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Tatum, 51
United States, West Virginia, Wellsburg

Offline, last seen Tue, 19 May 2026 01:43:28

About Me

I am a very loving, caring, low maintenance, honest woman. If you ask me something, you will get an honest and direct answer. That is how I am and expect the same in return. If brutal honesty isn't something you can take, then I'm sorry. Best of luck in your search. I tend to be a homebody. I'd much rather rent a movie, pop some popcorn and snuggle on the couch than to go out. I'd love to find someone that can just sit back and enjoy the simple things in life with me. I am unable to walk any distance due to some back issues, so hiking is out but short walks are great. I am a computer game junky, which I got into with my son when he was 9 to keep an eye on him. Now I play more than he does LOL he is 23 years old now and I have an adult daughter with 2 kids. My son and his new bride live with me to help me out when my back is acting up. I'll give you more info on that if you ask me.I'm looking for someone who can accept me for who I am, who knows how to laugh at themselves as well as at the world like I do, but also is compassionate and careing. Because I am very affectionate, if you don't mind that, that is a huge plus to me. I don't mean to the point of trying to crawl into each others skin ***no matter where we are. I've dealt with people like that and that would make anyone crazy, but hand holding and such is awesome.I also love animals. Seems like every time I turn around someone is knocking on my door with a sick animal or stray that needs a home so I constantly have animals coming and going. One thing I want to make cystal clear is I will NOT be rushed into meeting you or telling you exactly where I live. Anyone with a minute bit of common sense would be able to understand that. If that is an issue then I'm sorry but I've met too many jerks to break this rule.Thanks for stopping by and drop me a note if you want to talk. I don't bite TOO hard... ***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it(in memory of my mom passed ***of brain cancer) First date/meeting would have to be somewhere public for obvious safety reasons. A park is always a good option, a restaurant for dinner or just coffee/tea or soda, wherever we could just be ourselves and not have to compete with loud music or too many people. I'm very easy going, actually prefer a quieter place but should really be somewhere there's some people around for safety and comfort sake.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Caribbean Irish Middle Eastern Adventure Animation Comedy Crime Horror Rodeo Soccer / Football
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  • Nathaly from Wellsburg | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm hopeful about meeting someone...life is better when you have someone with you to experience the every day things with. I hope to find someone that I can't wait to talk to at the end of the day or better yet, the start of the day! I'm pretty independent but would like to have someone in my life that I care about to be there for me...not saying I'm needy just feel like something is missing! I would prefer a first date to be something simple to see if there is chemistry between us. Anything spontaneous is good! Going for a drink or coffee just to see if there are any sparks would be fine!

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  • Charise from Wellsburg | Woman | 53 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Thought for the moment:: Everyone you meet is afraid of something...Loves something, and has lost something! Life is short - let's get out of here.Best of luck in your search for Love!XO ***WARNING: *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason - you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice!

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  • Hiedi from Wellsburg | Woman | 55 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    IF YOU DON'T LIKE TALKING ON THE PHONE AND THINK TEXT AND *** CONVERSATION...I DON'T!!! Text is to just say hi or to see if we can talk on the phone. I will NOT hold a conversation by texting. Dang, I hate to keep adding things here. It's been pointed out to me that I cuss, sometimes too much...I'm 55 and don't think this will change much...if cussing upsets you, guess you should pass me byI DON'T TAKE RIDERS...PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR AND DON'T ASK!PLEASE!!! IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR LIVING WITH SOMEONE IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME! I'm NOT interested in being ON THE SIDE or a F-BUDDY. Please read my profile and make sure we have some things in common before contacting me...I won't hesitate to tell you if I think we don't.THE MENTALITY OF THE MOTORCYCLEBE WHAT YOU ARE SAY WHAT YOU THINK DO WHAT YOU WANT GO WHERE YOU WILL STAND BY YOUR WORDIf you scare easy, you might as well quit reading now. Or maybe looks are the most important thing to you. Keep going. When a hand is extended upon meeting someone new and the handshake is not accepted, that's an insult. If someone writes to me, even though I'm not interested, I do send a response. What's wrong with the rest of you? Do you have so many friends that you don't need another? I'm just saying, it's rude not to respond when someone makes a friendly gesture. I don't feel you can get to know someone well through texting and IM. I like to go to the phone pretty quickly, hear a person's voice, laugh with them and see if we have anything to say to each other.While I am looking for a long term relationship, I'm also interested in making new friends. As for the relationship thing, I am looking for that man who can look me in the eye, always tell me the truth and make me laugh. You might think that telling the truth is easy but I've come to find people avoid it when they think someone will get mad at them for saying it. I prefer to tell the truth and hear the truth, even if it hurts someone's feelings or mine. Those that prefer to deal with things by using the silent treatment need not apply. ALSO, SINCE I RIDE MY OWN MOTORCYCLE, I'D PREFER SOMEONE WHO RIDES FOR A RELATIONSHIP. Nothing better than being on the road with your someone special. If you don't ride, I know we could be friends but if you didn't like motorcycles and many people don't, well, that wouldn't work out.I believe myself to be intelligent, hilarious and sexy. I am passionate about many things, in a relationship and in the world. I believe that I can do anything (my mom agrees)and I usually succeed, sometimes due to blind luck. I am a smart ass and politically, libertarian is about the only thing I can find some agreement on. One of my friends says I'm a redneck-liberal. About church and God. I don't go but I believe...something I read in an *** "I'd rather be on my bike thinking about God then be in church thinking about my bike." I say "Thank God" everytime I ride for giving me a good day to ride and the ability to ride my own.I'm hoping to find the person who is already the way I imagine my man to be. Hopefully, I might be close to your ideal. Let's face it. We're grown and pretty much set in our ways. I've also found something out about kissing. If you don't like the way someone kisses, where can you go from there? Friends for sure. I like my kisses slow, soft and sensual. Hard and quick is only good for a couple of things...kissing is not one of them.I am a free spirited, slightly opinionated woman and hoping to find the same in a man. I love the wind in my face, whether on a horse, a motorcycle, the beach or the top of a mountain. If you have little interest in music or listen to things like smooth jazz or easy listening, we ain't gonna get along. Don't know much about classical music but wouldn't mind learning more.One more caveat. I treat others the way I would like them to treat me. This means I try to always do what I say I'm going to do. Call when I say I'll call. Be there when I say I'll be there. Many people seem to have a problem with this but I believe it's the way grown up human beings should act.One more thing...I understand if you don't want to write a lot about yourself or post a picture on this site but if you contact me, be ready to have a conversation, send more info and a picture to the ***'ll provide Let's ride!

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