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Tonia, 45

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About Me

It's hard to fit me into a category so the best way to describe me is I'M ME. I'm usually quiet when you first meet me unless I'm with people who really know me but once I get comfortable around you anything goes. I can be serious when needed but have been kicked out of a mini-golf course for not acting appropriately (it was a water hazard thing and I wasn't the only one in my group to get wet). I'm not active or serious in any sport but do enjoy myself when playing and feel at home in the water (past lifeguard and swimming *** love the outdoors as well as several indoor activities, mainly whatever I'm in the mood for at the moment. I love trying new things and the bigger the variety the better (so I don't get bored). I'm looking for someone who also has many interests and doesn't attempt to do only what he thinks I might like - how am I going to know you if you don't open up and let me see and who knows, I might find a new interest too. I don't drink but have no problem if you do and have no problem being the designated driver. Alcohol triggers my migraines but I can act stupid without it, and have been accused of being a drunk when around the right people.I'm looking for someone who compliments me, not someone like me. Honesty is very important and it starts from the first message, please have a recent pic if you want to meet so I know who to look for *** making me guess what changes happened over the years. My pics are fairly recent and I'm working on getting new ones to post, what you see is what you get. I'm not the type of person who is impressed with things or how much you spend when taking me out. The best way to win me over is to be yourself and relax, if there's a connection it will last longer without having to work thru false impressions. I've lead a full life with lots of bumps as well as smooth rides, I know you probably have too, but that is what makes us who we are so why hide it. I'm ready to move on and find the next path (or make my own) and am looking for someone to keep me company and maybe add to the adventure.If you are interested in getting to know me leave me a message and more than just a hi, tell me a little about you or ask something about me. Anything we can still talk while doing, after we get to know each other and find out if things click louder and more active dates can be planned.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Ching

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I have spent a lot of time staring at this screen trying to figure out the best way to start this...and decided I cannot be witty and cute when I put too much pressure on myself...so taking a deep breath, relaxing and here it goes... My entire family is Mormon, but I do not practice. I moved to VA when I was 18 to be a nanny and never left. I love this area...love that my local news is national news, that 30 minutes in one direction I am in the Nations capital and 30 in the other is wine and horse country.I have never been married and while always wanted children, I don't have any. My mom passed away when I was 8 and she and my dad had 6 kids. My dad remarried and she had 4 kids and then they had 2 together. I have 39 nieces and nephews and 10 greats. They all live closer to the west coast and so I only get to see them once a year and some only every other...the only down side to living out here.I have a dog and she is part if my family. I am a dog vs cat person. (Very allergic to cats)I enjoy getting dressed up and going to a play or show in DC one minute... And tailgating at a sporting event the next.Aside from rap and really really heavy metal, I love most kinds of music.I have a good core group of friends whom most I have known for almost 20 years. They would describe me as funny with a hearty laugh, loyal, honest, big heart, great with kids and occasionally says what other people are thinking (not always a good thing, but you always know where you stand haha).I enjoy my life and the people who are in it...I have been single because I wont settle and I am not afraid of being alone. I am looking to meet new people and hopefully somewhere along the way find someone to be a best friend and lover. First date? Well I could go into all sorts of amazing things that would be fun to do, but realistically, it should be coffee or a drink in a public place...

  • Rosana

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love reading, going to the beach, walking my dog, kick-boxing as well as cooking and shopping. I also enjoy the theater, movies, browsing book stores and the Phila Museum of Art. My absolute favorite thing to do is laugh - if you can make me laugh, you are the guy for me! My only pet peeves are dishonesty and negativity, those are deal breakers. My friends and family are everything to me. I hope to someday find the kind of love, loyalty and friendship that I saw with my parents in their marriage. However, I feel that it's always best to start with friendship and see what develops. My ideal mate would be a caring, funny and outgoing man who doesn't take everything so seriously. Someone who is secure with himself and a has a strong sense of family and friends. First dates can be a bit awkward for everyone, that's why I think they should be somewhat brief. For *** meet for coffee or a drink to see if we have things in common and take it from there.

  • Shawna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    My attempt at explaining myself, here goes:I understand that there are lots of people on this site that are looking for "love at first site", but I have to keep it a little real. I would like to meet someone that I can talk too, enjoy my time with, and have something potential to build on. I don't think that it is wrong to want someone to kiss, "snuggle", and get busy with (LOL)...but I also believe that you have to have something to build on to get to those places. While every girl loves attention - some of the people that I have met over time seem to think that having a warm body next to you means that the kiss, snuggling, and getting busy comes naturally...at first bite. My goals: To be a person, not a body, to someone who is looking for a relationship. I've been told to be honest, and I guess that is the only way I will find someone that is 'truely' looking for the same thing as myself. Therefore, let it be known that when I say a few extra pounds, I just might be too "fat" for some of you to date! :o) I'm good with who I am and what I have to offer someone who deserves my attention.I'm looking for someone to spend time with that enjoys doing a variety of things. Although I enjoy my time at home, I also like to get out and do/try different things. My favorite type of entertainment involves live events such as music, sports, comedy, etc. I also enjoy spending time at home with someone I care about, making a nice meal and enjoying a movie, taking walks, riding bikes, and shooting baskets in the driveway.I would like a relationship that involves lots of hugs, kisses, and a good partnership.I look forward to hearing from you! I'm always up for suggestions. Usual first dates involve coffee or dinner to meet and greet. :o)

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