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Tomika, 43

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About Me

Back again, not giving up just yet :-)I have dated with an open mind and stepped out of my comfort zone but learned that chemistry is the key. I want passion, affection and romance. I don't need a man that makes a lot of money but I would like a professional with financial stability. Someone who loves sports, particularly basketball and football. A man with some sort of style, good communicator and loves the idea of a family. A man that knows what he wants and is done with drama and games. I pride myself in being a successful mom, daughter, friend and professional. I am dedicated to all the important aspects in my life. I am outgoing, giving, caring and love to laugh until I cry. I have been at the same job for 25 years, teaching less-fortunate children. I am very blessed, I feel it is important to give back. With the right man, I want to stay in bed all day under the comforter and watch the snow fall, cuddle in front of a fire and watch a movie, walk in the rain, travel to little getaways, cook in the kitchen, sing at a concert, cheer on my little athletes and be someone's best friend.If any of the above sounds intriguing, I would love to hear from you. HOWEVER, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW ME. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR BOOTY CALLS, A SEXTING PARTNER OR BOOSTING A GUY'S EGO. I AM SEARCHING FOR THE REAL THING.Thanks and wishing you the best of luck......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jasmine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm looking to make new friends and hopefully more. I'm not here for games or drama, I've had enough for two life times. I'm fun loving and silly, but know when to be serious. I'm a single mom of one, He's 10yrs old. I'm not looking for him a dad, he has one well somewhat lol. I love country music, I can tolerate a little bit of hip hop due to my son. I like camping, cook outs, horses, and hanging with friends occasionally. If your a grown man still living with your mom, don't have a JOB, or don't have your own transportation PLEASE don't bother. If you want to know more just ask =) It's open for discussion.

  • Kimi

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What I want is to be the reason someone smiles, as he would be for me. A thought that brings you happiness during a stressful day. I enjoy romance, and romance doesn't cost anything except for thought. I'm very passionate about music of all kinds. I love live music! I listen to everything from casual listening, jazz, classical to country, alternative rock and metal. I'm also one of the biggest female hockey fans you will ever meet (I'm not an Avs fan, though).I love getting into the gym. My workout buddy has found herself wrapped into work and life (in general), and I need a new workout partner. I'm really eager to get back into the gym, though! I was working out ***times a week doing cross-fit and using resistance straps, I even found myself quite enjoying yoga! I am an animal lover and have both cats and dogs in my home.I've been single for the greater part of the last 7 years. As I've gotten older I am finding that I hate the games. If something isn't working, I don't want to waste anybody's time, as I don't want mine wasted either. I'm pretty direct and straight forward. Don't ask me a question if you don't want an honest answer. I appreciate the same in return. I don't want this to seem mean, I think it's more mean to string a relationship along that one or both parties knows isn't working.I would like to add, I have faced life and death decisions. Decisions that have changed my outlook on life and how to live it. I live as positively as humanly possible. I am the ultimate optimist. I find something good in every situation. Even if I fail at something, I learn a lesson so the next attempt is successful. I don't like drama, and will shut it down immediately. I have learned how to NOT enable others to suck me into their drama. I have had to lose friends that were energy vampires, only for the good of my own sanity! I saw a quote recently that fits pretty well: Do not let others draw you into their storm, draw them into your peace. I am very family oriented. My grown children visit with me often. I will spend an entire day running around shopping with them, or BBQ'ing. I am the caretaker for my elderly father since we lost my mother last summer. This does not mean I don't have time for someone special, and my dad is NOT baggage. I have done my very best to not have "baggage".I set a pretty hefty goal for myself recently, and I achieved that goal when I became a homeowner in May. My next goal is a motorcycle! Please be employed, have reliable transportation and a place to call home before you engage me in conversation. I have several tattoos, and find men with tats more attractive. I like masculine men, but not necessarily so masculine they don't know how to treat the people around them with respect. I am not looking for any one-nighters. I won't give my phone number to strangers and I certainly won't invite someone to my home until I can meet and see his chemistry. If you are looking for a "hook up", I'm not the woman you want. (it's ridiculous I have to spell this out, but I've already been asked for all three in less than 4 hours on the site) A first date would have to be something mutually enjoyable by both people. Let's NOT make it coffee, I'm not a coffee drinker. A quiet location that allows two people to have a decent conversation would be great, but I've had a first date at a concert and it was fantastic! Let's hike! I love the mountains and still marvel at them after being here for nearly 8 years!

  • Paityn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been to 49 of the 50 states. Hopefully get to the last one someday. I enjoy travel whether its a couple hour road trip or cross country adventure. I would love to someday travel to Europe and Scandanavia. The only foreign countries I have been to are in North or Central America. I am a trivia wizard, basically useless information sticks in my brain for some reason. Not very helpful in life but a trivia game or game show I'd be great!! I can do anything from casual to formal dress depending on the occasion prefer dresses most of the time but not in a prissy princess kind of way. I don't have a lot of specific hobbies but am always up for new adventures and trying new things. I love to take road trips, read books(mostly mystery), have two rescue dogs I love, enjoy sports, concerts, and am currently trying to get into better shape. I enjoy a variety of music mostly rock and love living in an area where there are frequently good shows to go see. I am not the kind of person who needs to have someone in her life but I would love to have someone to do things with and possibly turn into something more. I have a 13 year old son who is more independent everyday and I've started to realize I focused so much on him I didn't have much of a social life so I've been changing that.I want to meet new people but don't do the bar scene much and think its best not to get too friendly with co-workers so I'm trying this to make some new friends or more. I am not looking for a husband, don't need someone to take care of me, looking for a partner to have a good time and see where it goes. If you're interested send me a message and we can figure out if we have anything in common. I will actually read your profile not just make decisions based on pictures which tell us nothing about each other except maybe that I usually keep myself behind the camera shooting the action so I frequently look surprised when someone takes a picture of me. My taste in music runs the gamut but don't listen to much country or rap but tell me about music you love, I am always up for finding new music enjoy. I admit an affection for alternative 80's as that is the era I grew up in, also really like most rock and punk. I find it strange to put lots of specific requirements of what I'm looking for and will find it strange if you have them. In reference to the kids questions I have one and don't have an issue with dating someone with kids but am not planning on making anymore. You never know a person just by one thing so don't disqualify them or have them discount you based on superficial reasons. So if any of this appeals to you send me a message and we can take it from there. Something low pressure to meet and learn more about each other.

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