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About Me

I'm a pretty down to earth type of girl. Love spending time with the kids, family and friends. It's always been about my kids and now they feel its time to put myself out there. So here I am. I have always been very independent and have a great job. I love the out doors especially in the summer. I love camping along the water side and everything else that's goes along with it.. I am a bit shy at first .. I have a great personality and basically get along with anyone. Gonna be honest and say I'm not a frail girl, pretty curvy.. Just thought I'd put that out there so no disappointments.. Life is too short to sweat the small things. I try to live life to the fullest.. Maybe dinner or drinks to be able to have conversation to get to know one another; become friends.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joycelyn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi. I am a single, never been married woman who is seeking to meet some active, interesting, educated men. For the past 4 years, I have been working toward my doctorate in Clinical Psychology so a lot of my focus has been there. I also work part-time so I keep a pretty busy schedule. Fitness is a big part of my life as well. I enjoy running, weight-training, and yoga. Aside from my focus on school and fitness, I am also Christian and attend church regularly. I would really like to meet people who are active and also share a similar faith. People who know me would probably say that I have a big heart and a good sense of humor. I am a pretty serious person and very driven. My goals are important to me and I hope to live my life in a way that makes a positive difference in the world. I'm interested in people with good morals, character, and depth. I'd like to meet someone who shares similar values, including living an active, healthy lifestyle. I am looking for someone who is very loyal, honest, strong, and moral.It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. ~..I think it sums up my outlook on life pretty well). My ideal first date would be something really simple, like getting a cup of coffee or grabbing a drink...

  • Michell

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I grew up in a small town with old school family values and a strong work ethic. The best memories as a child was on my grandparent's farm! My biggest passion is wine! I feel so at home in a vineyard. I am not ashamed to enjoy a box wine either! Those are easier to have while boating! I mostly prefer sitting around a bonfire with friends rather than going out. Love a fun road trip! I love to try new restaurants and different bars/pubs. The best ones are usually the hole-in-the-wall places. I really want to travel more when I get a chance so I can see what is else out there to experience. Love to visit museums and anything historical. My taste in music is mostly country but I enjoy mostly anything from the 80s and 90s. I am looking for a down home and a good ole country boy type!!). I guess it's the lifestyle that I know and understand most. Feels like home!! But what i am really looking for is someone that is fun, open minded, independent and is very dependable. Laughter is really important to me too! I find humor very attractive. Someone that is close to their family and likes spending time with them. Love a family man! I am also pretty tall, even without the heels on. So I am looking for a tall guy which is very important for me because I love wearing heels!! He has to be over 6 feet tall. Last BF was 6' 8"!!! Loved it!! I do need physical attraction and chemistry together for anything to continue. Would love it if I found someone who enjoys wine as much as I do. Hoping they are also comfortable in any social setting.I do love being single & my independence is very important to me. I do keep pretty busy. But I do hope to find someone to settle down with but not having to just settle. I want to take thing slow to see where things go. Tired of the games and have no interest for any 'hook-ups' either. Old fashion values a must!! Searching for the same qualities that my father and grandfather provided to my mom and grandmother. I learned by their example so my standards are pretty high when it comes to that. (So, Be the man you would want your daughter to be with or your son to become!!). I do know exactly who I am looking for but not sure if he actually exists. A perfect first meeting for me is somewhere that is quiet and having a good conversation with a bottle of wine. Love having drinks on a patio on a perfect evening. Even a brewery is fun too! A coffee house is good as well! I am a pretty simple and down to earth woman. I am pretty open to almost anything that is a quiet so we can get to know each other to see if things click.Then after a great meeting:I perfect first date could be wine tasting at a local winery then a picnic in the vineyard. A visit to a zoo or a museum. Bowling (only sport that i am good at) and pizza. Mini Golf. I know they are hard to find now, but to fill the back of a pick up truck with tons of pillows and blankets and head to a Drive In movie place to catch a couple movies with a huge container of popcorn. Or you can surprise me!

  • Sheena

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Biggest turn-on: literacy (not kidding!). /s (dunno if that made it bold, but it is THAT important)the offense quote's from a song, good sign if you know it... I actually accidentally offend at times (TBI), but all in all... probably still trueOK, new quotation, but can't disrespect CMFT by putting it on top of his.... Red M&M: "It hurts!! But I kinda like it... " ;)New revelation. They should make kids have audio text only (as long as they don't do it driving). It's like, enunciate or go insane. Might move us back up the spiral a little language-wise Added a ***pic (the one with 4 eyes). I fully admit I'm 38 yrs old & play with temporary tattoos. I have 6 real ones, but all discreet. Still haven't given up on my phd & a future prestigious career as a world reknowned brilliant neuropsychologist. (Course once my brilliance is established... I'll ink to my heart's content) :)I can msg on here fine from my phone. I have no reason to go straight to texting you. I'm not quick to give out my number. I'm kinda the nerdy type. If the closest you come to reading is the captions on pics in Maxim, you'd find me really annoying (& I'll avoid saying how I'd compare to the pics...). Don't get me wrong, I'm fine with a guy who occasionally thinks with his other head, just not *** that one. I actually don't care that he reads a lot either. Just that he CAN. And writes that way. Graduate degree means beyond a bachelors. It does not mean you graduated High School. Just lettin' some obviously confused guys know... in case they wanna change something on their profile. Dunno if this might avoid some time wasted, but if you like rap or R&B, we're really not compatible. If you're young enough to consider yourself "mature for your age", we're really not compatible. If you add ING without dropping the E we're REALLY not compatible. When someone says "I seen", "it was wrote", "it's broke" or "he/she don't", it makes my skin CRAWL. That seems obnoxious to some folks, but its my native language & hearing it butchered feels criminal. I'm 5'8 so if you're saying you're 5'7 (& I'm not really looking for vanilla, but I'd be willing to try it. Ideally, I'd like a loving sadist. If that describes you, PLEASE msg mefavorite quote. something like "we do not stop playing as we grow older,we grow older as we stop playing" I'm not sure I care about the first meeting. Just a chemistry test. What's interesting is if there's a second.

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