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Zinnia, 48
United States, Colorado, Sterling

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I’m loud, even my hair is LOUD. I come from a big, loud, Italian family, I’m not a girly girl, I’m a woman. I drink whiskey and shoot pool and sing really loud and not very well sometimes and I don’t care if it sounds good or not. I have 2 grown boys who are my life, and they come first, if you have kids you get it. Even though they’re getting older, one in h.s., one out of school, I attend all their functions, games, etc..I’m a hands on Mom. I laugh, sometimes uncontrollably, and that’s loud too. Sometimes I laugh so hard tears fall and I can’t breathe. I think that kind of laughter is the best kind. I am honest to a fault, I have no reason to lie, about anything. I don’t make excuses. I’m opinionated and I say what’s on my mind –most times I don’t have a filter – at all. But I don’t use words to hurt people. I give out compliments like they’re candy. I tell people they are beautiful. I eat. Real food. I have curves, and I love them. I don’t believe a woman should be a stick figure. I don’’s not real. I like REAL. I’m not fat nor am I skinny, I have a woman’s body, not a rail thin supermodel, and I like it that way. I’d rather be on the beach. All day, until the sun sets. Summer is my favorite season, but I’m presently loving the fall right now. My friends call me a “hippie” because I prefer worn out faded bell bottoms and flip flops, but I like to dress up too when the need calls for it..I have my own style, I don’t follow fashion law, if I like it I wear it. I listen to all kinds of music, classic rock, metal, disco..and I dance like there’s no tomorrow. I like going out, as well as staying in. I can cook just about anything, and love entertaining my family and friends, my house is always open to everyone and I love when people just drop by. I love my friends, they are my family as well as my blood family. I still believe in love even after so much heartbreak and disappointment – but I don’t believe in love *** first sight. I believe in attraction, the "click"..But something deeper needs to grow from it to be sustainable. I believe kisses should be long and deep and eye contact is underrated. People should look at each other, into each other, MORE. I think missing someone is healthy. I think sadness and tears are healthy. I don’t believe in hiding or pushing emotions away. I think that’s toxic to a person’s soul. I think you should do what you’re afraid of. I believe women should be strong and soft, and men SHOULD cry and show their softer side while being strong at the same time. I think we should spend more time with our kids and the people we love. I don’t care if you’re rich or poor or what kind of car you drive..I only care about your insides, what makes you YOU, and that you are genuine, and real..I don’t do fake, I don’t do one night stands, I don’t do jealousy, I don’t do lying. Yea, as you can see, I write..a lot, and I talk, a lot..I’m real and whoever I’m with should be real too.. something easy, no pressure, where we can talk..drinks? coffee?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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