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Phyliss, 46

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About Me

Hi there. I am tired of being alone, but am not willing to compromise my morals. Looking for friendship first just to get to know each other. Would like someone that wants to spend time with me. I love football (NFL) or Hawkeyes. Taking long walks, holding hands, long drives. Love being with friends but like to cuddle on the couch watching movies. Like all kinds of music.Very much an animal lover espcially dogs.I want someone that is honest, none of the bs that is out there. I have 2 daughters and they are grown but still try to spend time with them when they are not busy in their own lives. Tired of throwing myself out there and getting nothing in return, would like someone that is going to respond, but no games. If your profile says that you want a relationship, but then only seem to have time to see me between midnight and 6 am....DO NOT RESPOND! Too old for those games! Nice lunch, dinner, or coffee in a quiet place so we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brenna

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I would best describe myself as driven, loyal, quick witted, life of the party, but still enjoy a quite evening with my favorite bottle of wine.I am a sucessful business owner and have raised 4 wonderful daughters, two of which are still at home.I enjoy being active and staying healthy and fit. I am most happy when I am entertaining. I love to cook! I am looking for a "gentleman" to spend time with, someone who isn't afraid to open the door for a lady. My ideal first date would be to meet for a drink and conversation to see if we have common interests........

  • Norene

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    :)I have three childen. A daughter and two son's. They are over eighteen, in college, and on their own.(Well- kinda) :) They mean the world to me!I am ready for a real relationship with a Gentleman. A man that knows how to treat me like the lady that I am. To walk beside me. With manners please!!!! I am down to earth and drama free! My life is pretty simple, in a good way. I love adventure and being active!.. A New Earth and the Power of Now. Enlightening. Love the concept.Love road trips. Music (alternative mostly) I am a positive and happy woman.I am balanced in my life. I am independant. I would love to meet that special guy. ****I WANT someone. I don't need someone.**** ( Well~ OK sometimes I do). :) If you think we might be compatable send me a message. Going to get a bite. Something simple. Coffee!

  • Geraldine

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Yep, I still believe in the fairy tale ending, but this is just the beginning.I'm trying to get this third attempt at a profile just right. First version attracted guys who wanted a relationship, but weren't willing to take their time to find the right woman. Second version attracted guys who only wanted sex. I'm hoping the third time is the charm. This time, I'm skipping subtlety and going straight to the point. I've kissed a few frogs, and although it was educational, I'd prefer to avoid the fly-breath if at all possible.Here goes...I am looking for a long term committed relationship. Ideally, that would be marriage.I am not interested in an ***, or in any person who needs to have exclusivity before we even get past the first few dates. We both have family, friends, careers, assets, and social obligations. Regardless of how strong the attraction is, and how compatible our interests and relationship needs are, it takes time to evaluate whether or not all those various components will mesh. I don't feel you can decide that by reading a profile or having a couple of dinners together. I will admit that I sound archaic here, but we used to call the exploratory phase "dating". Apparently, that term is now a euphemism for casual sex. Just to be clear, I am not interested in that, either. In fact, the chance of you getting in my pants before we are in an exclusive relationship with substantial long term potential is zip. Zero. Zilch. Nada. Ain't gonna happen, bro.I'm not judging. I've been there, done that, and what I find is that as soon as sex is involved, I lose my objectivity. I have skin in the game, literally, and its hard to walk away from a steady supply of sex or love, or any reasonable facsimile thereof. I plan to relocate, but I am reluctant to sell my house. I bought it after my husband died, and it has become a symbol to me that I can make it on my own even when it feels scary as hell.My daughter and I laid ceramic tile through the whole house right after I bought it. I have patched and painted drywall, refinished the kitchen cupboards, and have dedicated entire afternoons to researching the relative merits of Home Depot -vs- Menards. Last summer, my sister and I replaced the aluminum soffit and fascia with a borrowed nail gun and some expert advice.And yeah, I know, I could pay people to do those kinds of things, but I feel like this house has been my proving ground. And, yeah, I also know that is completely irrational, but that doesn't mean it's not true. I love being outside. I like to hike, camp, kayak, ride horseback, ride bike, and even enjoy shoveling snow, dragging brush, and stacking firewood. Anything to be outside. In case you haven't figured it out, I am a very physical person. I am a Chief Financial Officer, so I sit behind a desk or at a conference table all day, but that is what I do to pay the bills. It's not who I am. In a relationship, I need lots of physical contact. I don't like over the top public displays, but at home, I need to be able to sit beside you on the couch, touch you, wrestle, dance in the living room, play tag, hug, indulge in long bouts of passionate kissing, and initiate sex without feeling inhibited.Lastly, I am pretty traditional when it comes to the male/female roles. If you vacuum or wash dishes, I'll appreciate it, but in general, I will view the cooking, cleaning, and laundry as my job. Likewise, I'll expect you to either fix the sink or call the plumber, trap the occasional mouse, and tackle all of the burglars. I know that is not politically correct, but that simple division of labor works well for me. The last thing I want to do when I get home from work is to worry about whose turn it is to make dinner or take the car in for an oil change. If you have managed to read my entire profile without being tempted to send me a reference for a class on modern behavior in human beings, we might be a match. I'd love to hear from you.Samie You choose. I am interested in what you would decide.

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