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Edelmira, 41
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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I am a full fledged urbanite but I prefer the forest, the ocean, wooden homes, stained glass and potlucks with friends. I like to sleep in tents, ride my bike, be in & on the water, say yes to things that scare me, air guitar like no one's looking & read the New Yorker (not necessarily all at the same time). I eat Szechuan & I have a 7-year-old god-daughter. Your mom will like me. I have a career that’s unique, demanding & totally fulfilling.; volunteered with orphans in Romania (where I was also bitten by a feral dog). I’m addicted to TV (I don’t mean the educational shows) & therefore don’t own one. I’m not however, addicted to anything else & would prefer you aren’t either. I’m always looking for ways to grow & learn & so am usually enrolled in a class, some kind of training, personal development work, etc. You being well-educated, versatile & adventurous would be likely. You can count on me to be engaging, funny and to keep you on your toes. I’m very perceptive but I’m no mind reader so it’s important that you be someone who communicates honestly, clearly & often. I’m seeking a guy who is willing to own his humanity (the good, the bad & the ugly) & who wants to grow & learn throughout his lifetime. My Cancerian shell can be a bit soft at times, at other times I can be a bit too sharp & so I want to be with a man who is compassionate, bold & committed. If he is, he will get it all back in spades. I’d love a man who is tight with his family & is open to starting one of his own (with me that is) &/or sharing what he’s got. Someone with a backbone who isn't a bully;-woo; someone who loves sex but wants more in a relationship.Ultimately I'm looking for someone with whom I can build a life that is uniquely ours. I realize that these things don't happen overnight. Let's have a bit of fun & see where things go. You’ll walk away from a date with me feeling good about yourself. So if you’re intrigued & you’re not currently co-habitating with your (ex) wife or (ex) girlfriend, living with an untreated mental illness or planning on leaving the country in the near future, drop me a line.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Caribbean French South American Thai Action Family & Kids Horror Basketball
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  • Kyung from Portales | Woman | 43 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Man it's like kijiji on here. So much to weed through to get to the good stuff!Well let me open with this. I'm tall, 5'10". So, in all fairness you should know, that unless you're 6'1", and I mean really 6'1", I'm not interested. I like to wear my heels occasionally and being taller than my guy makes me uncomfortable. There, I said it. Anybody still reading this?Let me get to the fun stuff then. Here are a few things I'm pretty good at:1) playing the guitar. Scratch that, I suck. But I like to dabble and in my head, I sound awesome. 2) cooking. You like food? Perfect. 3) volleyballI. 4) helping people reach their fitness goals. I'm a personal trainer and boot camp *** I guess you could say I'm really good at yelling at people. (she jokes***being funny. See what I did there? I actually am pretty funny with a quick wit and sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, bonus points baby. 6) listening. I am that friend you can come to if you need to vent, complain or cry. 7) kayaking. Just discovered it this summer and whether it's a river or a lake, I love it. 8) cleaning bathrooms. Just wanted to see if you're reading every word or skimming over it. 9) spooning. Big or little, I'm your girl. Cuddling is highly underrated. 10)... let's kill this list already... kissing! If you are also a good kisser, I think we (our lips) should meet.I take care of myself inside and out and would expect that you do too. If you smoke, are trying to quit, or are in denial (lying) about your smoking, you're not for me. I like men who are fit, active and healthy. I love to watch and play sports which some guys think is pretty cool. I want to travel more in the next few years as there are still many places I haven't been. Live music is one of my fave things. Some concerts I've been to have filled my soul! I'm a warm weather kinda girl and spend as much time outside as possible in that 2 month window we call summer. I'm a mom of two amazing girls. We have lots of fun together and they are my favorite people in the world. My life is good, I'm blessed. Just looking to add a person to it and bring it up a notch. Having said that, I'd much rather be alone than be with the wrong person, for any length of time. I know who I am and what I want. Chemistry is of utmost importance for sure, but true compatibility, I believe, is where the magic happens.Gotta start somewhere though so don't be shy. Talk to me baby!

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  • Sonya from Portales | Woman | 44 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    well im not really sure what to write in here but I will give it my best..lol I love to cook and learn how to cook new dishes when ever someone is willing to t, each me, I love spending quality time with family and close friends its very important to me. My kids are my wold so I hope to meet someone that loves kids as much as I do :) Im going to school right now to do some upgrades so i can acheive the job I really want to have working for the police , ambulance and fire departments basically a dispatch operator, so excited for this to finally happen!! I love to laugh and have a good time im easy going, and very patient I love to just stay in and watch a movie and drink a glass of wine!! my favorite kinda movies are comedies some drama and some action movies ,... my favorite music is dancehall reggae, reggae tone, hip hop and some rap !!Im hoping to meet a man with similar interests loves to laugh and have a good time but also knows how to be a gentleman when need be...lol someone that is patient and caring and understanding with good communication and listening skills as i find communication is huge in a relationship ... i want a relationship but im not into rushing it, I want to take my time to get to know someone and go from there I think thats the best way to be anyhow if anything i have to say intrests you feel free to message me ... good luck to everyone!! grab a coffee or a drink and talk and get to know each othere and lets see if their is a connection or not ...

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  • Aryanna from Portales | Woman | 45 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi i am a single mom of 2 beautiful girls.I have 1 tattoo that i got over a dare lol..My goal was to quit smoking and i did that a month ago.I love to play pool doesn't matter if i win or loose .I like going for walks or sitting back and watching a movie.If u want to know more ask don't be shy..good luck..............please have a pic when u message me..TY A first date should be decided between both people after the first meet.On A first meet we can go for a coffee,a walk or even a friendly game of pool.

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