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Verla, 42

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About Me

First let me just say this..I've been separated for over 3 years. I could lie as to not intimidate people from saying Hi... but why? I don't lie.. not about to start now. However, I didn't have a horrible marriage. Never thought of it as a piece of paper.. so another piece of paper isn't going to tell me when its over. He lied for years, and has a girlfriend. I don't like to share the man IM with. I'm not one to make anyone else pay for his stupidity.Everyone gets their own clean slate. You Write your own story. That being said. I'm an amazing woman who is worth getting to know. That is up to you:)! ***** NOT LOOKING FOR JUST a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP****IF THAT'S ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR PLEASE PASS ME UP***** My girls are my everything but I'm excited to see what the world has to offer. Excited about the changes i have been making and even more excited what those changes will do in my life. Looking for someone who can be honest... I'm not here looking for a perfect someone. Just someone perfect for me. Humor & laughing is really important to me..Love someone who can make me laugh. Love holding hands and just talking , getting to know each other.I love to go fishing & camping, bon-fires. find a quiet place to read, Photography is a favorite of mine, Love the beach & the water , love to swim, I love all the outdoor summer fests, live music, anything that gets me outside in the sun. Not big into shopping but will do it if i have too (I know...a woman who doesn't like to shop..lol) I do daycare and am a live in care taker for an elderly woman.. make an ok living at it, but i love kids.I love that laughter. I come from a very close family & have an amazing group of very supportive friends. Holidays are a huge part of my life. Summer and Fall are my favorite seasons. Love long walks in the fallen leaves. Open to new ideas. I'm a very laid back person. So not into the fancy stuff.. Just very down to earth. very honest and straight forward. so if you can handle that... Finding someone I like hanging out with would be awsome.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B

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