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Bekki, 30

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I'm a single Mom of an 8yr old girl,looking for someone to hang out with (NOT SEX).To seriously spend time & do things like go to the movies, out dinner,etc.You will NEVER be around or meet my kid unless we become serious.She has a Great Dad already so I'm not looking for someone to be her Daddy OR support us. I'm VERY independent & like my own space & my own time but am lonely.I'm not really outdoorsy but I'm very versatile & am a VERY UNIQUE female.I enjoy the little things in life, like raising my daughter PROPERLY, enjoying my puppy "; that I rescued from the local shelter,reading good books,watching good movies OR going to the gun range.I listen to every type of music.I LOVE movies (not musicals tho).I enjoy good poetry also~~I love finding the Beauty in life bc it's all around us but most ppl are too busy with their lives to take the time to notice it~***Do NOT contact me if u have DRAMA!I don't care is it's baby Mama drama or crap you choose to surround yourself with.I'm very blunt & honest.I keep it real to a fault bc I hate Bullsh*t AND Bullsh*ters.++DISCLAIMER++ I want to be clear on the fact that I will NOT sleep with u! I hold myself AND my body in high regard & have respect.I'm looking for an exclusive relationship when I meet someone that I feel is a good guy.I do however DEMAND RESPECT.I never ask for more than I can give,as far as Respect,being Loyal & Faithful.Either you will really like me or really dislike me.But, don't contact or msg me of your going to be rude, disrespectful or come at me sideways!!With ALL that being said I'm generally a happy & fun female.I hope to hear from you if you think the right caliber of man ;-) Id like to meet someone for dinner,not at anyplace in particular or too fancy.Im happy with a Coney restaurant.Or I could meet some to go bowling,shoot pool or go to the gun range.Then, if we like eachother we could do something else after possibly,NOT SEX bc I will NOT sleep with u.I listed that earlier but in case u missed the disclaimer,I have respect for myself & want someone that is DRAMA AND BULLSH*T free.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamekia

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I am getting a little to mature for the bar scene so here I am looking for the "Best I Ever Have". I am not sure what I am looking for exactly, long-term is my ultimate goal. Its not like meeting the guy next door or the crush from high school..... I know what I am attracted to and if you message and I do not respond sorry I am just not interested! I am not looking for just intimate incounters and I don't date black men or Afghanistan sorry just not into that.I like music of all sorts as long as you can hear and understand the words, I am from the country so of course that is my fall back station.I like to try new things I am a huge fan of back yard BBQ's and bonfires I just like the atmosphere that surrounds them.I have a 10 year old Son who's a very big part of my heart and always will be, I get him every other weekend and share custody no there is no drama there!I have 2 cats which I adore as well!I don't really want to talk about my exes and hopefully you don't either!I live alone for the most part and I like it that way, I really just want to meet a MAN that has his act together and we can talk get to know each other and see where it goes from there!I would also like to note I am not online everyday, feel free to send me a message and hopefully we will strike up a conversation! :) Who knows every ones different!

  • Addisyn

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Hello, I am a 29 y/o female seeking a partner for a variety of activities (including a relationship if one so develops). I firmly believe that the best friendships and relationships begin when the two individuals have commonalities. For this reason I will tell you a little bit about myself and my interests.I live a healthy/fit lifestyle. I eat clean and train dirty. I workout at the gym approximately 5 days a week however, I’d like to vary this now that the weather is nicer and working out can be accommodated outdoors through runs/walks and hikes. I know it’s rare, but I am a female who spends the majority of my gym session in the weight room and no I don’t go in with full make-up and lift 5lb weights. I take my weight training seriously and realize that the effort I put into my training is seen in my results. With that said, I am not always so strict. I enjoy having a “cheat” Life is about balance.I am well educated, I have a full time job, and I own a car. I am a SoCal girl at heart and struggle to find commonalities with most Portlanders. Someone to be a workout partner who takes workouts seriously either in the gym or on a trail somewhere. I love to do spontaneous activities including day trips and weekend trips to spots I’ve not yet explored.’s fests especially the OBF and potentially others. I love wine tasting and fine dining (on occasion, I try and stick with a clean diet as much as possible). Sometimes a night in is fun too! - Barbequing and talking about the week’s events. One of the things I have always wanted to do was run a half-’t spend the time training for it until I was out of school. I am now done and looking for a partner to join me in some of the fun 5k’s to start. These are all things I have not yet done, but would love to indulge in. I do not own a bike, but might consider bike riding under the proper circumstances. I prefer men who are tall (6'0" or taller), in shape physically, financially stable, educated, and mostly clean cut, a little stubble never hurt anyone. ;)Please let me know if you think you fit the bill. Should you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to send a message.

  • Tommy

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I try to be down to earth and honest with people. I smile and laugh as much as possible (when appropriate). I tend to put others first and don't have too many moments of selfishness. Often get told I'm very cheerful, friendly, caring, and a weird hybrid of nerd, geek and outdoorsy. Friends joke that I'm one of the guys and drama free (because drama annoys me and I tend not to associate myself with it!)These days I've been trying to be more adventurous and doing more physical activities to get fitter and healthier (not quite there but greatly improved from before). I study Shorinji-kan Jiu-Jitsu so you may see me bruised up a lot from it. Recently tried Parkour for the first time, would love to learn to do that better. Pretty good at baking, cooking not so much. But I do make an amazing breakfast!I have grey and green eyes, hence selecting "Other".I'm not necessarily looking for someone who's geeky, only because I've dated so many of those in the past and none of them have worked. So if you consider yourself pretty geeky, I'd pass on messaging me. I'm going in a direction where I would like to meet someone with enough interests different from mine. It would be nice to meet such a person and expose each other to those interests and discover new possibilities.My profile says "Looking to date but nothing serious", only for now. I would prefer to date someone for a while and then down the road figure out if there's long term potential. Organic development is always the best way. Really prefer to avoid the cliche's like dinner or movies, but I'm not opposed to these. I would mainly avoid movies for a first date because you really can't talk to each other. A little creativity is always appreciated.

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