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Jenessa, 43

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About Me

I've learned to appreciate good people, avoid drama, enjoy the moment you're in :) I’m attracted to an active, down to earth guy who likes to get out and enjoy life :)Me ~ outgoing, grounded, logical, creative, passionate, fun, feisty, considerate. I appreciate people for being goodhearted, their smarts, goals, thinking outside the box, a willingness to take chances in life, optimistic attitudes, and preferring an active and productive lifestyle rather than being a couch potato on a gorgeous day. I'm attracted to a confident personality, a man with opinions, ideas, can make a plan, is communicative, comfortable in the kitchen and handy stuff around the house, as I am :) I definitely enjoy life and see the positive in things, and appreciate a man with an equally positive outlook :)I'd like to meet just one good guy who I click with, and can enjoy a fun day & good conversation with. We make a fun team, we can talk and are real friends, do fun outdoors stuff, go for a drive up the coast, stay in with a good movie, cook yummy meals together, share fun times with our friends, have weekend bbqs and dinner parties. I’m loyal, passionate, and when I like a guy, I’m affectionate and like to do little things letting him know I’m thinking about him. I think the key to a healthy relationship is expressing mutual respect, compromise, open conversation, and both be willing to put some effort into making things work. If you think we have some interests or mind frame in common, let me know, I list a ton of interests here, and my mindframe about who I feel I click with. Do we share interests or values in common? For an idea of my values, you can take a look at my list of heroes. (If you know who these people are and what remarkable accomplishments they have done, that list is an insight to what I respect and admire.. not because he's an actor and racecar drive, but because he started a company who has donated hundreds of millions to charity, he's giving back to the community). In general, I think if people took the time to get to know each other (and to know themselves!) relationships would be healthier and happier. I prefer a healthy monogamous relationship rather than long term single :) I don't want to date forever, do you?!To everyone out there shy or hesitant to reach out to people here and in life's path... It's choice - not chance - that determines your destiny. true true :)Fyi who I don't feel I click with - super religious guys, men who don't like to get out and be active & adventurous (bike riding, trying new foods), nor big pot bellies and triple chins. An ideal first date would include the chance to talk, laugh, get to know each other :) These might be fun at some point:~Ice cream or gelato on a warm day :) ~Mojitos poolside ~Interesting beer or saké tasting~Comedy show; Art exhibit~Bowling or a water park for some good laughs :) ~A bike ride at the beach~A chill live band at a smaller venue ~Sushi; A bite to eat~Kayaking if we can find a place to go!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ginger

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a mom first and foremost. I am a very driven person. I am self employed, work a lot for the time being. I am fit and am looking for somebody that takes care of himself physically as well. I do enjoy a few drinks but completely drug free. I love sports, baseball, ufc. I enjoy fishing, hiking, anything outside. I am very independent so if your looking for a girl that clings on to you I am not the girl for you. I love to laugh and have fun. Not looking for a one night stand either. The kind of guy I am looking for is one with a job, :) respectful, goal driven. Between the ages of 32 and 45 just so we will have things in common. Meet up and have a drink, lighten the mood a little, talk and chemistry is very important so if not feeling it after a bit, to me there is no reason to waste each others time. If the chemistry is there then watch a band, play some pool and just get to know each other.

  • Didi

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an educated, compassionate, outgoing, fun, loyal and emotionally secure female, who is optimistic and very loving. I have learned to appreciate the little things in life and try not to sweat the small stuff. I am very easy going and very much believe that the purpose of life is about sharing and caring with and about all the people we come across in our lives. Even just a smile to a stranger on the street can make a difference to someone who is having a very bad day. I love giving back, especially to children. There is nothing better than a big smile or laughter from a child. I do volunteer at the local schools in my community as often as time allows. I enjoy hip hop, r&b and old school music but I do listen to my teenage son's I Pod from time to time. I have a wonderful career and I have a pretty cool boss(me). I have been self employed and in the Insurance Industry for 14 years. I am fortunate enough to make my own schedule, so I am able to spend more time with the people I care about. I am very blessed with wonderful family and friends. My son is now 19 and off at college playing basketball for Cal State East Bay (Go Pioneers!) so I am beginning a new phase in my life and have the time to concentrate on looking for that special someone, my other half, my partner in crime. I am not in a hurry and plan on enjoying this new chapter in my book of life until the right person comes along. Now that I have more time for myself, I have begun working out about 3x a week and I really enjoy it. I am a very passionate person who enjoys intimacy and kissing. Unfortunately, making out seems to be a lost art. I believe that foreplay isn't just about the physical, it is about the mental stimulation, thoughtfulness and communication you give to your partner, that takes place 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I believe a relationship should supportive, loving, stimulating and equally fulfilling. I am not perfect, I am human and have faults but I am always on a journey of self reflection and self improvement.I am looking for a companion, a best friend, my partner in crime, the person I want to share my day and my innermost thoughts with. I need someone that makes me want to rush home to them at night. A professional, male who is caring, fun, emotionally secure but most importantly, A MAN WITH A KIND HEART. Someone who likes people and understands how precious each day is. He enjoys life with gusto and living it with purpose. I would love a man who appreciates a woman's curves from top to bottom. It would be nice if he enjoys sports, at least watching them. We can cuddle up and watch a game or discuss playoff options and then create our own half time show. Lol. A sense of humor is a must. Have a beautiful day!.*****

  • Terri

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi.. I have a BA degree in Psychology and will be furthering my education in September with hopes of becoming a community health educator. My passion is social work and health.I enjoy walking, yoga, travelling, hiking, fishing, camping and motorcycle rides.I have a serious side and a fun side and a little eccentric. I'm unique because I'm a good girl with a wild side.My favorite music is country. I'm done with the rap and house music stuff. I'm looking for someone to embrace this beautiful boy.I'm tired of all the flaky guys I'm meeting on this site. If you love me, don't tell me, then act like you don't know me the next day. If you are looking for the next best thing, then don't waste my time please. If you are a fickle and a jerk, please don't contact me! My bullsh*tradar is on high alert now. And if you only want friends with benefits, please don't contact me. If you are angry or passive, aggressive, please don't contact me. I'm really looking for a strong guy who knows what he wants and is ready for a relationship. I like white guys only betweeen the ages of 38 and 54. Please be over 5"11. I would love to do something really fun on a first date like a balloon ride or do some race car driving to see how fun someone is and spontaneous someone is. I'm also open to meeting at a restaurant or something simple if it's just easier because of time restrictions.

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