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Aleah, 43

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About Me

Please READ my profile..If you can't handle a successful woman and all that comes with it....It won't work. * I'm not trying to be ugly, but it's my preference and a waste of time contacting me if otherwise.*I am diverse and well rounded. I embrace all life brings and stay busy. Between children and business I work very hard. Being the best person/parent I can be is very important to me. I enjoy my downtime. I love the ocean... I love to travel, I am... adventurous, smart, witty, loyal, outgoing, sweet, kind, confident, generous, loving, affectionate, love to laugh and not being treated like a lady is a deal breaker. I love intellectual conversation...I can go from a ball cap to a ball gown. I'm very down to earth and always try to see the positive side in any situation. God is at the center of my life.I am always open to learning and exploring new things and places. I am a self starter, philanthropist and entrepreneur. I have many different interests, far too many to list here.Please have a pic on your profile, after all initial chemistry is where it starts.I deplore liars. I will not date anyone under 5'10. My preference...Attracted to 5'***'6 tall (I'm 5'7 put on a pair of heels=tall) I am not interested in dating anyone younger than me. There is no wisdom greater than experience. I am attracted to self confident men, not arrogant, there is a big difference. Presence is a must. If you're insecure, I am not the one for you. My guy has to be loving and compassionate, but strong enough to handle me. Looking for quality individuals to spend time with and get to know starting as friends. Live by the Golden Rule...God is in charge of my life and has blessed me many times over. I am not perfect by any means, but strive to be my best. Actions speak louder than words. Control freaks.....Move on!As for you, your sense of humor will make me cry, your intelligence will keep me riveted, your smile will become an indelible image in my mind, and your eyes will reveal your love of humanity. You are never fake or pretentious - it's just not who you are. Your creativity in any way, music, writing, designing, technology, building, painting, hands that heal or words that move people, will capture my curiosity. You naturally have a way of bringing out the best in me and those around you. Being self driven and motivated, you have achieved and take pride in what you do and what you have accomplished. You also know the importance of balance of work and play and the impact of that within your life and that of others around you. Mostly, I would love to find someone that is my best friend, lover, confidante, as well as makes me laugh..loosen up, life doesn't have to be soooo serious all the time! Don't get me wrong, I have serious,deep side, but I love to enjoy life, family, friends and laughter is key. Men, if you are searching for the perfect body and size 2, I am not the women for you.If that's not ok, then pass me by...I'm not looking for the shallow Hal's of the world. ..I'm 43, beautiful, charming, funny, sexy, successful, smart, very smart, an incredible kisser and mother of three! I'm a real women and not trying to be a plastic barbie that's 25 yrs old... I was an All American athlete in 2 sports, basketball and track; a 2time gold medalist in the Jr. Olympics in the ***meters and long jump...a LONG TIME ago...Being at that level fuels me...who I am and responsible for much of my success, but I'm not in shape now. This is just where I am at this particular time in my life. I'd rather spend my extra time being a mother to my children! I believe in honesty...so there ya go! Yes, there must be attraction, but not perfection, nobody's perfect, including you. If you don't like me calling it like it is....good then, Quality Control ;) Honesty is the best policy :) My pics are CURRENT...are yours?Lastly, as direct as this profile comes across, I am quite soft, sweet and tender to those I let in my world and would do anything for those I love!A few fav quotes:How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.~; joy's soul lies in the doing.~William Shakespeare“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"~ ~ With the right person anything can be fun! Coffee, lunch or dinner. You typically know right away if there is chemistry or not. No pressure and laid back. Intimate setting so we can talk and get to know each other. Stroll on the beach, a sunset, a glass of wine, dinner in a small quaint cafe, coffee.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jenniffer

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I guess I am looking for someone to get to know and build a lasting friendship and hopefully a relationship with. Although I think there is something to be said about initial chemistry! I'd like to meet someone that I feel comfortable being myself with and he can be just as comfortable being himself with me. Someone to have fun with and really enjoy being with one another. I like meeting new people. I don't usually go to bars except for a rare girls night out. I am pretty out-going and very "go with the flow". I can get all dolled up or throw on some jeans and a t-shirt. I'm comfortable either way. I usually get along with anyone I meet and I feel it's important to give my undivided attention to what others are talking about and be involved in the conversation. My closest friend would say that I'm confident, funny, strong, down to earth and even sexy....I don't see it but who am I to argue, right? She's great for my self-esteem! I am one of the most non-judgemental people you'll ever meet. I don't think it's my place to judge anyone for their choices or beliefs. I can even learn from them. It doesn't mean I have to agree with them....just respect them. I prefer the man to plan the first date. I am not picky and it is nice to have him say "I'll pick you up at this time and we will be doing *** I do not think a movie in a theater is a good first date; hard to get to know someone in a place where talking is frowned upon! I am the type of person who will easily try something new or can be just as satisfied with something old fashioned or familiar.....I am just very "go with the flow"

  • Jose

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a pretty easy going person who loves to laugh. I love my family (even if they drive me nuts some days!). I want to find my Mr. Wonderful to grow old with. My like taking pictures, watching movies, playing cards and hanging out with friends and people who are good for me. Let me know if you want to know anything else. Somewhere we can sit and get to know each other and see if we have things in common.

  • Seema

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Im Witchy laugh b/c everyone tells me my laugh is like a witch's.Been separated/divorced now for 3+yrs. Im not sure exactly what to put here, Im a nurse. Have been for 20+yrs. I love my job. I have 2 kids. 19 & 21. I want a friend to hang out with & maybe more later on. Im tired of the drama on here. Im not looking for a quick hook up & dump. I have hidden my profile several times & unhidden it to try again. I just want to know is there any real gentlemen left?????? If still interested send a message. Im not sure, maybe to meet somewhere where we can talk & see if there's a connection.

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