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Afton, 44

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About Me

I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi. I'm an independent working mom with a career I enjoy. My children are my heart though they don't live with me now but I see them regularly. Recently widowed, I really long to be in a committed long term relationship though I'm not wanting to rush/settle and am happy to make new friends along the way. I am optimistic to start over and find someone who has the same values and character. I have a lot to offer a partner emotionally and am a loyal and honest friend who knows how to stand by the man I love. I'm crazy for anything having to do with water: Beach, the lake, sailing. I really enjoy time alone with a partner and personal time as well as family time. I like nightlife but I also like just grilling out and listening to music for a night at home. Weekend getaways (just the two of us) are always fun. I love to dance. Music is my soul and I like a lot of genres from Alternative to Hip Hop but have certanin favs: Theory of a Dead Man, Sick Puppies, Shinedown, T-..like just about everything but country music (love some Reggae too ;). Something a little unique might be that I'm a girly girl but love adventure and always ready to try something new and spontaneous. I love to play dress up and go to a little black dress party but don't mind hanging out in hole in the wall local spot in a tee shirt and jeans :-) For a first date (talking if it were ideal here) we might meet at an outdoor bistro with live music, get to know each other over drinks and maybe sushi, then maybe take a waterfront stroll depending on the setting or go dancing, depending on what our collective mood was to do one or the other.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi! I am a mother of 3 girls who are the love of my life. They keep me busy with their energy and sports. I am a nurse and enjoy taking care of people. There is never a day that goes by that I don't learn something or get inspired by one of my patients or co-workers. I am a peace-maker, like to keep peace and get along with everyone. I am very kind and loving and enjoy just hanging out and having fun, laughing and making memories. I like a variety of music. I enjoy going to the lake, hanging out with friends and family, movies, listening to bands, going on road trips, snow skiing and having cook-outs. It is really hard to find that special someone....the one where you just have that ***, enjoy being with that person, have many interests, and one that brings out the best in you and you the best in them. I hope to find someone who can appreciate the person that I am, one that makes me laugh and happy and I do the same for him...one that of course loves children, has a good heart, and enjoys life. I have faith that he is out there somewhere. I would like to just go out to eat and talk and get to know each other a little bit.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm looking for a friend, a partner, I am independent, caring, can be talkative, but shy, down to earth and practical, but still like to dream. I have young children, so dating can be hard and if you aren't interested in dating someone with kids, please don't message me. I don't really know what to write here, I guess I'm just looking to see what is here. I'm just not into the whole bar/club scene, so this seemed like a good place to start. I'm not looking for a hook up, or play time. I am honest and expect the same, life is too short for all the games some people play. I love music. It makes me happy, it lifts me when I'm sad, but I am not a snob, I will listen to almost anything. I like movies, watch lots of kid ones, but love getting to see grown up flicks too. *I hate selfies, but only way to take a picture some days.***Please do not add my to you 'Favs' then don't bother to message me. SMH** Hmmmmm....depends on the person. Chatting, getting to know one another, a walk, a coffee/tea, maybe a drink. Haven't dated in years, new to this...lol.

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