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Claris, 45

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I am the girl next door..Communication is essential for any relationship to be successful. Not only can I talk...but I also listen! We all, have a "type" of person we are attracted to. I happen to be attracted to your All American White Guy. If you are of another race I won't be your match also not a fan of the Rebel Flag loving men so please pass me by..and thank you so very much to all of you for writing to me anyway just in case I have suddenly changed my mind or OBVIOUSLY you can't or chose not to read what I have written.I have been Divorced for 7 years and would like to find a man that is somewhere in the same stratosphere relationship wise.My daughter is 13 and I share joint custody with her Dad, she is a nature lover and we can often be found in search of tadpoles, frogs and turtles...we have yearly passes to the Aquarium and Busch Gardens.Things I don't enjoy...camping in a tent, NASCAR, country music (makes my ears bleed).We will probably not be a match if you have a bathroom picture with your shirt off and your sunglasses on....so not cool anymore.A few facts- I can bait my own hook, and then take the fish off...I have changed the garbage disposal and the timer in my washing machine, hooked up my new HD Home theater system all by myself, and can really kick your butt in trivial pursuit! ;) Something I am not good at...hanging curtain rods, seems you are supposed to measure first! Newest to the list...I assembled a full bedroom set bought from IKEA for my 12 year old daughter, that's about a thousand pieces with only pictures..no words for directions!(Sarcasm ahead...)I also feel compelled to tell you that I do enjoy walks on the beach, sunsets, puppies, kittens, flowers and notes just randomly left for no reason....seems no profile is complete without this vital info. (end sarcasm) Another thing I wanted to add as it seems just about all of then men here are looking for the "one" that can go from the flirty black dress to the flip flops and jeans....I havegot that covered!What makes me someone you would want to get to know? I am a very loyal friend, I am candid and have no issues with expressing how I feel and am forever optimistic and according to my Father I was the best daughter...EVER!Couple of things....I am very proud of how I survived the economic crash of 06 so...if you are one of the many that have decided it was the cool thing to do and stop paying for your mortgage just because everyone else was doing it...we won't be a match....I am very responsible and have zero respect for system suckers or people trying to walk away from their obligations. In a nutshell, I have my act together...if this intimidates you...I am not the gal for you.I love to laugh....not just a chuckle....belly laugh until you can't breathe..that does a body and spirit good!I love to go to concerts, festivals, street fairs, museums, shows, movies, sporting events. I am a huge people watcher. Would love to start travelling more, there are so many interesting beautiful places to see.Looking for someone kind and honest who can match my sense of humor, carry on a meaningful conversation and has a real zest for life!Thank you again for taking the time to read all of this...best of luck to all of us. So many options, dinner at a quiet restaurant is always good, not too many distractions and we can see if there is any chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marylu

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    People describe me as being a nice, compassionate, and caring person with a sharp, yet sarcastic, sense of humor. I have a variety of interests with traveling, boating, and attending sporting events being my favorites. I would say that my greatest passion is helping others, and working with children each day gives me more joy and peace in my heart than I can express. There is a lot to be learned from the innocence of youth! My work occupies quite a bit of my time (except June & July), so my free time is very valuable. I rarely have nights free during the week. When I do get out, I enjoy quiet dinners with great conversation and nice wine.! I am not a big fan of movies (occasionally is fine) and if you don't like sports, especially baseball, then we probably won't be too compatible. One major deal-breaker is smoking and I agree with those of you who say chemistry is vital. I would say I am most attracted to stylish, confident men who are intelligent and have a good sense of humor. Anything non-threatening where either party has an easy "escape" if needed. :)

  • Kalyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a vivacious woman who wears her heart on her sleeve; but don't let that fool you! I am anything BUT weak or dramatic! I love to laugh and can usually be found with a smile on my face. I am very proud of my accomplishments in life and work hard to achieve all of my goals. I try to surround myself with other genuine and fun people who share the same values that I do. I am outgoing* and enjoy spending time with friends and meeting new people. But I also enjoy quiet nights at home snuggled on the couch or sitting outside just listening to peepers or looking at the stars. (*When it comes to romantic interest, I get SHY and prefer a man who will a)spell out his interest and b) make the first move! So I may "show interest" but I am likely to wait to get an *** first.)Turn ons:animals, the beach, books, working out, exploring, music, traveling, adventure, SLEEP, laughter, passion, true genuine kindness, self-confidence, self-awareness, date night IN, feeling valued and attractive and making others feel the same, and turning the ordinary into the extraordinaryTurn offs:people who are too familiar too soon, self-absorption, deception, cowardice, ***, meanness, couch potatoes. computer/cellphone/facebook/video game addicts, no strings sex, too many compliments before someone has even met meDealbreakers: intolerance to cats (I'm not a crazy cat lady but I do have 2 loving cats who like to love on their humans and share space-SO, with that said, if you want to spend time with me at my place, you have to be able to tolerate 2 very sweet, loving cats.), drug use-yes I consider pot a drug, cigarette smoking, chewing tobacco, no emotional availability. These are the big ones that come to mind.Although I have lived all over, I consider myself a free spirited girl with a southern heart. Ultimately I am hoping to find a good, kind, funny, affectionate man who knows how to treat a lady; In the meantime, I like making new friends, having a date and talking about movies, music, politics, books, and learning about others. Maybe bowling or putt putt? Except my competitive side could emerge! But I think it allows for conversation, some laughs and activity without looking a fool??? (ok except for the ridiculous bowling shoes!) :)

  • Jackqueline

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like hanging out with my friends. Although I don't get the chance to often. I have plenty of other things I'm into. Love the COLTS!!!! My interest in music is, all of it!!! Love to dance. Think it's time I stop living the single life. It's been fun but ready to settle down and enjoy being in a relationship. Not into a casual relationship. I've had my share of those. I am not a booty call. If that's what you are looking for keeping steppin.... Looking for my best friend I can spend my life with! Wanting to build an unbreakable relationship with love, honesty, intergrity and compassion.Ready for changes in my life. Don't have drama and don't want any. I enjoy my life. Give me a line and we'll chat!!!There will always be a reason to meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you're the one to change theirs.I'm keeping my head up at the impossible, thinking of the unimaginable. I have faith, believing that the outcome will be what it should be, no matter what it is. Because faith makes things possible, not easy. Nice quiet place for lunch or dinner to get to know each other.

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