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Verla, 42

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About Me

First let me just say this..I've been separated for over 3 years. I could lie as to not intimidate people from saying Hi... but why? I don't lie.. not about to start now. However, I didn't have a horrible marriage. Never thought of it as a piece of paper.. so another piece of paper isn't going to tell me when its over. He lied for years, and has a girlfriend. I don't like to share the man IM with. I'm not one to make anyone else pay for his stupidity.Everyone gets their own clean slate. You Write your own story. That being said. I'm an amazing woman who is worth getting to know. That is up to you:)! ***** NOT LOOKING FOR JUST a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP****IF THAT'S ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR PLEASE PASS ME UP***** My girls are my everything but I'm excited to see what the world has to offer. Excited about the changes i have been making and even more excited what those changes will do in my life. Looking for someone who can be honest... I'm not here looking for a perfect someone. Just someone perfect for me. Humor & laughing is really important to me..Love someone who can make me laugh. Love holding hands and just talking , getting to know each other.I love to go fishing & camping, bon-fires. find a quiet place to read, Photography is a favorite of mine, Love the beach & the water , love to swim, I love all the outdoor summer fests, live music, anything that gets me outside in the sun. Not big into shopping but will do it if i have too (I know...a woman who doesn't like to shop..lol) I do daycare and am a live in care taker for an elderly woman.. make an ok living at it, but i love kids.I love that laughter. I come from a very close family & have an amazing group of very supportive friends. Holidays are a huge part of my life. Summer and Fall are my favorite seasons. Love long walks in the fallen leaves. Open to new ideas. I'm a very laid back person. So not into the fancy stuff.. Just very down to earth. very honest and straight forward. so if you can handle that... Finding someone I like hanging out with would be awsome.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B

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  • Catrice

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have been single for a couple of years and I thought that I would give this site another try. I'm attracted to men who are taller than me (5'***and have some meat on their bones. I love kids and I have one child who is grown. I can honestly say I am excited to have some grandchildren.I spent the majority of the last 20 years single and focused on my child.I have a bad back. This has slowed me down significantly, but I still love to get out and enjoy life.I'm looking for a relationship, not sexual encounters. I'm shy, modest, but also outspoken.I spend most of my time with my family. I moved in with my elderly parents to help my Mom take care of my Dad. He past in June, but I don't want to leave my Mom. That is the hard part of aging, your parents and loved ones deteriorate before our eyes. I chose well when I made the move.I grew up in the country, which I loved. I also love the city.I love horses, swimming, and travel.I'm an earthy person. I enjoy the simple things.4:20=)I'm looking for someone honest, kind, with no games.

  • Claris

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am the girl next door..Communication is essential for any relationship to be successful. Not only can I talk...but I also listen! We all, have a "type" of person we are attracted to. I happen to be attracted to your All American White Guy. If you are of another race I won't be your match also not a fan of the Rebel Flag loving men so please pass me by..and thank you so very much to all of you for writing to me anyway just in case I have suddenly changed my mind or OBVIOUSLY you can't or chose not to read what I have written.I have been Divorced for 7 years and would like to find a man that is somewhere in the same stratosphere relationship wise.My daughter is 13 and I share joint custody with her Dad, she is a nature lover and we can often be found in search of tadpoles, frogs and turtles...we have yearly passes to the Aquarium and Busch Gardens.Things I don't enjoy...camping in a tent, NASCAR, country music (makes my ears bleed).We will probably not be a match if you have a bathroom picture with your shirt off and your sunglasses on....so not cool anymore.A few facts- I can bait my own hook, and then take the fish off...I have changed the garbage disposal and the timer in my washing machine, hooked up my new HD Home theater system all by myself, and can really kick your butt in trivial pursuit! ;) Something I am not good at...hanging curtain rods, seems you are supposed to measure first! Newest to the list...I assembled a full bedroom set bought from IKEA for my 12 year old daughter, that's about a thousand pieces with only pictures..no words for directions!(Sarcasm ahead...)I also feel compelled to tell you that I do enjoy walks on the beach, sunsets, puppies, kittens, flowers and notes just randomly left for no reason....seems no profile is complete without this vital info. (end sarcasm) Another thing I wanted to add as it seems just about all of then men here are looking for the "one" that can go from the flirty black dress to the flip flops and jeans....I havegot that covered!What makes me someone you would want to get to know? I am a very loyal friend, I am candid and have no issues with expressing how I feel and am forever optimistic and according to my Father I was the best daughter...EVER!Couple of things....I am very proud of how I survived the economic crash of 06 so...if you are one of the many that have decided it was the cool thing to do and stop paying for your mortgage just because everyone else was doing it...we won't be a match....I am very responsible and have zero respect for system suckers or people trying to walk away from their obligations. In a nutshell, I have my act together...if this intimidates you...I am not the gal for you.I love to laugh....not just a chuckle....belly laugh until you can't breathe..that does a body and spirit good!I love to go to concerts, festivals, street fairs, museums, shows, movies, sporting events. I am a huge people watcher. Would love to start travelling more, there are so many interesting beautiful places to see.Looking for someone kind and honest who can match my sense of humor, carry on a meaningful conversation and has a real zest for life!Thank you again for taking the time to read all of this...best of luck to all of us. So many options, dinner at a quiet restaurant is always good, not too many distractions and we can see if there is any chemistry.

  • Eliz

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a single working mom,I Love Jesus!!!!! I prefer to date black men. I have 2 kids(both almost grown) and my 5 babies-( my 4 chihuahua's & beagle/boxer/pit mix lol), so i don't have time for games or babies. My kids are the most important thing to me. Planning to go back and finish school have finally decided on medical coding and billing (can work in an office or from home) & a 2nd degree in Medical Assisting****Started back to school ***going for 2 different Associates of Science degrees- will be earning 2/2yr degrees in only 2years *****-- I am open, honest & blunt- looking for the same. Age is not important- but maturity is. I love to laugh and joke around, looking for someone who can be sexy and silly, and be able to laugh at themselves. Looking for confident, but not full of themselves. Want someone who'll accept me the way i am-not perfect. Sense of humor is a must, Do not msg me if yr only looking for a hookup. Looking for someone laid back, very affectionate. I love time with my kids & the babies(the dogs), swimming, walks(love to walk the babies & take walks with kids),animal lover big time,swimming, fishing,bowling,catching up with people on ***, comedies, crime & forensics & mystery shows,love to do word finds, reading,games, i tend to have an off the wall sarcastic sense of humor & come out with unexpected types of comments or jokes, im very open.; CSR, corrections officer mens max security jail, customer service, shift mngt, store mngt, ran a home business, cashiering, stocking, sales). Looking for someone who enjoys our time together no matter what we're doing, even the little things like making dinner, watching tv, running errands,etc.) I am looking for long term eventually with someone who wants to be continually growing together. I can do it on my own even if I am struggling, but would love someone to support me emotionally and work with me to achieve our goals together. Eventually working from home is a goal, would like to be more flexible for my kids & have more time to enjoy them and enjoy life. I am an open book, looking for the same. Looking for someone who"ll except me the way I am(not perfect, a work in progress- I think we should always be a work in progress)- and I will except you for you. Pretty much anything where we have time to talk, relax and get to know each other.

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