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Lavenia, 40

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About Me

I joined the Body By Vi 90 Day Challenge and have lost 80 lbs and counting. I like my curvy figure but I also want to be healthy. I am very active. I just completed Insanity, love to golf, and I work out ***days a week. I just turned 40 in December and so far 40 has been good to me. I am looking forward to meeting new people who can make me laugh, may be interested in singing karaoke or listening to me sing :) I am also interested in people that are working hard to be fit and healthy. I can be shy at first but deep down I'm a nut. Just need the right conversation to bring it out. Anything but coffee during the day. Boooooring!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Louanne

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Really .... I so prefer the face to face meet. This is all so backwards! I'm totally a down to earth girl with morals and values looking for the same in a man. I would like a man in my life again for all the things that brings to the table. I have kiddos though I am also separate from that at times and would prefer to share things with someone special. I am selective so if I don't think we'd match I will try to be honest but kind. Best if luck though..... I think the first date comes after you agree you want to move forward so up in the air for now.

  • Soon

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm a pretty go with the flow kind of person. I love kids & dogs. I prefer to be outside than in. I LOVE music!!!! Favorite stations include 91x, 94.9, 98.7 (LA station), 105.3 & Would take music over tv any day. I am extremely sarcastic, and can take it as well. I find that if you can laugh & make fun of yourself then you earn extra points. I am looking for someone that is active & can keep me on the same path. I exercise on a regular basis & would like someone who is on the same track. By no means sm I perfect, but I try to improve on myself all the time. Also, I don't smoke, so unless you only smoke occasionally, then I'm not down. I have one full-time child, and the other one is an adult and on his own. I have some really great friends. I get along with almost anyone. I can dress up or down with ease. My favorite shoes : flip flops. I'm very approachable & a great listener. I try to be as positive as possible. Send me a message if you're interested. I've been asked why I'm on here. Well I'm a single mom with a full-time job. I would love to make time for the right person. Good luck! Meet for drinks, unless you have something better in mind.

  • Joella

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Okay I admit it. It is near impossible to capture, express, or submit my core essence on a dating website. I really wanted to. I have a unique, quirky, startlingly honest, fun, easy going, outgoing, and kind to others personality. I enjoy writing, reading some, learning or experiencing more, and feeling the good in life the most. Hmm… now to capture this on here and mix in whacky humor too. Yes I agree impossible. I do believe in finding life and not waiting for it to come to me. I’m told I’m spontaneous and always up for any adventure be it big or small. I’ll check online, go with friend’s last minute, and even long term plan an event. I find being flexible and finding the simple joys in the moment make better entertainment than too much organization. All best laid plans will fall apart so enjoy the ravel. I like thinking, talking, ruminating, laughing, teasing, playing, star gazing, camping, and all the other human luxuries. Snuggling to a movie or watching TV, but moving, exercising, and feeling the sun on my face just as much. I don’t want to be unhealthy or over weight and will work to keep it in the happy enough for health, but fat enough for shrimp cream sauce over tortellini. You must enjoy life meaning moving, experiencing new things, romancing, and dancing! (I’m not great either, but I’m game to improve.) I’ I enjoy new people, new places, new stories, and poking and touching historical anything. Toss me in and I’ll poke every button in the abandoned train in the trespassing yard. (Sign is just for liability right?) I need taller than me, somewhat happily healthy, affectionate, willing to work out, loves getting out whether it be a play or the wilderness. *** live close and it sounds close. First Date: Hmmm... I think I just want to meet in a restaraunt in case the person I go out with is a nut!; R laughing, playing, and a comedy club. Outdoor activities are the best.), and trying the local cuisine. All awesome things to do. Looking at the stars late at night on a hammock and talking over stress of the day, to fun of the day, to laughter and life or sharing intimate thoughts. I guess that isn't a first date. Again I'm looking for light-hearted fun, while hoping to run across that special someone. Ahhh... who knows. Relax and discover the joys that make life worth living.

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