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Melynda, 40

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About Me

I'm looking for a tall WHITE man to come sweep me of my feet... I am a lot of fun, and that can get me into trouble...but at this point in my life I realize the value of me. I am responsible, motivated, compassionate and honest. I like to be outside and spend time at the beach with family or friends. I work as much as I can so im a hard worker. I have done some soul searching lately and realize that what is missing may be the values in a man that have the capacity to complete me...With that being said, i have no want to bear another child. No children wanted. I'm too old, lolThere is no shortage of men in the world, but I am looking here to increase my chances of finding a good one. I try to stay physically fit so I am looking for the same. Chemistry is something that can not be disguised so false pretense need not apply. I like a man who knows how to organizae his world as stability is required. So, if you are interested in treating a lady like a lady, I am interested in hearing from you. An update: If you smoke, ok, Just don't make your profile pic that one of you smoking, or any of them for that matter. It's unattractive for me to see that in your pic. And also don't get fresh on me while your smoking. Get done with it first....HUGE TURN OFF. We All have kids just about.... But don't bring their picture up in your profile, that's something meant to see down the road. I have a 19 year old that i love dearly. But wouldn't put his pic up on my dating website profile. You must be clean and shower everyday. Brush your teeth and keep yourself trimmed up for gods sakes. I do. I am saying this for obvious reasons. I get messaged by men who want children. I do not wish to have anymore children. My son is 19. I am finished with raising babies. Suprise me with an unforgettable time ;) I need to see that a man can still sweep me off my feet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Limk41B

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-32

    Hi 😘😘 If you want my sexy body 😘 dm me 0n *** or lG . coZ I know its more active in mu *** and lg meet my terms and see where it goes. l.G ; *** *** ***

  • Chung

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ***** ATTENTION: I do NOT date black men...Or rednecks. Sorry..just need to get that out here. Not racist, but it's just my preference. Respect it. Thanks.****** Referring to the above..please do NOT send me unintelligent messages questioning my preference...honestly, respect it and move on. Thank you :)**Hey guys..!Easing my way back into the dating scene..so, I'm not looking to rush into anything, slower is better anyway... I want to get to know you on a friendship level first. That way it allows both of us to just be ourselves, because what you see is what you get with me..I'm not going to play games with you..honestly, I'm just too old for that mess. That being said..I love meeting new people and making new friends, and if anything should develop out of that, then that's great..if not, well, that's ok too and my feelings will not be hurt..lol. I might not be everyone's cup of tea..but I sure as hell am someone's shot of Vodka. Or Tequila. :)Just a little about me, I am divorced and I have one daughter who is 11. She is the love of my heart and her opinion of who I allow in my life is very important to me. I moved to SC from FL in ***and I love it here, would never go back.. Let's see...this says to be successful on meetville I should talk about my hobbies, etc..lol. Ok, so I love to cook, bake, ( which I'm extremely good at, might I add..:)) lay out in the sun, go jogging, or spending time with my daughter. I do like to be outdoors, but I'm not gonna rock climb or fall out of a plane for you. I have a very big personality and and I'm very much an extrovert..there is nothing "shy" about me. I'm sarcastic at times and I promise you WILL laugh when with me..my friends would say I "crack them up" and your mom would love me. Hey, I'm jus sayin.. ;) As for what I'm looking for in a guy..well, I guess it's pretty simple. Not looking for a one nightie, an fwb, exchanging endless *** I'll just drop out after so much of that..seriously, I'm not afraid to meet you or talk to you.) or anything else that's trashy. ( including potheads, drunks, or married & otherwise unavailable men. Really? ... wow ) I would like to meet a well rounded, decent, honest, loyal man with integrity, intelligence, depth, and knows how to treat and respect women. Please be responsible and dependable! I have learned that how a man treats his sister, mother, or grandmother is exactly how he will treat his woman. As far as looks go..I'm not a shallow kind of girl. A guy that is fun, can make me laugh, and has a great personality goes way further with me than how he looks, although of course there should be a mutual physical attraction, I do not "focus" on what he should look like over his character or who is he as a man. I don't care how much money you make or what you drive. I don't need a father for my daughter, and I'm not a money sucking gold digger.. I can take care of myself. I have no respect for women who use men for money like it's some sort of joke. They are needy and co dependent, which is so sexy. ( said no man ever..)So if you want to know more, drop me a line and maybe there will be a connection, but if not, I do wish you well in your search..these days it's SO HARD to find a real, genuine person..choose carefully and good luck!~~ It doesn't really matter if your glass if half full, or half empty...just be grateful you have a glass..and there's something in it..~~ :)*** Oh and honey...you don't handle a redhead..if your lucky, .she handles you*** ;)** I guess I should also say that I'm not the one to send the first message...sorry, just a little ole fashioned I guess... :) ** Something fun and simple, no pressure ( and NO MOVIES lol )

  • Lauri

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    The truth is I am a good girl with a bit of a wild side. I love to spend Sunday afternoons snuggling on the couch watching football. However, if the opportunity to go on a spontaneous get-away came up, I could be packed and ready to go in an *** am not offended by a dirty joke and I secretly love movies that just make me laugh and don’t make me think. Having a sense of humor is very important to me. A man that can make me laugh is very sexy. I love spending time at the lake and I love being in the sun. I love a good movie, a good laugh, a good book and a good drink-not necessarily in that order. I’m very passionate about helping others. I work in the human services field, supervising clients with developmental disabilities on their mission to finding employment to lead more meaningful lives. My children and my family and my close friends are the most important thing to me; they are what make my life more meaningful. I have 2 children that I adore and nothing means more to me than cheering them on in their activities. I am looking for that person who brings out the best in me and tolerates my quirks. I want someone who will be passionate about me and allow me to be an important part of their life as well. I believe that love conquers all, but that’s because I am a hopeless romantic.

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