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AdaminaOffline
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
What can one say about themselves that could be considered appealing to another? Your guess is as good as mine. I could tell you many things about me, what I like, dislike, and how I see the world but you still would not understand anything about me. To really know someone you need to actually take the time to get to know them. I have been off and on this site for a while, I think this site takes to much time and energy but for some reason that is just the way the world works today. People don't meet the old fashion way and even if you do, does that make it better or easier?? Not really, it can be just has hard. So about me.... I have kids and those kids are important to me. My children's happiness comes before all else in my life. I am in school, that too is very important to me and requires a lot of my time. After that and when I have time for me I like to enjoy a movie, read a book, and honestly just sleep. I Love naps :) I enjoy many things in life but again that is all part of getting to know someone. I have had a lot of negative things happen over the past months that have left me hesitant and unsure about the whole dating thing. I do not wish to receive pictures of****or comments about sucking it. I do not want to play the mind games of I like you but I am to busy. I don't need crazy stalkers following me around town and bugging my neighbors. I understand all of this sounds a bit much but hey, people want honesty right!! So hear it is. It has been said that you can tell in just seconds if you want to get to know someone or have an attraction to them. It is also said that after 5 minutes of meeting a person you will know if you want to continue getting to know that person. So as lame as it sounds I think a drink or a cup of coffee is perfectly fine for two people to meet. After that the sky is the limit.
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DorlaOffline
Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
Don't ask stupid questions, please. Read this and if it isn't your fit move on! It's just a waste of time if you don't!First lets talk about body type. Average doesn't mean you got a big ole gut and a flabby ass! Athletic means you have a muscular body (not some muscle buried under a bunch of fat!). A few extra pounds means you should stop eating McDs and get your a$$ to the gym. Just sayin.I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOUR PENIS BEFORE I MEET YOU!!!!! I WILL NOT SEND YOU NUDIE PICS OF MYSELF!I am a passionate person who emphasizes family values and being a good friend to people.I have an 18 year old cat and a 10 week old cat. I love my cats like they are my kids--they aren't going anywhere!If you want to meet for a drink and change your mind please be courteous and let me know in a timely fashion. First of all my time is precious (so is yours) and I don't appreciate losing any of it. Second, it's just disrespectful.Dancing, hiking, camping, bonfires, wild animals (I know right), dining, cooking, sleeping, cuddling, festivals, music, picnics, parties, wine, good beer-especially on a patio on a hot summer day, fabulous conversation, intellects, water, beaches, estuaries, science, math: All words that describe things I enjoy. "The meaning of the word *** and "Trust me on the sunscreen" videos are quite frankly my favorite videos (youtube)--the messages are very near and dear to me. I am a huge fan of grainy 80s movies in addition to 80s music. I enjoy movies and I watch shows like Desperate Housewives and Glee. Big fan of 2 TVs in the house--that way, while you watch sports (unless its hockey or football) I can watch what I like to watch too!Music is a blessing. I enjoy all types (well OK I tolerate country and am learning to like it) but mostly I am trance and house junkie.I have a very colorful background. If you don't want to hear the stories about the madness of my youth, move on! I talk to some of my x's-I hope you do too. My best friend is a guy. These things aren't changing. If you can't spell--don't bother. If you can't have an intelligent conversation please don't waste my time! If you are lazy and/or unemployed, live with your mom or dad, are in the middle of a divorce (this means separated too!!!), have jealousy issues or really any issue with me going out with my friends get-lost!I am NOT religious in a traditional sense--will never be (I am a pantheist). Don't thump me in the head with a bible! I think the coolest thing is the diversity that religion offers--I am ashamed of those who think that what they believe is any better than the rest! I do believe in the 10 commandments--if that helps.Politics...hmmmm. Probably a liberal on the conservative side. I seem to get more conservative as I get older.If you have pictures of your kids on THIS website there is something wrong with you and I would prefer never to hear from you. Please don't allow your children to be the awwww factor--It is just plain gross! They shouldn't even meet a new "friend" until a few months into a relationship.Your opinion is just as important as mine.Honesty is the best policy! Somewhere for a drink or coffee, walk at the lake--public. I am not just gonna swing by your place or have you to mine before I meet you!
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JanettOffline
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.