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Amya
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
You only get one chance to make a first impression so I will be upfront and honest and I hope to find the same in return. I am a very casual, active, athletic person looking to meet people I can have fun with and enjoy this new lifestyle as a single woman. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a man and a relationship but it's not exactly something I can spell out in a profile. You either have it or you don't so all I ask is be yourself, be honest and let's see what happens. I'm not interested in a long back and forth *** do believe nothing replaces the natural chemistry you can only experience in person and I don't want to waste my time or yours unless we are actually going to meet. Putting your life on paper and in photographs only shows a small fraction of who you really are. My status is separated which I know can turn some people away but it's the truth. It's been over two year now and there is no chance we will be getting back together but for several reasons we have not finalized the official divorce yet. I have 3 boys ages 9, 12 and 16 that I am very grateful are with me most of the time and spend weekends with their father. They are a big part of my life but they are also very independent which allows me flexibilty to enjoy my life.It's time for me to really start living my life and I want someone to share that with. Please refer back to my opening line about first impressions and honesty. I would like to think there are still some gentlemen out there that know how to approach a woman properly and introduce themselves using complete sentences, those are the ones I will respond to. If you "want to meet me" please send me a message too. A first real date should come after a personal meeting in a casual setting to see if there is chemistry and a casual comfort together. After that I'm up for just about anything and appreciate a man who is comfortable and confident in himself to make the phone call and set up a real date. Confidence is very sexy.
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Mae
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'll preface this by saying I'm crazy busy at work right now, and may not have time to respond to messages or to develop the type of relationship I eventually want, so I'm changing my goal here to "wants to date, but nothing serious." I'm not looking to jump into a relationship just to be in one. I'm ok being alone. I do hope to find someone to spend some time with, have a few laughs together, and hopefully someday I'll find true love. When I love, I love for good. I'm as loyal as an old hound dog, and just as stubborn. I miss having someone to share my day with. I miss having someone who I just can’t wait to tell that bit of good news to…and someone to comfort me when the news isn’t so good. I want to know that the guy I’m crazy about is mine and mine alone because I don’t like to share. I can go a long time on just the very minimum of affection - but I don't want to do that anymore. I want someone who makes me feel that I'm important to him. That being said, I'm going to be picky this go-round. Being alone isn't a bad thing, and I'm not desperate for a man. I used to respond to every message, but I'm not doing that anymore. If you message me and I don't respond, I'll thank you now for your interest, but I won't waste your time or mine by messaging back and forth. I’m not perfect. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m a bad housekeeper. I don’t organize my time well. I’m a bit of a homebody, though I’d love to get out more. I take a while to warm up to new people (guys, especially), but once I get to know you, I'm awful at playing hard to get. But, even though I have my faults, I'm still pretty darn great.Please have your sh*t together. By that, I mean, have reliable means of supporting yourself, be completely over any exes, take care of your kids if you have them, know how to use spell-check and punctuate a complete sentence, and be willing to consider a long term relationship with the right person. I have all of those qualities and more. We'll figure something out together.
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Patience
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm looking for a friend, a partner, I am independent, caring, can be talkative, but shy, down to earth and practical, but still like to dream. I have young children, so dating can be hard and if you aren't interested in dating someone with kids, please don't message me. I don't really know what to write here, I guess I'm just looking to see what is here. I'm just not into the whole bar/club scene, so this seemed like a good place to start. I'm not looking for a hook up, or play time. I am honest and expect the same, life is too short for all the games some people play. I love music. It makes me happy, it lifts me when I'm sad, but I am not a snob, I will listen to almost anything. I like movies, watch lots of kid ones, but love getting to see grown up flicks too. *I hate selfies, but only way to take a picture some days.***Please do not add my to you 'Favs' then don't bother to message me. SMH** Hmmmmm....depends on the person. Chatting, getting to know one another, a walk, a coffee/tea, maybe a drink. Haven't dated in years, new to this...lol.