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I work hard and I like to play hard so when I get a free moment to myself I try to do things that interest me even if I have to do those things by myself but after awhile it sure would be nice to find someone that would enjoy doing those things with me other than my family (that sounds terrible but I love my family).I enjoy spending time with people who I care about. I like people who have brains, humor and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), been thrown some curve balls in life but seem to constantly know how to swerve. Non-communication is a pet-peeve of mine so if I send you a message and you don't respond back with anything even if it is "I am sorry but I am not interested" then that is better than nothing. Actually I will have more respect for you, just be nice about it .Now it is time for a vocabulary lesson:Communication (from Latin "communis", meaning to share) is the activity of conveying information through the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, visuals, signals, writing, or behavior. It is the meaningful exchange of information between two people.I have a sense of humor because I am on this website and you are reading this profileExample #1I met this guy on meetville and he and I had been messaging each other very frequently and all of sudden he just began to not message me as much. I sent him a message saying "I don't think you are interested anymore". He messages me back and tells me that he is only on meetville to find friends. My reply back (very cleverly I must add) was "Well in that case *** joining a "dating" site you could have just joined *** #2Just because I am not a Size 2 does not mean I am fat. Look at the age on my profile. None of us are the same size as we were in kindergarten. It is called the "aging" process (insert the visualization of me rolling my eyes). I think it is somewhat entertaining to met guys on this website who expect "perfection" when they are nowhere near that themselves (isn't that called hypocracy). With that said I am a good girl who goes to church just about every Sunday.I think that covers alot for now. Might add more depending on further experiences on here. A nice restaurant where we could sit and talk over a casual dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ellie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I like all kinds of music I am open minded To hangout an talk

