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Edelmira, 41
United States, New Mexico, Portales

Offline, last seen Mon, 26 Jan 2026 05:57:59

About Me

I am a full fledged urbanite but I prefer the forest, the ocean, wooden homes, stained glass and potlucks with friends. I like to sleep in tents, ride my bike, be in & on the water, say yes to things that scare me, air guitar like no one's looking & read the New Yorker (not necessarily all at the same time). I eat Szechuan & I have a 7-year-old god-daughter. Your mom will like me. I have a career that’s unique, demanding & totally fulfilling.; volunteered with orphans in Romania (where I was also bitten by a feral dog). I’m addicted to TV (I don’t mean the educational shows) & therefore don’t own one. I’m not however, addicted to anything else & would prefer you aren’t either. I’m always looking for ways to grow & learn & so am usually enrolled in a class, some kind of training, personal development work, etc. You being well-educated, versatile & adventurous would be likely. You can count on me to be engaging, funny and to keep you on your toes. I’m very perceptive but I’m no mind reader so it’s important that you be someone who communicates honestly, clearly & often. I’m seeking a guy who is willing to own his humanity (the good, the bad & the ugly) & who wants to grow & learn throughout his lifetime. My Cancerian shell can be a bit soft at times, at other times I can be a bit too sharp & so I want to be with a man who is compassionate, bold & committed. If he is, he will get it all back in spades. I’d love a man who is tight with his family & is open to starting one of his own (with me that is) &/or sharing what he’s got. Someone with a backbone who isn't a bully;-woo; someone who loves sex but wants more in a relationship.Ultimately I'm looking for someone with whom I can build a life that is uniquely ours. I realize that these things don't happen overnight. Let's have a bit of fun & see where things go. You’ll walk away from a date with me feeling good about yourself. So if you’re intrigued & you’re not currently co-habitating with your (ex) wife or (ex) girlfriend, living with an untreated mental illness or planning on leaving the country in the near future, drop me a line.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Caribbean French South American Thai Action Family & Kids Horror Basketball
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  • Henry from Portales | Woman | 42 years old | Pisces
    Henry

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello,Here is a little insight about me:I am looking for someone who has a sense of humor, a kind heart, and likes to spend time outdoors. Open communication is a must – I am loyal, caring person; I do not play games or carry hidden agendas, and I expect the same from my partner.Life is great! There is so much to see, learn, enjoy, and share. I love to travel and be outdoors with my family and friends. I enjoy all sporty activities: anything from hiking to kayaking, and I adore mountains! Camp fire and starry sky fascinate me (you can guess I am romantic too).If it sounds promising, I hope to hear from you.

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  • Cindra from Portales | Woman | 44 years old | Gemini
    Cindra

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I wanted a new environment for my boys, one filled with nature and culture. I love this town and the kind people in it. I'm continuing on with my volunteer work and I feel this town is filled with a giving and sweet spirit.I have been single now for 4 years and have enjoyed that time, raising my boys on my own and getting back to work. I hope to meet someone who is fun, enjoys the outdoors, likes kids, is responsible and honest....as those are all qualities I like in myself. It's just me and my boys....and a ridiculous looking dog right now. It would be fun to meet someone emotionally and financially secure. Someone who is easy going, intelligent, well read and well versed in the ways of our world. I am a huge animal lover so hunting is not something I would ever take part of. And smokers and heavy drinkers.....no thanks.Music has been and is a huge part of my life.I work from home, doing editing and translation and also give French lessons to kids around town. I love to travel, I've been to many cities and countries to list. Those are next on my list. And I would absolutely love to spend a month or two cruising around in an RV. I love living here....the sense of calm and quiet. The water and the trees and the fact that I can go barefoot most of the time. It would be nice to share this life with someone now. I finally feel the energy and positive attitude is back after spending some time hidden. Good luck out there, guys. It's tough meeting someone you click with. And I prefer to think that it just "happens". Love is pretty cool !! It's been a long time since I dated. I think I would most enjoy a nice dinner in a restaurant, sharing stories and getting to know one another. Anything outdoors too, would be a great time. I could never live in a big city again. I need fresh air, clean water, green spaces. So anything related to that would be a great date for me.

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  • Jame from Portales | Woman | 45 years old | Virgo
    Jame

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Open to all sorts of fun... Still looking for a hobby to call my own. I am a camp manager and work in the oil sands. Love to travel and will go on my own if the mood strikes, (always carry my passport) , I like the outdoors,and camping ( more of a trailer girl not tent) , enjoying quading (mud is fun, not afraid to get dirty), used to ski alot, haven't for a while ( might be time to try again). I golf ,( not good but I try hard). I have started reading novels ( for fun...LOL), I do fish, and have fishing licences for 3 provinces (but I wont touch them when I catch them) I am a very upbeat positive person, I have a great sense of humour ( I can laugh at myself ie .. the pic with the tiarra)I enjoy my career and my free time. My job keeps me away from home for periods of time but the time I have at home I make the most of. This is not a dress rehersal......no regrets! Live, laugh, love!!! I am not interested in someone with small children....I love kids but been there done that. Thanks for reading my profile. Anything except coffee

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