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About Me

I have been affectionately dubbed as the 'human calculator'.I am opinionated, enjoy a good debate about anything under the sun, and try very hard to admit when I'm proven wrong.I'm honest and fiercely loyal.I've always wanted to be a racecar driver, which I plan on becoming when I retire. :)Food is a great passion of mine. So much so that I often take pictures of it and fond memories of vacations almost always include a great meal.I love to bake and I find it very rewarding to watch people enjoy eating something I've created.There is nothing more peaceful to me than listening to waves crashing and smelling saltwater while digging my toes into the warm sand.My kids come first no matter what and I also have very strong ties to my family and friends. Anyone I date has to understand and be okay with that and I would do the same.P.S.P.P.S. Intrigue me! For the first meeting - coffee/tea or drinks so we can have an opportunity to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wanetta

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I grew up in a small-ish town in the 80's and did all the small town things there were to do. I love my "hair bands" - But I have many other musical tastes - which you could ask me about if you're curious.Did you see my White Sox picture? Yes, I'm a fan. However, I am nice enough to keep you company if you want to watch a Cubs game at home or at a bar, but I don't like going to Wrigley. Feel free to ask me why. I enjoy Bears games and sometimes a good Bulls game too. Do you play euchre or rummy? I do!I do all the usual stuff too. I exercise, eat meat and potatoes and some healthy stuff. I enjoy being in my jeans and being low-key, but equally enjoy getting all dressed up for a night out - dinner, dancing or a classical concert or performance art of some kind. As a midwesterner I make sure to take advantage of the great outdoors during good weather. Who doesn't like a good movie now and then too, especially in the winter? Having some travel plans to look forward to is also a good cure for the the doldrums of routines. I have a lot of interests and am curious about many things, but you'll have to get to know me to find out what they are.I tend to like people who are interested in and involved in the world around them. That means knowing what is going on in the world and wanting to make the world a better place, even if a small way. I believe you don't have to have a degree to be smart. I have one, but only because I decided to become a teacher and the state requires it. I worked for a long time without a degree and was very successful. I also know people who are "degreed" and who can't think there way out of a box.I'm looking for a great man, who has some things in common with me, is intelligent and successful and wants to get to know someone gradually and respectfully. Someone to have great conversations with, smile and laugh and occassionally have a good-spirited debate. Someone to be goofy with me, show me new things, try new things and enjoy the beauty of life. Someone who has goals and wants to eventually share his life with a best friend and partner.Could that be you? For a first date, I would prefer to do an activity like bowling or playing pool or darts which I think is more fun & gets you past the awkward conversation moments. I am rather shy at first, so it's more fun to have something to banter about. First dates are always awkward. I think it takes at least 3 or 4 dates to really see if you like someone. (Unless of course the first date is a really rude experience.)

  • Shaniya

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hello...Here are a few things, you might wish to know about me. I read my bible daily, yes I believe in God. I love music. I listen to all varieties. I am listening to .. Jar of hearts by: Christina Perri right now. Ps. I love music. I have a few tattoos. Sometimes I write poetry or should I say try to.****nson. I love to fish,camp, playing pool, throwing darts, Mud bogging, take long walks,swimming, spending time with family and friends,going for long drives to nowhere, discovering new places and new things, cooking, bowling, I love animals, gardening, I don't mind getting my hands dirty. I do have a garden, flowers,veggies and some fruit trees, not big ones, but they are growing. I love avocados, I have a few of them growing. I like to try to grow things just to see if I can. Some other info for you. I do not wake up with perfect hair, my breath is not minty fresh when I wake up, I still eat all the marshmallows in a bowl of lucky charms first, I do love my jogging pants and a tanktop, If I do not have to wear shoes, I do not. Yes I am a flip-flop kind of girl. I do not look so cute, when playing the dance game, on the Wii, with my 8 years old son, so do not watch. Some things I do not like squash, okra. I am not like many and do not try to be anyone else. You will either love me or hate me. I say how I feel.It has come to my attention that I may need to attach a few additional words here.... So that you proceed not to waste your time. I am not looking for every gentleman. Every gentleman will not have my number.I am picky. I am looking for that one that will last for a lifetime. Not just survive a few days. I do not proceed out dating everybody that ask me on a date. After conversing for a while if we seem to hit it off, have a few things in common, some of the same desires, then we can try a date and go from there. Yes, my profile says, "wants to find someone to marry " . That does not mean tomorrow or that I will just wed anyone. I am a single mom, I have been single for a while now and am not frightened to continue that way, until such time I discover the right one or he finds me. A portion of this may not seem sensible or crazy to several on here, and that is fine .We are not all here seeking for the same things. That just implies it's not you that I am looking for, likewise I am not the one for you. P.s. Thank you, for taking the time to read about me!! If it's meant to be, it will be. I hope if I am not the one for you, that you find her soon, good luck!!Will update as needed.. I will come back to this later, I think.It is not what I want to do anyway. (It's we)How could I say what we should go and do?I think that can be talked about, when we come to that point and time.Maybe a dance in the rain.

  • Annie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-52

    Hi! My name is Annie. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Sierra Vista, Arizona, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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