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Effi, 42

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About Me

I Love life and finding out ways to enjoy it more. Always smiling and laughing. Down to earth and easy to get along with. I know who I am but not a bit of arrogance in me.If your looking for someone with lots of personality/spunk/witty/confidence/ smart alack/downtown gal who also enjoys the outdoors/a kind heart/and a good all around gal..you won't be disappointed with me. :)Love the outdoors especially in the summer. Hiking, exploring new places, biking, camping, new restaurants, concerts and open to trying anything at least once. I enjoy going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and working on getting into the best shape of my life. I"m more on the curvy side but with muscle. :) Would love to travel more and would love to find a partner to have those experiences with. I'm passionate about music! Going to concerts and finding local new bands. Spontaneous is aways fun!Enjoy my friends and meeting new people and going to new places. Great food, great wine, and great company! Have two great kids that keep me busy part time but there is still time for me and the things and people I enjoy Hoping to find a guy that is honest, fun to be around, won't put intimate encounters first, ACTUALLY wants to know me, spontaneous and loves to laugh. The qualities I look for in a man is who has chemistry, knows how to enjoy life, integrity,is open minded, educated, who knows the right moments to be serious, witty, naughty and nice. Someone who is outgoing and no hiccups to be themselves. Communication is a must. *I'm not attracted to Black men. Sorry"Geez, Are there really any men out there that want more then a hook up? I don't want to go to Match. I'm truly wanting a long term friend in my life. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how the chemistry is

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Suk

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is very new to me. I am just looking to meet someone, become friends and then see what happens from there. I miss the beach but am glad to be home. I have not really met alot of people since I've been back. I love to cook. I also enjoy anything to do with water. Whether it's a day at the beach, lake or pool or even a nice bubble bath! I would like to find someone that shares similar interests and would definitely want to be friends first...After being on and off of here a while, I feel the need to update this a little. I was really skeptical of this site in the beginning. Being new to the area, it helped me meet alot of people. Some really great (that just ended up not being a match for one reason or another) and some not so great. In the beginning most of the men seemed to be younger that messaged me. Most of which were only interested in one thing. I blamed it on the age. Since then, I have come to realize, age has nothing to do with it! Most of the men that I've met or even just talked to are all the same, regardless of age. I guess my point to this update is to ask that if you message me, please just be honest about your intentions, whatever they may be...*UPDATE*Meeting new people has been alot fun. And I've actually made several good friends in the process. But I am ready for a serious long term relationship. I'm not expecting it to happen overnight and I do not want to rush in to anything. But that is ultimately what I am looking for, so if that is not your intention, we would just be wasting each other's time...

  • Shavonda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Update: If your goal on here is to find someone for sex...stop reading NOW and go to the next profile...thank you!The line is cast... In all honesty... "how does one meet people at this age?" I'm not interested in hanging around the produce section at the market (points if you like to do laundry and/or grocery shop) nor returning to college for the sake of meeting someone. I don't count myself as a "sports person", I do find myself as the person that will cook for you and your friends, and also grab the beers, while you either watch or participate in sports... ;-) Now, if I have to pay for all the beer, that may become a problem. :-) Big points here...if you are a season ticket holder, I won't be mad that you still wish to keep the tradition with your best buddy,in fact... I will be relieved that he/she will still go with you. I guess, I'm just pretty easy going on that stuff. I'm not hoping to meet my twin, I'm hoping to meet someone that compliments me and vice versa.My family and friends are very important to me...big emphasis on the family part. As an only child, my parents are very important to me. My parents have been married (happily???) for over 50 years. Guess Mom also grabbed a beer for my Dad when needed...Look forward to hearing from you...good luck with your fishing!!!A fish update: I am sorry if I don't respond to those *** are simply from the wrong fish....Don't get your gills out of kilter...just cast a new line elsewhere...Thanks! Anything fun and exciting or perhaps simply a long walk sharing conversation and learning about a new person.

  • Stacy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-45

    Hi! My name is Stacy. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Mesquite, Nevada, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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