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About Me

I am an educated, compassionate, outgoing, fun, loyal and emotionally secure female, who is optimistic and very loving. I have learned to appreciate the little things in life and try not to sweat the small stuff. I am very easy going and very much believe that the purpose of life is about sharing and caring with and about all the people we come across in our lives. Even just a smile to a stranger on the street can make a difference to someone who is having a very bad day. I love giving back, especially to children. There is nothing better than a big smile or laughter from a child. I do volunteer at the local schools in my community as often as time allows. I enjoy hip hop, r&b and old school music but I do listen to my teenage son's I Pod from time to time. I have a wonderful career and I have a pretty cool boss(me). I have been self employed and in the Insurance Industry for 14 years. I am fortunate enough to make my own schedule, so I am able to spend more time with the people I care about. I am very blessed with wonderful family and friends. My son is now 19 and off at college playing basketball for Cal State East Bay (Go Pioneers!) so I am beginning a new phase in my life and have the time to concentrate on looking for that special someone, my other half, my partner in crime. I am not in a hurry and plan on enjoying this new chapter in my book of life until the right person comes along. Now that I have more time for myself, I have begun working out about 3x a week and I really enjoy it. I am a very passionate person who enjoys intimacy and kissing. Unfortunately, making out seems to be a lost art. I believe that foreplay isn't just about the physical, it is about the mental stimulation, thoughtfulness and communication you give to your partner, that takes place 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I believe a relationship should supportive, loving, stimulating and equally fulfilling. I am not perfect, I am human and have faults but I am always on a journey of self reflection and self improvement.I am looking for a companion, a best friend, my partner in crime, the person I want to share my day and my innermost thoughts with. I need someone that makes me want to rush home to them at night. A professional, male who is caring, fun, emotionally secure but most importantly, A MAN WITH A KIND HEART. Someone who likes people and understands how precious each day is. He enjoys life with gusto and living it with purpose. I would love a man who appreciates a woman's curves from top to bottom. It would be nice if he enjoys sports, at least watching them. We can cuddle up and watch a game or discuss playoff options and then create our own half time show. Lol. A sense of humor is a must. Have a beautiful day!.*****

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Avianna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let's start with if you don't have a picture on your profile and you're not going to send one with a message, please don't bother sending me a message because I won't reply. You can see what I look like so it's only fair.A bit about me. I have a passion for keeping fit and staying healthy. I work out on a regular basis and look for the same in a man. I'm looking for someone who is also athletic. If your body type anything other than athletic, I won't be interested. It seems not everyone has the same definition of athletic. My definition doesn't mean someone who is thin, it means muscular as in, more muscles than I have lol. Sorry but I'm picky and just being honest. Someone who goes to the gym also will understand why I love to go.I've been salsa dancing for over 5 years now and I really enjoy it. I don't get out dancing as often as I'd like.I'm very independent and I work hard at my job. There are times of the year that I work long hours and don't have a lot of spare time but even with that, I try to have good work/life balance. I like to play the guitar and I'm self taught. I'm not the best at it but I enjoy learning new songs. I'm also interested in photography and learning how to take better pictures. I don't always have time to get out and shoot, but I try do it on occasion.I'm not in a rush to jump into a serious relationship right now. I do want a relationship eventually but don't want to rush it. I'd rather create a friendship and see if that leads to anything else. I enjoy just staying at home to watch a movie and I like to go out on occasion too but I'm not really into the bar scene. While I do enjoy watching a few favorite tv shows, I also like to get out for physical activities as I'm not a couch potato :-)I like different kinds of music. I enjoy top 40, rock, country, some bluegrass (not the old twangy stuff). I'm not to fussy for heavy metal, rap and jazz.What I'm looking for in a man (probably what everyone else says too***Athletic (someone who goes to the gym)Kind heartedFunny/happySomewhat sensitiveNiceHonest/sincereNot a big drinkerSomeone who can dance (not a necessity but would be nice)RespectfulSomewhat romanticFinally, please don't be offended if I don't reply. There's no point in wasting someone's time if there isn't an interest from the person's profile. Perhaps meeting for a coffee or a walk.

  • Antonio

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Absolutely drama free. I have fun doing anything and everything. Crazy in love with my dog. Favorite thing to do is see a hardcore punk rock show and yes I will be in the pit. I love kids, animals and everything that is simple and innocent. Totally stoked to meet new people--especially those who beat to a different drum. oh jeez, really?

  • Harold

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    So, about me. I love to cook it is one of my passions. I watch movies and I read a lot. I go to the gym almost everyday and I am a vegetarian. I try to live and eat health but I do have my cheat days. I have two grown children and one that is still in grade school. I am a straight forward person and I don't say things and hope that you can read between the lines. I think that is a waste of time. Like most people, I don't like drama but Hello, if you have any kind of life you have some kind of drama. I think it depends on how you handle it that matters the most. I would like to meet someone that has their own interests but doesn't mind tryin new things. I am not expecting a relationship to happen out of thin air. But I would like to meet someone that wants to see of it will work into something deeper or great down the line. I don't expect the Fairytale, I expect mutual respect and honesty. I like creativity.

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