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Edelmira, 41
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

I am a full fledged urbanite but I prefer the forest, the ocean, wooden homes, stained glass and potlucks with friends. I like to sleep in tents, ride my bike, be in & on the water, say yes to things that scare me, air guitar like no one's looking & read the New Yorker (not necessarily all at the same time). I eat Szechuan & I have a 7-year-old god-daughter. Your mom will like me. I have a career that’s unique, demanding & totally fulfilling.; volunteered with orphans in Romania (where I was also bitten by a feral dog). I’m addicted to TV (I don’t mean the educational shows) & therefore don’t own one. I’m not however, addicted to anything else & would prefer you aren’t either. I’m always looking for ways to grow & learn & so am usually enrolled in a class, some kind of training, personal development work, etc. You being well-educated, versatile & adventurous would be likely. You can count on me to be engaging, funny and to keep you on your toes. I’m very perceptive but I’m no mind reader so it’s important that you be someone who communicates honestly, clearly & often. I’m seeking a guy who is willing to own his humanity (the good, the bad & the ugly) & who wants to grow & learn throughout his lifetime. My Cancerian shell can be a bit soft at times, at other times I can be a bit too sharp & so I want to be with a man who is compassionate, bold & committed. If he is, he will get it all back in spades. I’d love a man who is tight with his family & is open to starting one of his own (with me that is) &/or sharing what he’s got. Someone with a backbone who isn't a bully;-woo; someone who loves sex but wants more in a relationship.Ultimately I'm looking for someone with whom I can build a life that is uniquely ours. I realize that these things don't happen overnight. Let's have a bit of fun & see where things go. You’ll walk away from a date with me feeling good about yourself. So if you’re intrigued & you’re not currently co-habitating with your (ex) wife or (ex) girlfriend, living with an untreated mental illness or planning on leaving the country in the near future, drop me a line.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Caribbean French South American Thai Action Family & Kids Horror Basketball
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