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Santa, 41

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About Me

Hi thanks for stopping by my profile. I'm 41. I don't drive. I live with my dad and stepmom to help them out. If u have a problem with that don't message me. I have two children that don't live with me. A daughter who will be 18 in November and a son who will be 11 in February. I'm 100% single. I'm honest,faithful,loyal. I don't lie,cheat. I keep it 100% real at all times. If you don't please keep it moving. I'm drama and bs free. I ask that you be the same. I'm very smart. If that's a turn off don't message me. I think that intelligence is sexy. I love to cook. I can say that I'm quite good at it. If you would like to find out how good I am at cooking message me and maybe I can come over and cook you a mouth watering meal. I like to read,go for long walks,listen to music,go dancing,go camping,kissing,cuddling,holding hands,watch a good or bad movie,shoot pool,go bowling. My ideal first date would be me cooking a mouth watering meal for you. We could cook it together if you wanted to. I think it's sexy when a man and woman cook together. We could have a few beers or a nice bottle of wine depending on what we cook. Then we could go out dancing or to the movies. Or just spend the whole night cuddled up together talking and getting to know each other. If any of this interest you don't be shy. Message me say hi. I will respond. You never know you might be the one I've been searching for.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Where to begin... I have two girls, 17 and 13. They keep me pretty busy although my oldest is now at college so I only have one to keep up with. It was a difficult decision but I felt I really needed a change and I was hoping to further my career. So far, no regrets. I've discovered it's a little harder to meet people and establish a circle of friends as you get older. I grew up in the country, was a bit of a tom boy with a wild streak as a kid. I've learned to tone down the wild streak. lolIt's important to me to stay in shape and I try to get to the gym at least 3 or 4 times a week if I can. Relaxing usually consists of some TV time, a movie, a good book, going to the beach if it's nice out, hanging with friends.Some of my favorite things...going to concerts, sitting around a fire, being with people that make me laugh, adventure, thunderstorms, snuggling, sleeping in, long weekends, beach vacations. Most of my friends don't have the same taste in music as me. My favorite are bands like Three Days Grace, Seether, Nickelback, 3 Doors Down.& newer stuff too. but I like a wide variety and love to hear live music. For the most part I really enjoy my work. It can get intense but I don't "bring it home". There are times I need to talk about it so I hope you're a good listener. Don't worry I won't drone on for hours. I like being around positive, upbeat people - no time or energy for drama and pessimism. I believe for a relationship to be good...it should be built on trust mutual respect and good communication. That being said - nothing beats chemistry - it's just got to be there. Yes...the pictures are recent.It's hard to write about yourself...I'm much more interesting in person. lolWhat I'm looking for: A man who conducts himself with integrity and confidence; self-confident but not arrogant, willing to take the initiative but not be controlling, has a great sense of humor ( can tolerate my sarcasm/wit and give it back); is supportive and "has my back" so to speak. Has their own interests but shares some of mine - I'm not the clingy type. If this sounds like you...message me :) Thanks for reading! Good luck with your search Something low key - see if we have any connection.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi I like to go to dinner, be with family and friends.dancing, football games big Steelers fan.just looking for somebody to enjoy life with.don't want any one night stands so please don't waste my time.want someone to make me feel wanted no games or drama please. Romantic and relaxing...

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I don't mince words! I mean what I say and say exactly what I mean. That statement can be misheard. I am by no means rude or mean, just open, honest and forthcoming. I will be the same person on day 1 as day ***and so on. What you see is what you get from me. There is nothing hiding in the background. I am not a Barbie type. If you prefer that, don't waste your time reading further. I won't make promises I can't keep. I will NOT promise you zero drama, but will promise NO soap opera. I do the best I can with whatever I have to work with! I think quickly and move on, not dwelling on the past or things I can't change.I am playful and spontaneous. You just never know what I might do next! I have an opinion and I am not afraid of using it. I also have an open enough mind to hear yours. I am a lover, not a hater. I have a sense of humor, sometimes accused of being boldly sarcastic. I am not a tree hugger, but I respect the Earth and our creator. I can bait my own hook, as long as you don't mind cleaning the fish. I can hold my own on a pool table, and can play too(LOL). I am willing to try new things, as long as the Sheriff, God and your Mama don't mind. LOL! I am looking for someone who can keep up with me. I like late nights and early mornings, yes sometimes all in the same day(but no, not in the club, more like the riverfront, lake, beach, or just the livingroom).Physically, I like taller men, but that mark is not hard to to hit as I am only 5'4", ha ha. I like clean cut, clean shaven men. If you have been accused of being a police officer or asked if you are in the military, I would totally be checking you out on the street. Note: If you are afraid of large dogs and cannot overcome it, keep looking. The dog was here first and stays. Lol. If you have read this far, take a chance, you know you want to. IF YOU AVOID THE RISK OF GETTING HURT....YOU LOOSE THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND LOVE. Up for discussion, but perhaps a park bench, or cafe lunch, just a get to know ya' date with no nerves, no expectations, no promises, just time and the opportunity to look one another in the eye.

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