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Effi, 42

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About Me

I Love life and finding out ways to enjoy it more. Always smiling and laughing. Down to earth and easy to get along with. I know who I am but not a bit of arrogance in me.If your looking for someone with lots of personality/spunk/witty/confidence/ smart alack/downtown gal who also enjoys the outdoors/a kind heart/and a good all around gal..you won't be disappointed with me. :)Love the outdoors especially in the summer. Hiking, exploring new places, biking, camping, new restaurants, concerts and open to trying anything at least once. I enjoy going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and working on getting into the best shape of my life. I"m more on the curvy side but with muscle. :) Would love to travel more and would love to find a partner to have those experiences with. I'm passionate about music! Going to concerts and finding local new bands. Spontaneous is aways fun!Enjoy my friends and meeting new people and going to new places. Great food, great wine, and great company! Have two great kids that keep me busy part time but there is still time for me and the things and people I enjoy Hoping to find a guy that is honest, fun to be around, won't put intimate encounters first, ACTUALLY wants to know me, spontaneous and loves to laugh. The qualities I look for in a man is who has chemistry, knows how to enjoy life, integrity,is open minded, educated, who knows the right moments to be serious, witty, naughty and nice. Someone who is outgoing and no hiccups to be themselves. Communication is a must. *I'm not attracted to Black men. Sorry"Geez, Are there really any men out there that want more then a hook up? I don't want to go to Match. I'm truly wanting a long term friend in my life. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how the chemistry is

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    About me...I am a spiritually minded creative person with a ton of passion. I love yoga and art---it is my work and my center. I am open minded and have been known to be very honest and feel communication to be very important. I have done my work and feel I am at a wonderful place emotionally and spiritually. I love nature, traveling, adventure, learning and people. I have a strong support system of friends and family which is very important to me. I believe that everything in life is a part of the plan and there is no mistakes, just places to learn. My nine year old is the center of my world and a big priority. I am happy as a clam being single but know that there is someone out there that will share my joy and we can co-create a wonderful life together.I'm looking for...A spiritually minded man who is honest and communicative. Someone who will encourage and support my life and dream and in turn, I can his. A man who is into adventure and travel, yet is happy and content with the little gifts of life. Someone who respects women and wants to be my friend as well as a mate. A man who is authentic, comfortable with being man, and really appreciates who he has become.I also like the idea of having three C's:1. Chemistry. Does he make your heart pound and your toes curl? When you’re alone in bed at night, do you replay all his tender touches, the words he used to make your heart melt? At the end of a date, do you want to rip his pants off and have your way with him right there on the doorstep? If, however, you don’t feel this way yet, don’t worry. Remember, women are like Crock-Pots, they heat up slowly, and men are like microwaves, *** to go. As long as you think he’s cute and you have fun with him, he’s a contender.2.Compatibility. How do you “roll” together? Are you comfortable with silence? Do you feel constant pressure to prove yourself to him, or does he make you feel like you’re perfect the way you are? Do you “get” each other? Do you love/hate the same things? Compatibility basically means that your routines mesh, you enjoy doing the same things, and you want the same things at the same time. For example, if you want kids and he doesn’t, you are NOT compatible.3.. Communication. Do you feel you can tell him anything, or do you have to watch what you say around him? How do you each express your emotions, wants, and needs, and are you comfortable talking about them? How do you argue? How do you settle disagreements? It’s not an issue of whether or not you have a difference of opinion, what’s important is how you resolve those differences. Consideration is the key to communication, because if you feel cherished, you’ll reward him with respect, and like Verizon, no one will ever have to ask, “Can you hear me now?” Cup of coffee or meal, nice environment, quiet conversation....insert imagination here.

  • Jacquline

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love the outdoors camping paint balling sports Amusement parks traveling and ect. Seeking a honest, truthful, non cheating, person that likes to just have fun and go places and enjoys life to the fullest.

  • Genia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love loud rock music, loud cars and loud bars, having grown up in the Motor City. Í am a huge Baseball fan, I read mystery novels and spend time with family. I am looking for a steady man to hold hands, watch movies, go on road trips. I avoid politics, religion & bullies. I am an excellent cook and love to watch you eat! Our ideal first date is casual. We can meet at your favorite spot and you can spend time telling me why you like it there. I love all kinds of food especially if we can eat with our fingers. I dont mind if you dont dance just as long as you like watching me shake it down. Ice cream at sunset is fun,Drinks and star gazing is better!

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