or the show (by show, I mean car shows, air shows, boat races) I don't go out dancing much, but like to dance. I like listening to some music on the beach sipping on a beverage or even listing to nothing up on the river. Oh and I like to cook too. I enjoy all sorts of music, Country is my main genre, but I like blues, jazz, old rock and roll, not into acid rock or opera or vulgar rap. I am shy, until I get to know someone. I like listening to some music on the beach location, sipping on a beverage and listening to some music.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Fae

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I guess its time to update my profile. its been 2 years at this point. I actually thought i had deleted this account but im still getting messages so im back for a bit. Not sure what to say about me other than im a no bs zone. I can smell it a mile away and hear it when people open their mouths. Im strong willed. Independant. Want a relationship that compliments both our lives but doesnt smother either. I cant miss you if you never go away lol. Other than that....I have 2 girls both grown. 2 grandsons and a grand daughter due in september. I am very devoted to my grand babies. I work. Days. In manufacturing. Not glamorous but it pays the bills.

  • Elvira

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I want the VERY BEST LIFE that is possible. Not perfection - but working for excellence always. Enjoying life, a positive outlook and having a good time are important to me. BALANCE and PEACE are very important. I am learning to play golf. I enjoy tennis and other sports, but I also can have a great time spending the day hanging out, going on a day-trip, walking around, having a nice dinner and just enjoying being with you. I want to be with someone who smiles when he thinks of me - whether it is about something we have done or something he wants to do in the future. Someone who wants a healthy and active life. Someone who values the intimacy between us. Someone to laugh with and share fun times with- to be silly sometimes. Someone who is willing to work with me to keep what we have fun, fresh, exciting and fulfilling. Someone who motivates me and drives me to do better and to be a better person. Someone who is fully committed to the partnership and willing to work as hard as I do to make a fabulous life for us. Someone who strives for excellence and expects the best.I am seeking a loyal partner that I can trust to be on OUR team. Someone who balances and compliments my strengths and weaknesses - as I do his. Someone who has my back - always - as I do his, but who walks beside me. A mature, solid, stable, secure, honest, loyal, decent man who is doing his thing everyday - doing what's right- living a Godly life- with goals and things he wants out of life - and who wants a partner to share his life with - not someone he HAS to get home to but someone he WANTS to come home to and someone he will protect and treat with respect. Best wishes in your search.

  • Vanna

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    We're a good match because... We know that we have been blessed and are grateful. We know we have a good life. We do a job that we're proud of. We hold hands. We volunteer in the community. We honor our military and are patriots. We enjoy being the other half of a couple, with all the social activities that entails: dancing, cuddling at the movies, having mutual friends over for a meal, to play cards, or to meet us at a local football or hockey game. We live within a 30 minute drive of each other, and are open to the idea of living together in the future. We take random evening drives, or just have a spontaneous weekend away somewhere romantic. We surround ourselves with spiritual, positive, hardworking, honest people. We're open to exploring the world together! You're good for me because... In addition to things listed in the first paragraph, I'm a sucker for your hard biceps, your great smile and the fact that you think the glass is half full, not half empty. You're serious, but then will say or do something goofy that makes me laugh. You're passionate and compassionate. You're a romantic man--a man who treats me like a lady in public. You're a ";; someone who's confident, who's comfortable in his skin and knows he's attractive, but isn't arrogant or narcissistic. You're understanding, patient and encouraging, as I continue my journey to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle. You're a man who misses me when we're away from each other and leaves me sexy voicemail at my office, while I'm in meetings. You're a man who says romantic things to me on the phone while he's in the checkout line, and doesn't care who hears him. I'm good for you because... In addition to things listed in the first paragraph, I'm someone to go on a long-term romantic adventure with. I'm someone with passion, laughter and two little rescue dogs. I live in a drama-free zone and am pretty mellow. I'm someone who will be beside you through thick and thin. I don't like confrontation or arguments. I'm a very feminine and traditional woman in a lot of ways, but one who is also adventurous and curious about life. I'm someone who has a corporate career, yet is also a designer and writer. I'm a woman who is shy around strangers, but confident, once she knows someone. I'm a woman who, even though she can't have children of her own, loves children and has 7 godchildren scattered around the country. I'm a woman who enjoys any type of music, except heavy metal or rap. And, I'm a woman who is candid and honest, but not rude or sarcastic.PS - I'm flattered, but sorry guys, I'm NOT sexually attracted to black men. It's more of a stroll than a walk though--my Dachshund is 10 and we go at her pace. LoL The point is, we're still getting to know each other, so we need to be comfortable. This could also be a coffee somewhere, putt-putt golf, or a game of Scrabble! The conversation and the laughter are so much more important than the location and how much money we spend. The strongest foundation for a relationship is to be friends first. That first handshake and hug are crucial. They will determine if there's a spark that indicates this will be a deeper relationship, or if we're going to just be friends. If either of us don't feel that connection, it's completely okay to say, "I'm just not feeling that spark with you". No harm done. It's not something that can be determined online, or over the phone. When you meet, you'll know.Thanks for reading my profile and have a wonderful day!Irish

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