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AristaOnline
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I am at a place in my life where I feel I could offer what I expect out of a relationship. I am finding that I am either pickier than I believed I was or there are less people out there now that I relate to. I bore easily in situations in which I don't feel inspired to grow and learn as a person. It's not a piece of cake to maintain my interest but i think it would come effortless to the right person. What do I offer? I am typically quite honest. I know when the truth hurts and when to hold my tongue but know that trust is key in any respectful relationship. I smile and laugh more than most. I am pretty low maintenance. Kids seem to love me and I think that comes from my playful spirit. I am open to new things. I have a lot of things I enjoy doing but I can usually have fun doing anything. Last but not least (though I am sure there are more) I work daily to grow as a person. Of course I am not perfect but I can admit when I am wrong and I do my best to get better each day.My ideal person would be one who considers himself above average intelligence. Someone who also enjoys reading. Someone who loves many types of music and believes life comes with a soundtrack. Not in a cheesy way but the way the music inspires memory and lights a thought in your heart, sometimes forcing you to think in new ways. He would consider his sense of humor to be that of wit and sarcasm. He is boldly confident but with an air of boyish charm. The kind of person who appreciates learning and analyzing things. He loves food and isn't a picky eater. Proper grammar is a definite bonus. As a past smoker, I understand if you smoke but you're going to have to sell me on why you're so awesome, I should overlook it. I also used to drink and now I don't. I give a big hurrah to those who drink but if it's something you do on a regular basis, especially to excess, it's a deal breaker for me. I don't expect anyone to change to meet my expectations. I know there are others out there whose ideas match my own. While I expect to differ on many things or ideas, it's important to me to find someone I enjoy spending time with doing little to nothing, with similar thoughts, ideas, hobbies and passions. I don't think that's asking too much. Expecting someone to change would be...I am quite comfortable spending time by myself but I would love to find someone who can maintain my interest. When I find someone I really enjoy, I like to see them as much as possible. I am not the woman to throw herself casually into anything. I think it's time for someone to sweep me off my feet. I am not going to ask myself out...Don't guys pursue women anymore? I believe pretty strongly that the guy should plan the date. I'm not sure if that's sheer old fashionedness or just a belief that a guy can put in some work to woo a girl. It may suck to plan a date you're afraid she won't like, but I promise not to complain since I put you up to the task. I also think that after we meet, the guy should probably pick her up as well. I really would be open to most things. Dinner, coffee, frisbee golf, a walk, a game, fishing, etc. I would rather be creative than cliche but it's really all about who you are as a person.
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CarrollOnline
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
The ultimate objective here is to find someone to have a family with. Family can mean you already have children and all that may include. At this point I am still open to having children of my own whether that is biologically or adopting. I feel it is only fair to be straightforward about this as I have found in my age range some men are not interested in expanding their current family. If you are.....Please be willing to allow things to develope naturally and comfortably.I live in the city and prefer to date someone that does as well. I am open to someone in the Northshore area as I work up there. An hour commute is not conducive to having a relationship.I am professionally employed. However, I do work weekends and don't foresee that changing. I can take time off and have some flexability but just something for you to consider. For me, dating someone with a "normal" schedule works fine. This allows us both our own time.I enjoy a wide variety of activities. I'm not into working out so much as I love to stay active, usually outdoors. I golf, windsurf, bike, hike, etc. I enjoy the finer things...dinner, wine, theater, museums, etc. I can camp in a tent as easily as I can lounge at an exclusive resort. Being raised on a farm I am still a country girl at heart.I am typically attracted to the white collar type. I also find it a big turn on if you are business savy...its just my thing...what can I say? I am independant and self sufficient but I do appreciate a man that apable of being the head of the family type guy.Here is what I won't respond to....no picture in your profile, you live in a far away land, or anything that clearly indicates you havent read my profile and what I am looking for. Please be genuine. I find people love to *** actually meet on here. I am not really good with the lengthy messaging that goes along with online dating. I tend to loose interest with continual messaging with a phantom. I know the tendancy is to get to know someone before you meet. However, I feel you can't get to know someone UNTIL you meet. I prefer to just meet. Coffee a drink...something casual. We can always extend the date or go outagain right? Lets be honest...we will know within about 10 minutes if there is chemistry.
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ShandiOnline
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I am a single mother to a beautiful 10 year old daughter. I am going to school for a degree in criminal justice and will have a career as a Juvenile Probation Officer. I haven't dated in years so I'm not sure what to expect. I love to travel, see new sights and try new adventures. I love the outdoors and summertime, especially camping, fishing, and boating. My two passions in my life are animals and tattoos. I have a few..ok more than a few..but it doesn't make me a bad person or a thug..lol. I like to express myself and each one of them tells a story about my life. I am looking for that special someone or just to have a great friend. Any thing else you wanna know, please ask....for the record..if I don't respond to you right away please don't take it personal, get an attitude or call me "prejudice", I work full time, attend school full time, and am a single mom..i don't have all day to sit on the internet..just sayin..and no I'm not interested in "sharing naughty pics"..so please don't ask..im not that kinda girl..Thank you! I am up for anything. I love to laugh so a comedy club would be awsome. Maybe a trip to the zoo or a quick trip out of town to get some new tattoos. I think it is important just to be yourself and see what happens. I don't mind being spontaneous.