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Alesha, 38

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About Me

Profiles all start to sound the same after awhile so I will try to keep this simple. I have a close family, I love to cook, I own my own power tools, I camp outside in a tent and I think it is important to pamper myself from time to time. My favorite things include my little black dress, live music, street fairs, funnel cake, laughing so hard that I start to cry, rainy Sundays on the couch, that high after a good workout, first kisses, red wine and great conversation. Things I hate: let start with all the unnecessary skin I see on this website. Really, guys, keep your #%$^ clothes on!! I am not going to base whether or not I want to talk / meet on how your abs (or your crotch) look in a photo. And if you are that shallow then I know that you are going just off of looks. Being attracted to each other is important, but it is the easy part, it is just DNA. Don't you want to get past that and find out if we have a connection? I know I do. I have never broken up with someone for looks, only for personality or incompatibility. How about you?I like to think I am smart, funny, compassionate, hard working and that I know how to unwind. My friends and my family come first, right up there with my significant other when I have one. I love my life. The only thing I want is someone that gets me, and adores me, that I can share it with. I have learned a few things from my online dating experience that will save us both a little time: - DO NOT *** A PHOTO. It is only fair. When you look at my pics, but you don't have any, it is kind of peeping-Tom-ish. - *** texts are great to get started, but I believe in real conversation, real dates and real chemistry. - It is not a date if you ask me out in a text message. - Don't send me naked (or semi-naked) photos, don't tell me I am hot or that I turn you on, and don't ask me what positions I like. If that is your idea of an icebreaker, I am not the girl for you. The first date should be low key and encourage conversation. It is not about what you do, it is about who you are with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lizeth

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I enjoy hanging out with my friends & family. My two kids will always come first. I enjoy doing anything outdoors. .running, biking, camping, fishing, etc. I play coed vball in my spare time.Big question..can she cook? Answer is yes and I am pretty good at it.One more thing. .if you're dead set against tattoo's...then stop now and delete me. I have a few...nothing crazy.Natural brunette. .however, I do like to change up my hair color for fun. Coffee house..followed by a walk on the beach.future dates..

  • Irene

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    It's says looking "looking for relationship" not booty call.....don't message me if your looking for a hook up....Looking for a fresh start this year. I would love to meet people that love to travel, camp, hike. I have struggled with weight issues in my past so I am looking for a man that tries to stay physically fit and eats healthy....most of the time. And most important I love a man that can be silly and serious!I love to dance and be social and I want a man who will be by my side and not a wall flower.I'm 5'9" and 135. With that being said I like a guy to be bigger than me...this is just a guideline...not a hard fast rule. You might think it's shallow but for the most part I like guys 5'9" or taller. As a woman it's hard to feel like a woman if you are bigger than the man you are with. I love to run and stay fit. Being outside is important to me but I love going to the movies and the theater too. I can cook on a camp fire and sleep in a tent but a comfy bed and room service is great too!I'm looking for a man who knows when to take charge but still be kind and sweet to me. lI know it's a tall order but I have a second chance to find my soul mate and I'm not going to screw it up. I'm just a girl looking for a guy...so please take a risk and send me a message. Remember...you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Coffee or a drink and appetizers....then we'll go from there. P.S. I know it's summer but flip flops, t-shirt and jeans on a first date is insulting. Please put some effort into first impressions and we'll have a great time.

  • Charis

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Spending time outside is definitely a priority in life.-hiking/backpacking and paddling!), hiking, biking, sea kayaking, and canoeing. Winters, I'm backcountry skiing most weekends-nothing beats a good powder day in the Chugach! I ski some at Alyeska when backcountry conditions are sketchy, and try and get out skate skiing a couple nights a week after work.-everything from alternative, rap, rock, heavy metal, hip hop, and even a little country. I'm pretty open musically, but definitely have my preferences :)First Friday and First Tap are some of my favorite things to do around town-gotta love art, good music and beer!I love to travel and check out new countries and cultures. I'm planning on putting a new stamp on my passport soon! I've done a fair amount of travel in state-and looking forward to doing a lot more! I try and make the most of my destinations and usually need a vacation from my vacation when I get home :)I'm looking for someone that is looking to get outdoors and enjoy AK. Honesty, communication, and chemistry are pretty crucial. Could be a ski or hike, cup of coffee, or a (good) beer.

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