  • Cassi

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    ***The chat feature doesn't work. If you want to talk you will have to send a message***A few things I have learned on here so far....If you only have pictures of you with your shirt off, if you have some sort of hand sign thrown up in a picture, or if you have "hit me back" or "holla" somewhere in your profile... chances are we are NOT going to be a match... Update.... I was hoping I would never have to do this in my profile but there are some things that people are apparently missing when looking at my profile.. so I feel the need to put them here right at the top.. 1- I know my profile is VERY long, but please don't send me a message unless you have read all of it..The information I have in here is in here for a reason.. I am not trying to waste your time.. Just the opposite actually.. I am trying to let you get a good sense of who I am so you will know if you want to send me a message or not.2- Alot of people seem to miss my body type is listed as BBW.. I hate the term BBW, but that is all they give me to work with..lol. .. If you are not attracted to big women, I take no offense to that.. As it states later on in my profile (if you make it that far), I know I am not for everyone and everyone isn't for me.. We all have things we are attracted to.. So just click off my profile and no harm done :***I am sorry, but I do not date black men.. Just my preference, no disrespect intended at all... ***If you send me a message and just say "Hi".. I will assume you didn't read my profile and probably not respond.. Ok, now that is done... If I haven't scared you away yet, here is the original profile text..Well where do I start.. I have tried meetville before and met some nice people, some of whom are still friends of mine to this day... but I still haven't found what I'm looking for! (If you are now singing that U2 song in your head, don't worry, so am I ;) )It is pretty simple really.. I am a good woman who just wants a good man.. That's not asking for too much, right? I have a full time job, my own place, vehicle, independence, blah blah blah..lol I am the kind of person that lets cars in during heavy traffic, sings in the car (yes, even when other people are in the car with me), never meets a stranger, and talks to people in check out lines. I have been called everything from the life of the party to a homebody depending on the situation. I am quick witted and some say sarcastic but whatever you want to call it, I will make you laugh (and not at the expense of someone else's feelings). I don't get offended easily and my mind can wander into the gutter as quick as anyone else's.. I am a very open minded and affectionate person and I would like someone who is the same. I know what I am hoping to find here and I am serious about finding it. That being said, I am not saying I am looking to jump right into something serious or monopolize all of your time. I want to start slow and see where things go..I am however looking for someone that has the time available to get to know each other. If you are only going to be available once a month I am not the woman for you. I am looking for one man that finds me as interesting and attractive as I find him. If I am lucky enough to meet someone on here who I feel a connection with, I can guarantee you that I will take the time to get to know you and see where it goes. I will not log in to meetville every other hour to see if something better has come along. I am looking for someone to eventually share my life with. So if you are not really looking for a relationship, just want to play games, or just looking for a one night stand, please pass me by! Also, I do not date black men..no disrespect, just my preference.. Music wise I listen to classic rock and the groups I grew up listening to.... I like current music as well but don't listen to much of it..I am a nerd... I love sci-fi.. My favorite movie is Dune (brownie points if you know anything about it or have even heard of it before!)... Some of my other favorites are: LOTR, Time Bandits, The Princess Bride, anything Star Trek or Star Wars.. hopefully you are getting the idea by now ;) I unfortunately haven't had the chance to see The Hobbit yet, but I have a feeling it will quickly be added to my favorites list once I do!My parents are deceased so I don't have much family. What family I do have, I love dearly and would do anything for. I have three kids; a 10 year old son and twin daughters who just turned 3 on Christmas Day.. Oh, this has come up a few times recently with people I have talked to on here. When I put I do not want more children, I only put that because I can't have anymore myself. I am totally fine dating someone that already has kids and honestly think it would be easier because they would understand the challenges of being a single parent.A little about my appearance to make sure there is NO confusion..(because apparently some people are confused) I am 5'9", curvy, NOT skinny AT ALL.. I am an 18 on top and a 22 on the bottom. Also, please keep in mind that I do have makeup on in these pictures.. I don't think anyone is going to post a picture of what they look like rolling out of bed first thing in the morning...lol I am a t-shirt, jeans, pony tail and little to no makeup type of woman alot of the time.. Oh, and I know it is hard to tell in my pictures, but I am fairly pale and have freckles :).. I get a lot of *** what my "type" is.. Well I really don't have a set type.. I have dated everything from suit and tie professionals all the way to musicians sleeved out in tattoos... As far as the purely physical attributes, I would say that I tend to be attracted to tall men, clean shaven is always nice.. I also am a sucker for bald men, dimples, or blue eyes. These are just preferences and not by any means must haves! :)I know I am not for everyone and everyone isn't for me. However, if you are reading this and you can relate to anything I have said, please send me a messsage.. I would love to hear from you! But if you do take the time to message me, PLEASE say something other than Hi... Let me know somehow you have read my profile.. Everything in my profile is in here because I feel it is stuff you should know.. I don't want to waste your time or mine :).. Thank you!!Good luck to everyone in finding what they are looking for.Kristen Nothing fancy required.. I would be happy with anything where we can get to know each other. I have done the dinner / movie thing, I have met for drinks, I have done the meet a park and walk around and talk, pretty much all of the standard first dates.. and the truth is, I have found that it doesn't really matter what we do on a first date.. If you like the person, you have a great time regardless!! Maybe an activity would be fun though.. something like bowling, or shooting pool (I am horrible at both but really enjoy them..haha) Maybe if it is that time of year, watching a football game, Roll Tide!!!

  • Elea

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hello and thank you for taking the time to actually read this, considering I actually took the time to fill it in. Lol. I am just me, nothing super special. I am honest and up front, apparently very few people are these days. I'm not rich. I don't have a hot supermodel body. I work hard for what I have and am working to change the things I do not like about myself. I love to laugh and smile so sense of humor is a big plus. No need to take everything so serious( I do enough of that at work). I enjoy the simple things in life. Family friends etc. Im not in a hurry to get married again but I would like to find someone who is willing to take things slow and start as friends. PLEASE DON'T BE OFFENDED BUT I AM NOT INTO BLACK MEN. SO DON'T WASTE MY TIME OF YOURSHAPPY FISHING. GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL

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